Guys: if you have a crush on someone would you immediately think sexual thoughts?

I've kinda always wondered this. i know it will be different for each guy but I still want to know what each person says about this. So guys.. if you have a crush on someone would you immediately think sexual thoughts?
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  • NO...it's not like we fantasize only about those girls on whom we have a crush...always remember that WE ARE MEN and MEN WILL BE MEN...!

    in fact if I have a serious~crush*** on a girl...i would be more interested in getting in a relationship with her...rather than just a fling!...so ultimately I would not USE her to satisfy my fantasies!

    *** - conditions applied!

  • Sometimes but not the same as I would about other women I happen to see I think are hot. For some reason I find it hard to think about a woman I have a serious crush on in a purely sexual way. I've always wondered if that was normal and I guess judging by the other responses it must be.

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  • For an actual crush, most guys will think about getting to be with them or whatever (probably sexual thoughts later though :P). If it's just a hot woman or infatuation kinda thing, then sexual thoughts may come up first.

  • I find that if I'm really interested in a girl, sex isn't really the first thing on my mind. I usually just picture her smile or something and getting to kiss/hold her. Sex comes later for the most part.

    Now if I just find a girl to be hot, and I'm interested, sex might come to mind first. It all depends on why I'm attracted to her, and in any case it doesn't mean that I don't want to feel more for her, or that I can't in the future, or that I don't respect her regardless.

    • You know it's happened that I have really liked a girl, and thinking about her actually calms me down if I'm turned on. It's not like she turns me off, but unless she and I have fooled around like that in the past, I don't know it just calms me down but not in a bad way.

  • no that doesn't happen with me

  • If I proper fancy someone, I never think of them sexually. I self-induce it I guess. Its like a test for me, I suppose, to make sure I genuinly dig 'em and not just their family jewlz.

  • Not necessarily. I just want to BE with them, but that is probably subconscious sex drive cutting in.

  • doesn't take a crush for that to happen

  • men think sexual thoughts about most all women even if we don't have a crush on them. It is just how we roll...

    • I doubt that if you met me

  • not really I might just think of a kiss me personally I got to get to know u.. but that's just me

  • No. I don't know for other guys, but this is how my brain works. If I have a crush on a chick, I just feel incredibly attracted to her. And honestly if she gets all flirty with me and stuff I might even get hard around her, even in public. But it's that attraction that made me hard, not sexy thoughts. Normally I don't actually start visualisation sexual acts with a woman unless I'm alone, like at night in my room or in my bed.