If I'm going to go after a girl, most likely she's going to be quite heavy. Obviously when you see someone for the first time, physical attraction is the only thing you have to go on. If I met a big girl because I thought she was attractive but began to like her I wouldn't care what she looked like... Show More
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My dear, when you are with someone, you are usually always telling them how they make you feel, how attractive they are to you etc etc etc. If your chubby chickie is confident, and feels good about herself and is secure in the relationship with you, then you should be able to talk to her about anything- including your fetishes and what you like. If she is the girl for you she will accept those things.
So try not to worry. :)