I think society sets it up so that men have a more difficult time getting laid.
Men and women are held to different standards when it comes to sex. In generally, men don't get a bad reputation if they have lots of sexual partners (within reason, eventually they will start getting seen as a "player", but that's still not as stigmatizing as a woman being seen as a slut). Women are generally viewed negatively, by both men and other women, if they have a lot of sexual partners (and for a lot of people, "a lot" is still a pretty low number).
Because having "too many" sexual partners will get a woman a bad reputation---easy, a slut, not girlfriend-material, etc.---they need to be more cautious about who they have sex with. If they have one night stands, or even if they have sex with people who they might not end up in a long term relationship with, they risk their "number" going up. So, women are forced to have higher standards for who they have sex with----i.e. it has to be with someone they love or are in a long-term relationship with.
Women have to be more "choosy" when it comes to sexual partners (to avoid a bad reputation), yet men have less reason to limit their sexual partners. Since women have more reason to say "no" to sex, they end up with more power when it comes to sex.
When a man is looking or sex, he needs to work harder for it and prove to a woman that he's "worthy". Since men need to work harder, they might be less picky when a willing women does come along because it happens less often.
The only way to "balance this issue" is for people to change their view on female sexuality. If we allow women to engage in sex without being judged negatively/stigmatized, there will be more women willing to have sex and men will have an easier time finding a female partner.
Yes very good answer but now I think we don't label women a "slut" for having sex with a lot of men maybe in the past.
Unfortunately, you're very naive if you think that women are no longer labelled as "sluts". I see it on this site all the time, in people's questions and answers. In a lot of people's minds, there is a virgin/slut dichotomy for women. If you're not a virgin, you're a slut. There's also tons of guys on here who say they would only have a relationship with a woman who is a virgin, or only had one or two sexual partners. It's sad, but it's still true.
It's amazing to me that all the "bros" who are on a constant quest to get laid, are the first ones to stigmatize any girl who like sex as a slut. I know it's a bit of a rhetorical question, but don't they realize that if they didn't denigrate women who like sex, then maybe, just maybe, in time women would begin to put out more?
Not really there are women who are over weight or not very feminine or are old or seem too desperation can have a really hard time. Even if a deemed "unfuckable" women could walk into a bar and persuade someone to sleep with her (anyone since the question implies people have no standards and will plow through just about anyone) it may not be a very pleasant experience or worth the risk.
A woman could walk up to a guy and ask him to f**k her and without a doubt she will have a taker very soon. A guy asking the same question will probably go for life without a taker. It's just the way it is.
It's easier for women because they're jealous and judgmental by nature (generally speaking, there is obviously exceptions and there are certainly jealous and judgmental dudes out there) But I read somewhere on here that it's not as bad of a thing to be labeled a player than it is to be labeled a slut. That's because females receive judgment to the point of social isolation from their own gender based on who this person has slept with... I don't recall ever in my entire life where a male social circle of mine collectively isolated another male in the circle because of who they have hopped in bed with. Has there been social isolation amongst my circle? Yeah but for reasons regarding morals, principles, general interests begin to not allign like they once did, blatant disrespect, but never who they've slept with unless it's someones current girlfriend at the time. If a woman called me a player my friends wouldn't think any less of me. If I called a woman a woman a slut (especially by more than onc male) all bets are off with her social circle
Men and women are held to two entirely different standards. When a man is single, it’s automatically assumed he can’t get a girl. At no point do people think he wants to be single. When a woman is single, people assume she wants to be. Rarely do people say she can’t get a guy. There are two reasons for this. One reason is because society expects men to make the first move when approaching women. The other reason is because men will rarely turn down a woman, but women frequently turn down men. It is a supply and demand issue. If men want to have an easier time getting laid, they need to stop encouraging all their friends to fuck every attractive girl they see, and stop shaming them for not getting a lot of girls. Men view getting girls as an accomplishment, while women don’t see getting guys as an accomplishment. That is the difference.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It's definitely easier for women. But hey, if guys started saying "no" more it would be just as hard for us. Something to consider? lol
How can we say no when we don't have the asker ? lol
Not necessarily to a girl asking you straight out to have sex. But most guys I know would always take the opportunity to have sex with any girl who was willing as long as she was decently attractive. Women are aware of this, and that's why we can get it easier. If guys raised their standards for sex partners it wouldn't be so easy for us.
All in all though, the system is actually very fair. Guys are allowed to sleep with as many women as they want and be heroes, but it's harder for you to get. Women would be considered a slut for acting in that manner, but it's easier for us to get.
Yep, where you @ rite now daddy? Let's go! See, easy ;)
Yes,it is easier.
And since women basically make the final decision,there really is nothing to do.There's always girls who give it out like candy,so guys can go to those girls or prostitutes.
Yeah, nice observation Sherlock.
I think it's easier for us since pretty much any guy will say yes to sex.. But that doesn't mean we do :)
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Ha, my grandma would would have it easier to get a one night stand than most guys at the clubs.
I should also add, the problem for girls is that they need to find a guy that they actually want to have sex with. That is not a problem for guys.
Yes, as it stands women can get it easier than men.
The two solutions, which aren't mutually exclusive by the way, are for women to drop their standards, or for men to raise theirs.
In my personal life, I try to maintain high standards for which women I'd consider for sex, whilst constantly making it clear that I admire women who can give the big ideological finger to social norms surrounding their own sexuality.
women can get sex anytime...men not so much!
Duh!
"This bring me to my next question... What can we do to balance this issue?"
Women don't want sex as much as men, so for it to balance there need to be more women then men, we could fix it for future generations by selecting more female embryos and so on. If we had say 3:1 girls:guys it would probably work out better.
The no-brainer of the century. Almost any woman can get laid within hours of her decision.
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