What to do during oral sex when he comes?

Don't laugh at the ridiculousness of this question, lol, but I'm unsure of what to do when my guy says "I'm coming" (he always warns me which I appreciate). But I don't know if I'm supposed to keep sucking as per normal, or lay off a bit and finish with my hands because he gets really sensitive. And after he has come am is it better to keep touching him or just leave him be..
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Answer on your question is under number 7, 8, 9 and 10

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

  • When you know he is cumming keep sucking and suck all that good stuff right out of him. It is very sensitive and it drives them nuts if you will continue sucking some even after all his come is down your throat. Just gently suck until he naturally goes limp and then lightly massage the penis and ball sac.

    • Wow, does your boyfriend know how lucky he is having you as a girlfriend? More girls should listen to you on how to give a good bj.

    • SLUT! I mean that in a REALLY good way;) Too bad more girls aren't as comfortable with their sexuality.

Most Helpful Guys

  • When he says that, surge your sucking and stroking until you feel the first pop and taste a little tart fluid. Change your sucking to a straight pull at moderate vacuum with your lips just below the collar and milk the shaft by pulling up with a moderate grip and returning with a light one at reduced speed. When the contractions stop, go down as far as you can without gagging and give him one strong licking/sucking pull like you would on a Popsicle to "empty him out".

    • Damn! Good answer...I'd add that she should talk to him and say how much she "wants him to c*m in her mouth" and "give it to her" etc..etc... I love it when my girl says "give it to me" or "i want you to c*m in my mouth" or I want to taste you etc,.

    • How do you know when the contractions stop? I know stupid question.

    • He will be so sensitive and he will probably make you stop.

  • When you hear is breathing coming to peak, slow down just a little and just coax all that juice out of him with slower up stroke/sucks with quick down strokes. When the volcano erupts you'll be on an up stroke/suck and that juice will just go straight down your throat. You'll suck him dry. He'll think you're the greatest girlfriend in the world.

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  • I like it. when we get to this point, if she keeps her mouth there, not sucking but just holding me with it and rubs the shaft a little more until I am finished. Anything more than this gets uncomfortable.

  • With all this responses you can try to experiment :) it is sexy

  • It feels really good if you keep on sucking. Finishing with the hands is a good idea, cause soon afterward he'll get sensitive for too much pressure. Even after he's finished cumming, sucking on it for 15 seconds or so afterward feels incredible, so I'd recommend that if you're OK with that.

  • Do whatever you want; it's just a warning not to get it in your eyes--I hear it really burns.

  • Shout, "pretend I'm your mom!" and see what happens. Should be good for a laugh.

  • touching it much after he cums is pointless. maybe just slowly jack him off a few seconds then quit. and when he says he's cuming just keep going don't stop.

  • I like when she keeps touching me, but some guys don't like that, try it once, and watch his reactions and you will find out...

    Just do what you want afterward.. just keep it up till he stop squirting everywhere...