I told my average size boyfriend he's the biggest for 6 months, then I tell the truth - my ex was thick as my wrist.

[Anonymous]

He is upset and thinks that I can't feel anything because my ex had me so stretched out.but I tell him he is better and hits the right spot and that the other guys always hurt cause it was to big.HOW WILL HE FEEL ?WILL TIME & EGO STROKING HELP HIM REGAIN HIS SEXUAL CONFIDENCE ? ITS BEEN 2 months already and he is still down and sick over it he curses for no reason and won't sleep or eat.

[tammymac]

The thing is men are VERY sensitive about ANY criticism about their penis size. You can even give a well endowed man a complex if you say the wrong thing. I personally think he needs to grow up, It's been 2 months! The size of his member is not going to change so either he needs to let it go, or let go of you if he can't get over it. The man knows what size he is, after all he has been comparing himself to other men all his life. By now he 's got to know he's not the biggest one out there. Why do you have to feel guilty because you were with someone bigger. I definitely WOULD NOT! throw that fact in his face. Try not to mention it ever again, but if he insists on talking about it (and he probably will) reassure him he's the right fit for you. Men never seem to believe it when they are told the big one's actually hurt, they think it's just something we say to sooth their egos, but really it's the truth.

[eithyy]

Unfortunately it was your own mistake to tell him that. Never compare a current relationship to a past one, sexually. Guys are all about pride with their sexual ability and, and size/thickness is usually associated with it. If you tell your guy your ex was bigger, of course he's going to be p*ssed and insecure. If he's still angry after two months I don't know if there's much else you can do. He'll either forgive you or he won't.

[Miyuki]

OMG NEVER tell a guy your ex was bigger, even if he was! That's like a guy telling you his last girlfriend had larger boobs and was skinnier! If you want to tighten up, do kegel exercises.

[mikesaracino]

And this is why guys can't trust what women say. One of these day you women will figure it out. Honesty uncomfortable as it is at times is always the best policy long term.

[Miyuki]

I didn't say lie to him, I just meant avoid the topic. You really shouldn't talk about intimacy with ex boyfriends unless he asks.

[MmaTender]

you never tell a guy that... EVER.. ever ever ever. the only exception might be if a guy genuinely does not care either way. Some guys could take it as a challenge, So I'm not the biggest, then I'm just going to be the best... But that is a gamble I don't think any woman should take

Here's one problem you just shown him you lied to him about something like this, what else could you be lying about

another problem is he now is going to doubt anything you tell him from now on

is it your all fault no, he was a dumbass for even asking that question. So he has learned this lesson the hard way.

Do you have a chance, well I'm an optomist, I believe any scar can be healed. You might be looking at professional help if your serious

[TC123]

Haha, this a joke? I must be well-endowed because I've never had a girl say that sort of thing to me.

If some girl told me her boyfriend had a penis the thickness of her wrist I'd ask if his name was Mr. Ed as she was obviously f***ing a horse (or has really skinny wrists).

[Asker]

I swear on my life this is not a joke and she has quiet large wrist actually do you think my penis will ever be the best she has had some how ? honestly I don't know this I need an outsiders view here I may be an idiot but I am being honest that's a promise , I wish I wasn't joking really bad

[TC123]

"I swear on my life this is not a joke and she has quiet large wrist actually do you think my penis will ever be the best she has had some how " Wait a minute - are you the ex with the big d*** now? None of this makes sense. If you are looser than Paris Hilton and absolutely have to have a big **** go back the Mr. Ed, or stay home and fist yourself. There are certain things you never say to a boyfriend/girlfriend, and comparing ANYTHING of theirs in an unfavorable way to an ex is a no-no.

[Asker]

I am the new boyfriend with the average penis using my girls account.can I be as good ?my girlfriend says I am better what yall think is she lieing

[TC123]

Women? Lying? Hell no, never happens! To be honest the size of your d*** doesn't really matter unless she's a big girl. Also, she has to have about as much common sense as a fruit fly if she actually told you something like that. That's like you telling her your last girlfriend had the greatest pair of t*ts you ever saw, was much better in bed, a lot smarter, not as "fat" as her, all sorts of things that you just don't say to a girl.

[Xoxonicolex3]

No she’s not lying my boyfriend gets the same way all the time but he is beyond jealous in a sense where it doesn’t matter what I do I’m his and that’s it he is very territorial as am I. Anyway the point is she couldn’t b lying because a lot of females really can not handle big penises they hurt too much or the man is too worried about themselves anyway because they’re soooo cocky. I’ve had two large penises in my life ever and I didn’t like it meanwhile I met my boyfriend a few years ago and he’s average and the best I ever had n I couldn’t b happier we’ve been together for years now I don’t kno of that helped but woman understand woman so I’m pretty sure you’re just over thinking make up with your girlfriend already lol

[SoberIrishman]

Uhm, medically speaking, a girl's vagina retracts back to it's normal size if it goes 4-6 weeks without any penetration, so the fact that your ex was thicker wouldn't make a difference really.

[Asker]

Now he says he is ashamed and embarrassed to strut around like he did before .Is he just being mean to me trying to feel better?

[Anonymous]

You definitely hurt his ego. Bad. His recovery depends on how self-conscious he is about his penis size. If he really thinks he's small compared to your ex he may never feel the same, or that will always be in the back of his mind. Future notice, keep up the lie or keep it to yourself. Some info is better left unknown

[Asker]

Will he ever feel like he is the best again THATS THE QUESTION hesays that's what drives him crazy .that he is in love with me and he knows for a fact that his isn't even close to being as thick as my ex

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, his recovery is based on how self-conscious he is. After awhile he may just forget about it, or he may still feel threatened. It's up to how he feels about you, how you make him feel, and how he feels about himself