Are sex toys as good or better than the real thing?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering...for any guys/girls that have used dildos or artificial vaginas/fleshlights...are they any better or worse than the real thing? I mean I suspect its different for guys and girls to answer this because...the penis is just a blunt solid object...easy to replicate in a dildo...Vaginas on the other hand...are the receiving end and much more complex...probably harder to replicate. I ask because of a friend who is a girl actually said she got a dildo and actually doesn't care if she has a boyfriend anymore...i was like really? hmm. are guys going to be replaced by sex toys?

[Deathecutioner]

I have seen this subject many times on the web. With this said for anyone who has used a sex toy you know how good its feels. Each toy is and emulation of the real thing with some added bells and whitles. But essentially what you want is the real thing. While these toys can offered added sensations nothing bets the real thing. They can't even come close. Everyone needs social interaction its while well are in a society well formed. The closeness of real flesh and bone, can never be duplicated with technology not matter how far well go. The bond two people share while in an intimate is what people long for. So to say some toys can be better the the human experience is impossible.

However toys do risk, numbing the experience of sex to the point where the body needs the aid. this is what people should fear.

Deathecutioner

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has some toys I bought for her for her birthday (one is a butt plug, one is a dildo, one is a rabbit) and she (or we) only use them when we are together, so either as some foreplay with me pushing the toy in and out or during sex as a double penetration. I asked my girlfiend this question (she has never used the toys on her own) and she said that having sex with a toy is just that, while when she uses them with me it adds an extra dimension to sex. With the rabbit in her p**** and the dildo in her ass she can have bigger orgasms than with my d***, but she says having me inside her is more fun. I hope this answers your question.

[Anonymous]

I prefer my toy over any man. I feel zero pleasure with a man. I completely zone out during sex and no I've had no trauma. I've never or gained with a man. Every man of course thinks he's going to be the one cause they think their dick is some magic stick. I hate it all I find it all very mechanical and I've always just done it for the sake of it and got it over and done with. My toy however I can be free. Free from all self consciousness my toy is strictly for pleasing me and nobody else. I can just whip it out and do my thing obviously after stimulating myself. I find only pleasure with my sex toy and it doesn't even vibrate. Men seem to think I'm some horny freak but with men I literally lay there like a log I hate it I don't kiss I am never turned on I am far to alert during sex. I'd happily use my toy for the rest of my life.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Im going to be honnest it depends on who my sexual partner is. Its cause I've had sex with guys who sucked very bad because they only cared about pleasing themselves with me. It was more than bad sex it was awful, they refused to return sexual favors and one of those guys lasted two minutes. In the case of that type of guy a vibrator is better all the way it lasts longer, it vibrates, and it doesn't argue. But id rather have a good lover over a vibrator any day. To me a good lover returns sexual favors and cares if you have an orgasm.

[selfishstars]

The real thing is better.

I've never used a sex toy that felt exactly like a penis. But even if there is one, a toy is not going to replace the chemistry and intimacy of sex with a real person. A sex toy can't kiss me, put its hands all over my body, talk dirty to me, pull my hair, nibble on my earlobes, run its fingers down my spine, suck on my breasts... you get the picture.

But if they do develop a toy that can do all that...

Kidding. :)

[selfishstars]

Also, it has to be able to roleplay! >:/

[Asker]

Ur right it can't do the extra stuff...but like speaking strictly intercourse...does a real penis feel better int aht regard too? or is it the same or better?

[selfishstars]

Well, like I said, I haven't found a toy that matches the "feel" of a penis exactly yet (and I have a fair number of toys, including "realistic" ones). That said, its hard to judge it just on "feeling" during insertion. When you use a toy, you have to work it with your arms, its harder to get the perfect angle, etc. And all those other things I mentioned add to the pleasure of being with a real person---you can't recreate those things/the same atmosphere, nor can I get as aroused when I'm using

[selfishstars]

A toy on my own compared to being with a partner (and my level of arousal makes a huge difference in how pleasurable I find something).

[Americanman]

It's always a relief for us men to hear we still can't be replaced with a toy. I wouldn't doubt it if some engineer is being paid to design a talking rabbit toy with hands as we speak though. LOL

[selfishstars]

Heh, I think the market for sex toys realistic enough to replace a person is bigger for men than for women. I don't think too many women would be willing to fork over $6000 for a Real Doll with a Hitachi Wand attachment. :D ...is anyone else a little freaked out about the number of sex toys shaped like animals, by the way?

[peace-love-couture]

Sex toys are like p*rn to guys

As a lover of vibrators AND p*rn,although a virgin,I would imagine to guys,porn can't replace sex right?Same for girls.

Plus,is the fleshlight better than a vagina?Probably not although I don't have a penis to vouch for that.

Penis and vagina were meant to be.They are natural friends and have natural respect and love for one another

[MandMandM]

> I would imagine to guys,porn can't replace sex right? Porn is better than sex for stuff you are curious about, but don't want to follow up on ITRW, or to balance stuff up if you have a different level of drive than your partner. Better to see a fantasy than for example to cheat or to pressure the other.

[peace-love-couture]

....then you are a loser

[MandMandM]

Just had this question cast up at random from another one. Was this just one of your vitriolic bull$hit days or did you disagree with anything I said? My comment doesn't disagree with anything you said. Why go to insults? Can you read, or are you saying that cheating and sexual coercion are good things? I know you are pretty messed up, but are you also pro-rape and infidelity as well as a racist (see any of your evil postings about "illegal immigrants" for evidence of the latter)?

[Americanman]

I agree the market for actual realistic toys for men is bigger but overall sales of toys goes to women by a landslide. I was joking but only half joking because if there is a market for something somebody out there is trying to fill it (pun intended). I never really thought about the animals.

[Americanman]

Oops this answer was supposed to be a comment not an answer. Oh well.

[SociallyInept]

selfishstars really hit the nail on the head.

vibrators &/or sex toys get us where we want to be, but sex is a lot more intimate

i'm sick of using toys

i miss the real thing

[flower1000]

nothing like the real thing but woman use them as a sence of relif when its deep inside it gives the woman a sence of relif I belive its the same sensation a man gets

[katiesmuff]

It can vary as I have been with a few guys who a toy would have been much better. Probably could have had a better conversation with the toy also!

[Littletad]

Sex is always better when it's the real thing.

[BlackSuperman]

never...sex toys ain't sh*t compared to the real thing... you knew that already.

[Anonymous]

I'd rather have the real thing. Dildos are fun when I'm bored. Nothing beats a hot guy panting underneath me. mmmm.

[Anonymous]

no, they aren't as good, only my guy can make me squirt I have toy but never use it the real thing is so much better!