Chubby girls turn me on... I'm just too embarrassed to admit?

I am 19 years old, 2nd year collage, not tall not short, not fat not skinny... When ever I see a chubby girl ( not too fat just chubby ) I get aroused, one time I hugged a chubby friend of mine, I got this shivering and a damn boner while hugging her ( I felt as if I was having sex with her ) , I Jerked off right after that. I just can't help it, seeing a naked girls in front of me, doesn't give me half the feeling of seeing a chubby nun... If my family or friends ever heard about this, they will laugh, make fun of me, treat me differently... So I won't just go bounty hunting chubby girls. At least if I see a chubby girl who is interested in me, I'll go for it by then.. But most chubby girls are friendly, and rarely I see a chubby girl showing her affection, or giving hints that she likes a guy...
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  • Ha Ha. I find this so interesting/funny how different so many of our cultures are. Don't know eactly what your definition of chubby is but regardless different cultures embrace different ideals in beauty. I'm not chubby, just curvy. Then again you might think what I think is curvy is chubby?

    lol. anyway I'm all mixed up (white american, mixed race latina, black latina, and african american) and in my family's culture guys openly love girls anywhere from curvy girls to straight up fat chicks. A lot of them like thin girls too but curves are generally preferred. The white part of my family generally has guys who prefer thinner girls and the guys who don't hear all kinds of things like "chubby chasers," "porkers", etc... On the other side of my family, if guys date girls who are thin with narrow shapes the black guys or mixed guys will make fun of them for dating "little boys" or say they need to give her a cheeseburger or something, call her "pancake ass," etc. I think people just judge what's different from whatever their norm is. I don't really but a lot of people do. I'm into chicks and I've been with thin ones and chubby ones (I like it all) but I prefer just curvy.

    You are still a kid but at the same time you're a man. I'm not sure of what its like to be embarrassed by something like that. what's the point? you like what you like, big deal. falling down the stairs might be something to be embarrassed about, but this just seems kind of like whatever. sure they might tease you a bit but I'm sure its not going to be some catastrophic thing in your life. they'll get over it. and if you associate with the type of people who wouldn't get over it easily, then I feel bad for you for that reason alone.

    • Whut up yoda

    • I guess it has something to do with culture and or ethnicity, because I am from latinoamerica and I fucking love chubby girls, and felt really shocked when I realized a lot of English speskers found them to be gross (including some girls that weren't even too big, just very barely chubby). I mean, I can get it if they don't like girls from chubby to big size or straight up fat, but even women that are jus barely over average (and with hot bodies if you ask to me) were treated like disgustinf pigd by some morons.

  • You shouldn't be ashamed of liking chubby girls! Your family and friends might tease you at first but if you treat it seriously and make it clear that you are not going to give in to social pressure then they will just drop it. It's really not that big of a deal but I understand what you mean. I have the same problem in reverse. I'm chubby and like thinner guys. Some people tease me (aka not important people) but I just ignore them.

  • You go guy! Squis that fat of an adorable chubby girl! They're so cute I know... (I'm a chubby girl to) I never ever had a boyfriend :( I think those chubby girls just don't expect that there is a guy that would love to date them, Just go for it! Ask them. I think they would be so happy! Goodluck!

    • Plenty of them out their couldn’t stop squishing your soft belly

Most Helpful Guys

  • If they are cute what's the problem? I've dated girls who were rail thin models up to chubbies, and I have to say chubby girls are far better. I don't mean they have fat rolls hanging off em, but some extra meat never hurt anyone. Some ways to get back at your friends - if you're dating a chubby you're getting laid. They aren't. Chubbies usually have really epic t*ts. Big girls give the best blowjobs (I don't have physical proof, but trust me on that one). When you go out to eat she will have something more than a salad (never date a model, you'll feel guilty over every burger and fry you eat).

    Insofar as getting with one, just talk to them.

    Oh, and if your family and friends keep talking smack, remember: We all wake up next to the fat girl at one point or another. Any guy that plays the field and says he hasn't is a liar. Getting laid is getting laid and they played that game guaranteed. And if they haven't then they don't have balls, and if they don't have balls they can't be talking smack to you.

  • So, you're going to refuse to be happy, with a girl who'd be happy with you, because of what family and friends would say? The appropriate response to such critics is "Go to hell" if they're family, "F*ck you" if they're friends.

    Will it strain a few relationships? Yes. Tough. I don't let people tell me who to date.

    P.S.: You know what listening to them gets you? Girls you don't want. Who know you don't want them. Sucks for you, sucks for them, sucks for everybody except the idiots who got you into that mess. You need to lose your patience with this.

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  • Just know you're not abnormal. Plenty of guys like chubby and larger girls. Go for the girls you like if it's your thing! You'll be much happier you did. And I'll tell you when you get older, it's all you and your significant other and good friends that matter. If your family has an opinion, tell them to suck it the fuck up and move on with that nonsense.

  • yeah, most of us chubby gals think most men are repulsed by any woman that is 3 lbs too fat so we don't bother making the first move most of the time. let her know you like her. otherwise she probably thinks you're too good for her and that she needs to lose 30 lbs to be in your league.

  • Be proud of your preference, chubby girls need all the love in today's skinny promoting culture.

  • I don't find it odd. Mainly 'cause I know that my brother has a girlfriend who's on the chubby side. While he isn't. (I'd say that he's "average", but at least *slightly*... what was it... instead of "muscular")

  • I don't see why you should be ashamed of it, I'm 18 (yeah, I know my profile says otherwise, I screwed up while registrating) and from my whole teenage girls I've found chubby girls to be really cute, there's nothing wrong with it.

  • Hell I will admit it, I like them too.

  • I like chubby girls too and normal girls 😁🍀🍀😅

  • fuk her if she gives you a boner do oral sex find a way to sike your balls up her ass

    • Lol !

  • Yeah their attractive as hell

  • Chubby girls are so much fun to have sex with. I think they feel better, in my opinion.

  • Chubby girls also turn me on but I haven't admitted it yet

  • I have never dated a girl under size 14 I'm married to a bbw that's yo yos between size 22 and 26. You what I worry about? Getting a boner in an embarrassing place coz she done something to get me going. There was a comment about fat girls giving good blow jobs. I love my Mrs going down on me but then I also enjoy all her holes. I like fat girls coz your not scared hugging to tight or hard sex is going to break them so next girl that gives you a boner kiss her neck, cheek or her lips if you can and tell her you have feelings for her its about what makes you happy not society

  • You are on the same page as me, besides I am a little younger and I never had a chubby girl hug me and then jacked I off from it. I am on the same page with the friends and family thing. If they found out I was into chubby girls they would treat me like an animal probally. I as well only like chubby girls, any girls past 200 lbs, Ehh nope.

  • Would you rather worry about what other people think, or be balls deep in a chubby chick of your choosing? Who cares what other people say? Do what makes you happy. For the record , I like 'em chubby too. They are so soft and plump...almost like a piece of heaven!