How do you give a good blowjob?

i've never really been into giving blowjobs before never really liked to do it but now with this boyfriend I have now that's all I want to do but I know I haven't done it a lot so I'm not going to be that good. how do you give a really great blowjob?
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  • That is easy.

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

    If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

    • Someone's been watching waaaaay too much p*rn^^

    • But she's kinda right!

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  • First of all, don't let a lack of experience make you think you won't be very good.

    After my first bj, the guy was shaking cause he came so hard. I'm not kidding.

    I highly recommend you watch some good bj p*rn. If you just can't/won't, then here are some things.

    -use your hands. Unless you're a deepthroating queen, you're gonna need to get some hand action in there. Don't just go with the same up and down action on his shaft the whole time. incorporate some twisty motions, ripple your fingers as you move, make a ring with your thumb and index finger, use your other hand to GENTLY play with his balls... there's just so much you can do, and your imagination is the limit

    - don't JUST suck. use your tongue to flick and play with the head, especially the underside. they love that. I like sticking my tongue out as far as I can, and rubbing his **** side to side against it.

    - also, when you ARE sucking, don't be afraid to use your tongue inside your mouth, against his cock... its like this invisible movement that he can only feel.

    -NO TEETH

    - Sometimes, instead of just going straight into the sucking, slowly tease and build him up to it.

    I like just holding his **** right up to my lips, not touching him at all, but rather purposefully breathing hot air all over his head... then after a few seconds or so of that, you slowly let your tongue out and flick the head... just the tip of the tongue. then work up to long, heavy, hard, full licks. then putting him in your mouth... Go with your instincts with this. Some guys hate teasing. But I think as long as he does eventually get that release, he'll enjoy it.

    - Do your best to get him in your throat. it takes practice, and I definitely couldn't do it for awhile, but I'm just starting to be able to. Like maybe 5 or so thrusts into my throat before I gag. Practice makes perfect!

    - Do it all enthusiastically! Make it exciting! don't be a boring little wet mouth. play it up! But be careful not to be acting. Rather, think about how much you loooooooove his **** filling your mouth.

    - Swallow. Just do it! Most girls have swallowed worse tasting things from a shot glass before. and honestly, come just tastes like snot and tears. which we've all tasted before, come on. Its really not that bad. I kinda like it. Maybe you do too, idk, but most girls don't :)

    hope these helped!

    • Oh, and once you find something he REALLY likes, keep it going until he cums! unless he's really far away from cumming still... then take a break and switch to something else for a few seconds, but then go back to the amazingness!

    • "come just tastes like snot and tears". heehee love it!

  • there are quite a few responses so I won't even say what I was going to say I'm sure someone covered it but I will say, DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES make it look like it's a chore. it's CRITICALLY IMPORTANT that you're not all, "you there yet?" and "i'm getting tired" with this annoyed and grossed out expression on your face and then argue with him when it comes time for him to come bitching him out because he thought you were going to swallow or something etc. he needs to know you enjoy pleasuring him...look at him while you do it and, if it comes natural, moan..you don't want to force a moan you'll sound like a dumbass hehe have fun :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • i think the two biggest things are to be into it: no one wants to feel like it's a chore for your partner to be doing something to them so it's GREAT that you WANT to do it with this guy . . . it's SUPER hot when your partner is into it. AND just know that every guy is different and likes different things. so just try a lot of things and just stay really really focused on how he reacts to different things. his hips will raise maybe, or his breathing will change or hell gasp or say things . . . those are hints that something fells particularly good. just pay attention to that and you'll be able to develop a repertoire of things that he likes. then mix it up and have fun! good luck!

  • Okay, there is a lot of good stuff here! Again, the number one thing is to make it seem like you are actually getting pleasure from doing this. I'm right with JennyNice up until step 10. Every guy is different and, personally, I'm not into seeing my jizz in her mouth. For me it's either let me shoot it on your breasts, keep sucking the shaft and let some get on your lips and cheeks, swallow it, or go spit it out in the sink.

