My boyfriend doesn't go down on me anymore...why?

[Pina-Colada]

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and to me is the most wonderful and sexiest man alive.When we first met he said that he is a giver and he would rather go down on a girl and that it is his thing. He did it to me in the beginning of our relationship.He was pretty playful and it turned me on so much. Now it's been like a month and he hasn't gone down on me at all. I clean myself often and douche.use feminine wipes and I told think I smell bad. I even mentioned it to him last night why he doesn't do it anymore and he said" because It just never happens". Or "My face was far away from your pussy". But he says that he loves my pussy and that it is all good. But if he wants it.he should be all over it. I feel unsexy and it's hard for me to orgasm with him because I feel insecure around him. I feel so not sexy with him anymore that I am starting to wanna show off with other guys to feel sexy. This is all bad. he said he would go down on me often from now on.and now I don't want him to because I feel like I am forcing him. For real, what to do? Help!

[openhearted65]

Take control. Get a blindfold, japanese love rope, and a sexy leather skirt and nipple tassels. Blindfold him and tie him up to the bed both arms and legs. A nice soft leather tasseled whip is also handy. Lightly lick and blow on his cock till it's erect and gently whip it. Lean forwards and let your nipple tassels lightly dangle over his mouth. Turn now and straddle him with your pussy over his mouth but as high up away so that he doesn't expect you to be positioning for oral but rather to play with his cock. Do that but just run your fingernail seductively up and down the shaft and occasionally cupping his glans in the palm of your hand-no fingers. continue this and even get your mouth close so he can feel your breath on it and he will be anticipating you to put it in your mouth. Soon as you notice his glans swell lower your pussy onto his mouth and stop touching his cock completely. Tell him to lick and suck your pussy the best he can because if it's not good enough... pick up the whip and give a decent flick on his testicles... the next whipping will be harder.

[p-guy]

Well its probably not you. Sometimes we guys just get tired of a certain thing and maybe he has somehow been unsatisfied with just getting you off (while of course we love our bj's). You may want to try giving him a bj and moving into a 69 position and see if he will do it in a more mutual situation. You may also want to try giving him a toy (you may have already done something like this), but be a little forward. pull you pants down on the couch some night and start rubbing yourself through your panties, then pull out a dildo and tell him you want him to make you come with it. This way he will have some options, to toy you and lick and rub you. (I know it would turn me on:)

Just thoughts, good luck.

[Anonymous]

Your really insecure and you shouldn't be. I think you need to get over yourself, and stop worrying about how unattractive you are just because he doesn't want sex with you. I would think a guy was disrespectful if he asked for sex when he had no intention of marrying me. There's no reason for you to feel that you are unattractive, maybe you should stop depending on other people to make you feel good.

[Pina-Colada]

You are so right "should stop depending on other people to make me feel good"

[Anonymous]

my guy doesn't do that to me anymore either. but it doesn't really bother me much. I get more pleasure out of sex anyways. your boyfriend could have stopped either because he felt like you werent getting that much pleasure out of it, or maybe you don't return the favor? or maybe there's something deeper going on with your relationship,. problem wise.