It's one of the most intimate things 2 people can experience, shared between 2 people that really love eachother. I find with guys I'm just having casual sex with I can't or don't look them in the eye when they're inside me but with a guy I'm head over heels about, you just want to pleasure them and that's all you care about. Making sure they enjoy it is all that matters when you love them and looking them directly in the eye is the way you see if they do. When you both look each other in the eye when having sex and coming up to an orgasm it's the most intimate thing you can do. Because it's when you are totally losing control of yourself, and looking at someone in the eye when totally losing your self control is very intimate and shows you really care about someone and really trust them. It's fantastic. And it increases the closeness between you two directly afterward, because you have shared your orgasm with them in the most intimate way by looking them directly in the eye and showing your most vulnerable self.
Guess it would go a little like this; If you are having sex with someone you really care about I think you are going to have eye contact for several reasons.
1 you care about this person
2 you want to be sure your partner is enjoying it
3 you just plain enjoy looking at your partner
Now on the other hand if you are just banging someone you don't really care about, its just for gratification you might not look the person in the face. The reasons above mean nothing in this situation and you are just in it for the sex.
I absolutely make and maintain eye contact. One of the things I have learned about women and sex is that they like the guy to be present with them. This means that they are not staring at the wall thinking about another girl or the football game. They want to know that they are the important one in the moment. If a guy is not looking into the woman's eyes then it can mean that he is thinking about something else.
For me, I maintain eye contact at all times and always try to have a smile on my face so that she doesn't think I'm upset or something else.
yes, definitely. it doesn't really matter the terms I am on with the woman.
one thing I like to do, is not so much when going full bore, but during the more passionate moments of sex, especially when we both come at the same time, once she starts to relax, gaze elegantly into her right eye with my right eye
this is actually called soul gazing and it can even be done during normal conversation to intensify sensations and create deeper sense of the other person
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't. I have really only had casual sex with this one guy... Both time he has pushed hair out of my face to look at me. Last time he told me directly to look at him. I have no idea why. Thoughts?
The best eye contact is when she's on her knees looking up at me. Booyah!
YEA!
I guess you just wanna see what faces they're making, then you see their eyes staring at you, so you stare back. I don't think it means that much if anything. I know when people are performing oral sex though they like to look up at the person they're doing it to, to turn them on, see their expression, or to give a ''sexy'' look.
Sometimes. Depends. Some positions it's simply not possible.
HOW CAN U? girls make soooooooo many funny faces lolol not to mention during sex gurls lose control of thier eyes, lol that's pretty funny to! but it is nice to get the gaze returned to you every once in a while
Honestly , I'm going through this now with a guy I'm dating. he just told me he wants to be more serious with me and then BOOM during sex he's staring me down like a hawk... and we have wild passionate sex... there's some feelings there but were not in love so i think its connection building and reassurance.
i make very little eye contact during sex. every once in a while we catch each others gaze and its great ;)
This happend to me a week ago, I had Sex with my boyfriend I'm 16, I don't know if it was just because it was my first time (I was a virgin) or it WAS the best Sex ever an I wouldn't change it for ANYTHING! It was so passionet and we just huged and kissed an stared into eatchovers eyes and he was so gentel and half way though saying "I love you" toped with a peck and I love those type of kisses, I'd like to think it ment he really really do love you? But the guyss on hear are beingg dipshits and saying the most guy like thingss ever!! That dosnt mean all
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