Is it weird that I am a virgin, but 20 year old attractive female?

[Anonymous]

And what do guys think of virgins at that age?

[stoopid]

it isn't weird that your a virgin at that age, its actually more common than you think and most men can sympathize and even understand your situation. truthfully tho, from a guys perspective it is a little off-putting to meet a women who is 20 years old and still a virgin. bc, although it may not b unheard of, it does allow reason for concern. see most men probably won't b upfront about it but the harsh reality is that as men w think about sex quite often and obsess about it even more. when you tell a guy your a virgin his mind will register two things:clingy and no sex. now, that may not b the case but it is the stigma that goes along w it. virgins, regardless of age, are more likely to become clingy after sex and are usually more immature about things relating to sex. I won't tell you not to wait for someone you care about but just take into consideration that the longer you wait the harder it will become for you to lose it. 1. because the timeline on the amount youve waited has grown and you don't want to let that b in vain, and 2. because no man really strives to find an inexperienced and potentiality clingy lover. that being said I think you should ask yourself tho y have you waited so long. I imagine that a woman who is young and attractive has had many opportunities to have sex or at least b close enough to someone to where she should feel comfortable talking to them about it. good luck

[Meetmeonthequinox]

I'm als 20 and a virgin...i like the idea...in all honestly id rather have my frist time with a fellow virgin...I don't like the idea of a more experienced person judging me and comparing me to all her ex-lovers. However, I worry I may never have that opportunity. I'm a virgin mostly because I was really shy, and I'm not attractive...so for different reasons than you...but I hope I get the chance to share a first time with someone.

[cheer4life9393]

No not at all. Have respect for yourself. If a guy really liked you. he would not care if you were a virgin or not.

[Chuga]

Respect for you, not many can say that they are 20 years old and still a virgin. It isn't weird, nor is it wrong. Especially in this age when kids as young as 13 are losing it. Guys would value it, especially guys who are virgins themselves, because they know that you haven't done anything on a higher emotional level.

[DeepWinter]

Not at all don't worry about a guy will care about you an can care less about that sex is just sex nothing magical

I lost it later the average an wasn't like the holy grail heck I find ridding my bike more of a rush or high then having sex

[Xenophobia]

No. I'm 21 and I'm in the same situation you're in. There's no timetable that says you must have done X in Y amount of time. Everyone should live life at their own pace. The people who don't live life at their own pace are only kidding themselves.

[mortablunt]

How the hell did you hang onto your virginity for that long?

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

I'm actually relieved to hear that, I'm more in shape and see very few people in shape today who also lack intellect, so I avoid them, todays culture is overly parasitic and infectious, people don't want to be with people in their bracket, but love to lie and manipulate others. I'm in much better shape than most people and I don't know if the 1/8th of our population is virgin at 20 because they have no choice or because they choose given how attractive people are exploited by the internet media etc.

It's definitely not weird, though I know it's common for females to lie about virginity so I'm not really sure if I can take your opinion as hard truth.

But I'd avoid the perverts' ideology is this post is genuine, many people today seek to control others and spread toxicity through sex, and somehow being called a virgin is only validated by non virgins using social media. I don't like the idea of being someone else's recyclable or my mom telling me I should be ok with it while denying my biology vs people who loose theirs.

Most people today lack exclusivity and also loose their virginity before they are fully developed and actually confident in themselves and then make their problems everyone else's. No matter what any virgin today by non virgins are expected to conform to others and be a recyclable, that's disgusting and shaming people for being virgins is like criticizing someone for having the ability to say no and not be raped.

I'd avoid the disgusting people telling you this and find people who match you and your experiences.

[Anonymous]

I understand how you feel. I'm a guy and we're expected to lose it quite young. I always wanted to lose it to a girlfriend but for various reasons I didn't lose it until I was 27. Imagine all the conversations about sex going on when I'm 26-27 around new male friends and I'm doing the whole 40-year old virgin stuff (although I didn't say breasts feel like a bag of sand *LOL*)

But as a guy, even though if I had lost it younger I could've had sex with a lot more girls over the years which would've been fun, I don't regret my decision cause of the amazing, beautiful girl that I lost it to.

So you're not even CLOSE to being old in regards to virginity. If you are hung up on it though, I'd choose or find someone that you don't necessarily love, but cares for you and you can really trust to lose it to, cause honestly it was weighing on my mind for many years.