How do I explain how to make out?

bonitachica11 Xper 3

I really like this guy he is super nice and loves to cuddle and hang out but he is VERY inexperienced with kissing, making out and I can only imagine he doesn't know oral or sex (I know he's a virgin so yeah). I told him its OK and not to be nervous but I am because I love kissing and I told him id teach him how to make out but I don't know how to teach him! I need him to be comfortable so I wanna know what I'm doing. Someone please tell me how to teach someone to make out!

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dreamtime Xper 7
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The best way to learn is not by reading or hearing about it, its by doing it.

Take charge and tell him the absolute minimum to avoid bumping your heads into each other and having a nose being poked in your eye or something like that.(i've had it happen to me once :/)
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- bonitachica11
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  Ok so what I really mean is how do I demonstrate it to him? I'm so nervous ill break up w him because he's inexperienced because I'm VERY physical and if I can't get it the way I like it I just feel very sexually frustrated. I don't want to rush him though.
- dreamtime
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  The best way is to start making out for a few minutes, take a breather and then say that was pretty good and this is how you can do it better and because they've actually experianced it a little bit they might actually understand as if you'd just start explaining it, he probably won't get what your talking about. Kissing might come natural to him, it might be a little bit sloppy(too much tongue, having his head move too much or little from one side to the other, etc)
- dreamtime
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  But in general, teaching someone to kiss isn't hard if your willing to let them practice. No one is a "perfect/great" kisser the first time around but after a while people start sensing what they should fix and then its up to what their partner likes.(personally I like it when girls rub their tongue against the top of my teeth rather gently) Just be gentle with how you break it to him if it was really bad, just say it was pretty good and then tell them what could be better.
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- dreamtime
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  If your very physical and you can actually teach it to him from the start up, he'll know exactly what you like after a while and be able to execute it but it'll take patience.
- bonitachica11
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  Ok I think ill do this I'm still nervous though ha ha He started out very shy when I first met him and he told me I brought him out of his shell so maybe ill bring out the "good kisser" part hehe even if we end up not going out I want to at least try to teachb him for his future relationships because he is my friend too :)
- dreamtime
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  I'm sure it'll work out just fine then =)
Jolyo91 Xper 5
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get him like 50 p*rn movies and he will learn, that is how I learnt
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- bonitachica11
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  I actually agree w this because from watching p*rn I learned how to give head ha ha :P