Why does my boyfriend like me when I wear really sexy clothes?

[missprettylady]

Hi I been with my boyfriend for month and I love him but sometimes I feel like he uses me more like a showoff than a girlfriend he loves taking me everywhere but he always wants me to dress really sexy in a way that every guy is looking at me where we go, I love to work out and I take really good care of me, sometimes when I don't get ready he doesn't wanna go out with me and that brakes my heart because he should love me ether way...when we go to the beach he always wants me to wear the smallest bikini and if its a thong better... I don't know if I should break up with him and I have talk to him about plenty of times and he always says "babe there is nothing wrong with it, I just love your body" what should I do guys he even told me I should be a playboy... seriously? what boyfriend that truly loves his girlfriend would want her to be on playboy?

[Anonymous]

since your not an exhibitionist, you shouldn't have to do playboy. if you were, then I would suggest it. he sounds like he gets turned on by you making other guys jealous. question is do you feel he's in the right, of being turned on by using you to make others jealous. in my opinion I think its disgusting. how do you think id feel if you asked me to wear muscle shirts and gym shorts because..i have a good body. maybe I don't want to do that. and I think you feel the same way. I wouldn't say break up with him about it but..try talking to him about it, if he uses the same excuse then you have a serious problem that's not being shown and you need to find a way to get to it. good luck :)

[Opinion Owner]

P.s. I'm sure you look good either way. lol. men just of course like when you look nice, since..we know we get to touch. :D

[Opinion Owner]

Assuming that guy is your boyfriend of course*

[missprettylady]

Thank you for soch honest respond, however, I broke up with him, am worth more that just wearing skirts and bootie shorts....i got tired of the same bs !!!

[Opinion Owner]

Wtf, is with the downie. I thought that was a pretty good answer. w/e umm, I dk..i don't think breaking up with a guy for what you wear is the right thing to do. but its w/e

[missprettylady]

I didn't break up with him for what I wore but for how he made me feel while I was wearing it

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh

[missprettylady]

Would you be fascinated if your girlfriend is always the center of attention and everyguy wants to date her and be with her and you treat her more like a trophy than a girlfriend... yeah that's how he made me feel

[Opinion Owner]

Lol. my girlfriend is that girl but..she knows I treat her like a girlfriend. she does all that on her own, it makes her feel good about herself. as long as she's not complaining about it to me, I'm fine with it

[irthonger]

If i had a super hot girl i would want her to wear sexy clothing and thong bikinis! I mean what man wouldn't. It isn't so that other guys can look at you it is so that he can look at you. The playboy thing is stupid though...