What do I do if the guy gets a boner?

Lets say I'm making out with a guy on his couch... we've only been on a few dates so I'm not ready to go very far sexually... our bodies are pressed against each other because we're kissing, and I can tell he's... umm turned on if you know what I mean. What is the appropriate reaction? I'm not expected to take care of it, right? Am I supposed to ignore it? What would you want a girl to do? Is there a certain point in time when I "should" start doing something about it?

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Most Helpful Opinion

  • Just keep doing what you're doing, it's normal for us guys to get hard when making out and touching a date. I don't expect anything to go further unless the girl starts touching me with her hand down there, so yeah just ignore it until you want to use it for something.

What Guys Said 4

  • next time act like you accidentily rubbed up against it than pull back from the kiss look him deep in the eyes laugh and say "thats it" it'll go away

  • I mean it really depends on the guy. If you think he's a good guy, wait till you're comfortable, but it's nice to know he likes you. I wouldn't much like a girl who gave me an erection to point it out, then not tend to it.

  • just let it go. you'll know when you're ready to move on to something more than just kissing. Its different for everyone, mostly just preference. I've dated girls who wanted to wait until marriage for sex and some who jumped me.

  • Just ignore it and keep on making out. You don't have to do more.

What Girls Said 2

  • Just keep on doing what you're doing. If you want more, you can escalate it; otherwise, just stay where you're at, and if he wants more than what you want, let him know and he should respect that. Just don't try to escalate it as a tease. He got aroused just because he likes what you guys are doing. I dated a guy who got aroused when I hugged him. Just a hug! And it was the first date. Of course I'm NOT supposed to have to take care of that right? lol. I mean, if YOU try to make that happen (or if you want to), then you have to take care of that; otherwise, I'd say no.

  • continue with what you are doing, just means he likes it.. haha.. and if YOU are ready to move it up a notch then slip your hands down there and rub the tip.. but overall you shouldn't worry.. it is COMPLETELY normal and just means he likes/ loves it. If you are ready for other stuff (not sex) grind slowly up and down his crotch and let your pelvis rest on his with occasional movements. But overall don't point it out, it could kill the mood.

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