Should I ask him to pay me for sex?

[Anonymous]

I'm in a bit of a money situation. basically I need $100 by Monday, I'm a college student so babysitting and yard work aren't really available on campus and I don't have a car. so I'm limited to campus "activity". there are no paid research studies going on right now, I've checked. So... I used to see this guy and one day we were joking and he said he would pay me for sex if we ever stopped seeing each other, well we stopped seeing each other about a month ago. I don't know if I should ask him to lend me $100 in exchange for a sexual favor? what do you think? I'm am completely open to other suggestions as to how I can make the money by Monday that's just one of the ones I thought of

[MikeLikey]

If you are sure that this guy would maintain you privacy than I say go for it. I once payed a gal pal to have sex with me. She needed $500.00 because her roommate took off with all the rent money. She asked me to borrow it off of me I said yea sure no problem. 2 weeks later she had the cash to pay me back, she came over to my place and I joking said that if she fooled around with me she could just keep it. She said REALLY? all perky.. She told me that the $500.00 was her whole pay check accept for 30 bucks. But I had to swear NEVER to tell anyone. We fooled around all night until the next morning. When she was leaving she tried over and over again to give me back $250.00 stating she only needed half to get her through until the end of the month. I refused to take any back. I told that a deal is a deal. that was 2 years ago. We had never had sex before but we had known each other for 8 years. That was two years ago. Since then I pay her to come over roughly every 6 weeks but in between that time we still just hang out, watch movies, have political arguments and just be the same old friends that we were before all this took place. It's not for every pair of guy/girl buds, but her and I are happy with this arrangement

[Americanman]

I can't believe I'm typing this. I guess if you're comfortable doing that then it works. I wouldn't pay him back though, he's paying you to make him happy and you're just doing a job. If I were you I would feel pretty guilty about him being married though.

[Asker]

Thanks! I'm starting to think I should just keep the money lol.

[saphirasilverwings]

Personally I hate the idea of associating sex with money. I think they are two things that are just incapable of mixing with honestly and integrity. Sex is meant to be something you do for the enjoyment of it, not to get something from the other person. To me having sex for money seems manipulative, below board, and just unappealing. I would never, ever do it.

Maybe you don't feel this way. It's your own choice.But also remember that, according to you, you were joking when he said he would do that. It's possible that in reality HE wouldn't be willing to do it, and that could create awkwardness between the two of you.

If you are asking him to lend you the money, not give it to you, why not just ask him outright as a favor? You could offer to do him a favor in exchange. If he happens to choose sex as his favor and you're comfortable with it, so be it. To me that's different because it's not a direct exchange.

[Aia85]

If I were you I would ask my parents even if you think they will say no. Or ask a friend for a loan.

You shouldn't have sex for money. Word will spread around and it can only end badly. And you don't know how it will effect you afterward.

[katiesmuff]

Sounds like you wouldn't mind him f**king you anyway so no harm no foul if you as to borrow $100 bucks and a good penis soaking is his interest.

[1991bh]

try it out and act like you're joking around just to scope it out

[Asker]

My plan exactly. I'm meeting up with him today for a "chat" ha ha wish me luck. I hope he walks around with $100 in his wallet

[dtaylor31906]

Have you tried asking your parents or getting a loan

but if that's not gonna work maybe you should sell sex but I wouldn't recomened you making it a habit it can ruin your social life

[Asker]

Hey thanks! the problem is this is kind of like my "last straw" so I can't ask my parents again.

[dtaylor31906]

Was they "hey thanks" sarcasm? and if you were plannning on payin the guy back you could get a small loan or somethign and just pay them back or borrow small amounts from other friends like fund 5 friends and borrow 20 dollars from each

[Asker]

No! I was being serious. that was solid advice

[dtaylor31906]

Oh well uhm your welcome lol by the way don't forget to choose best answer eventually

[JJBravo]

Just ask him for the money and see if he can help you as a friend, but not as pay for sex. If then you feel like having sex with him, then the sex is free. You should not risk getting a reputation, that is not good.

[kelseyyy]

Your body. Sacred.

Opening your legs for cash?

Not sacred at all.

-A Haiku by Kelsey

[Asker]

I mean I've slept with him before. it's not like we're strangers, just this time I need a favor as well.

[kelseyyy]

It's funny how blind our generation is. Are you going to use the $100 to restore your dignity?

[MikeLikey]

My Uncle sold his body to a mining company back in the 80's. They sent his body deep down into a hole in the ground where his body was made to do back breaking labor and his body had to breath in toxic fumes. 15 years later his body contracted lung cancer then his body died. Had he instead sold his body out to a trusted friend, for sexual services his body would still be alive. We all sell our bodies. Some of us sell our bodies to factories where their bodies are subjected to toxins and dangerous situations. Some of us sell their bodies to the military, who then send their bodies to a foreign country to fight an immoral and illegal war, to kill other bodies, and possibly have their body killed or maimed.

[MikeLikey]

But I bet if the asker had asked if she should work for a mining company, a factory or join the military to get some extra cash your advice would have been "Yeah... Go for it"

[MikeLikey]

Would you the $100.00 to remove the stick from your ass? I see no loss of dignity.

[cutekid]

I wouldn't advice that you should f*** him 4 $100 no matter how you need the cash or maybe he just wanna test your dignity,maybe he some kinda likes you and wanna get along with you,u would luk like a prostitute 2 him and whosoever he tells it about if you do it with him,gues you might hv a close and trustworthy frnd who might render help though d amount z much

[Asker]

I don't know we are friends, he's married, I guess I could just ask him to lend me money first? then offer sex if he says no. I know it's kind of f***ed up but he's really desperate because his wife neglects him in that area. he's a lot older too so getting laid is kind of a big deal for him

[cutekid]

Well if that's d case,its nt adviceable but I suggest you increase d demand 2 make it worth it...

[stermz]

Well, it depends on your level of attractiveness (Hell just being a stranger I would pay 100 if you were cute enough). In his situation, I'd ask for 2-3 sexual favors for the $100 (2-3 times of my choosing/doing whatever I wanted within reason). hahaha Best of luck though

[Anonymous]

lol you are a prostitute, nice job!

[Anonymous]

Terrible idea.

1. You know him and there will be social consequences.

2. Your price is too low. If you insist on this, charge $300 and make it worth his while.

[Jonny_]

Your second point made me laugh. :L

[Asker]

He's married so he can't tell anyone. he's 40 I'm 20 so there's also that. I should ask for $300? ha ha oh dear. I plan on paying him back so $100 is all I need.

[Opinion Owner]

Sweetie. You will have earned the $100 and more. Keep it. Is it like a pawn shop? You give back the money. Do you get some pvssy back? :-D

[l-hedoniste]

Worst case, he counter-offers at $200, and you're still ahead.

[Asker]

Omg these answers don't stop getting funnier!! I think I could squeeze $200 out of him but anymore than that and it's as if we weren't friends in the first place, honestly. I will call him tonight and propose it.

[Opinion Owner]

(Role playing) "$200 it is, if you'll throw in a little fore-play sucking.. Do we have a deal?" Then tell him you will f\nger his anus during sucking-foreplay for an additional $30.