    AGAIN, JUST MAKE SURE YOU SEEM LIKE YOU MAY VERY WELL GET AN ORGASM FROM GIVING HIM HEAD!

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  • ok there not giving you good advice here! my boyfriend goes nuts when I swirl my tongue on the top of his penis and try to get the whole thing iN my mouth,also jerk it off at the same time in a circular motion... when he's going to come make sure you swirl your tongue on the top of his penis the most sensitive area! my boyfriend starts shaking,he GOES NUTS WHEN HE NUTS!

    • @tiffanyj he still your boyfriend lol? and do you ever put the tip of your tongue in his pee hole?

  • Peacenic pretty much said it but don't be afraid to use your hands and whatever you do DON'T FORGET ABOUT THE BALLS! Touch them, rub em, lick em they're uber sensitive so it amps the experience

  • Depends on both sides, I think it'd just be great if you took a lot of it in your mouth, but for that you probably need to be trained, I heard about girls puking with that, so just take it calm.

    Perhaps it'd be nice if (if you both agree) if he'd touch your hair a bit while doing it.

  • I don't think it's possible to give a bad one. Just put your mouth around it and suck/lick it, kind of like a popscicle. (LOL Best Analogy I could come up with xP) I read some other comments, & to each his own, but it wouldn't be disappointed or have it ruined if the girl didn't look just as excited as me! At most, I'd be concerned because the girl's happiness & pleasure would be more important to me than my own...

  • I think some of the girls have given you some pretty good advice so no sense in repeating it again

  • First get him in the mood kiss from his belly button all the way down to his penis, then lick up his shaft from the ballbag then lick his penis head then go from there, don't use teeth start slow and suck hard and use whole mouth then gradually get faster, us guys need to feel it, mix up with tongue and so forth!.

    Good luck!.

  • 1. have fun,be creative,have variety.

    2. Do not follow JennyNice's advice,lol.

    3. stroke the shaft,suck the head.

    4. occasionally take as much in Your mouth

    as You can.Do not gag Yourself,it is very

    unattractive,and causes concern.

    5. see step 3

    6. see step 4

    7. see step 3

    8. see step 1

    9. see step 4

    10see step 3

    11see step 1

  • Enthusiasm is the key - if you are really into it, we're really into it.

  • show him you like it, say it or just moan a little... one of my biggest turn ons is when my girl mans, its ridiculously hot.

    your mouth is gonna feel good no mater what, you have to be really really bad at it for it to really not be enjoyable.

  • Suck him harder and try swallow the cock,.its pretty fun

  • when I turn on my mann I tongue him nd rubb his croth alott nd he getts hard nd then I give him a blowjob but the key to giving a good blowjob (is to know thatt the head of the penis is sensitive nd if youh lick it backwardsz and forwardsz with your tongue they'll seriously moan like crazy over thatt) nd also look up at them when giving a blowjob also use your hand nd also play with ballsz because their ballsz need love too :))

  • lik the head of the d*** and suck

  • Just be in the moment and let things roll there course. A blowjob is going to feel good to him either way unless you suck too hard, that's a downer. I guess not to fast as well so its more romantic or "naughty" (hate using that word) but you get my point

  • Off all the advice here, the best advice you could follow would be 'hkygirl's advice... whatever you do just make sure you enjoy it. As a guy there is nothing more unattractive than a girl acting like she's washing the dishes when she's giving me a blowjob.

  • practice. I'm sure you can find some giving men who will let you practice on them until you get it right. j/k

  • If you're really enjoyin it, even if your making mistakes, your main will really enjoy it because he'll appreciate that you love pleasing him. Don't worry, just do what you want & have fun. You don't need to follow any routine, try things, watch his responces, & he will appreciate all your effort. Feel free to ask him if there's anything in partcular he would really like you to do. Also, men like it when you pay attention to their balls too. Just have Fun!

  • 1. Use your hand in addition to your mouth.

    2. Ask the guy to communicate while you're doing it. He should tell you what he likes and dislikes as you're doing it and even give you pointers about certain things he likes since all guys are different.