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Guys, is sex without a condom that much better? Do you love it?

My boyfriend like refuses to wear a condom. Well at first I wasn't on any birth control and he would wear it sometimes but not always and now I'm on birth control so he says there's no reason for him to wear a condom. he pulls that line "i can't really feel much with a condom on" which I don't buy at all. I let him give it to me super rough and keep things dirty and hot in bed. I've seen his reaction during sex with a condom before so there's no way in hell he's not having a blast. he also has a fetish for coming inside me. I played it stupid and risked things before I was on birth control and I would let him take the condom off and come in p**** or my bum. he says he likes it so much more if he doesn't have to slow down - he would rather just let himself come in me while he's going in rough. so for the past few months I've been letting him do that because of the birth control. I don't think it feels that much better for him (I could be wrong though - does it?) but I know he loves to stare at my p**** and watch me push it out. lol its definitely hot but sometimes I worry that we should be using a condom and that my birth control may fail or something. I think its not really that likely to happen though so I let him hit it the way he wants to. :) so guys is it really that much more different with or without a condom or is he just saying that so he won't have to wear one?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Its feels TONS better without a condom. Even the best condoms are only fractions of what its like without one. I would say that until you have a very long term relationship and/or an STD test I wouldn't go without c ondom as a sign of respect for the risk of STDs out there. But if its long term and you see no signs, or if they have a full check up, then oral BC is plenty good.

    dont listen to anyoen who tells you that BC is anything less than completely safe. If you are good at taking your pill every day at the same time, pregnancy is pretty much impossible. I did the math on this website before. Its something ridiculous like a .001% chance of pregnancy on any given internal ejaculation. That means you can have sex 100,000 times before you would get pregnant when on BC. (I actually think the numbers I calculated were even more absurdly big).

    anyway, be responsible with your BC and you'll be totally safe. He's not making it up, condoms are important but don't feel anywhere near as good as the real thing.

    • You are wrong about your statistics on birth control. Can you cite your sources? The pill is less than 90% effective when taken as directed, and virtually ineffective in circumstances such as when a woman is taking antibiotics. I agree that men lose sensation when using condoms, but risking a pregnancy isn't worth foregoing protection.

    • I am a few months away from having my medical degree. If my years of training and associated hubris isn't enough, please check out the but hey, I'll cite a source. How about the Journal of the American Medical Association? Evaluation of Contraceptive Efficacy and Cycle Control of a Transdermal Contraceptive Patch vs an Oral Contraceptive. Marie-Claude Audet, MD; Mich?le Moreau, MD; et al. JAMA. Vol. 285 No. 18, May 9, 2001 their conclusion? (coming in my next reply since I'm out of letters)

    • The efficacy rate (ill explain that in a second) was 99.1% when used "correctly" and 98.75% with some minor error of an hour or two now and then. Oh and with perfect usage? 99.9% efficacy. but they don't expect anyone to be perfect except in experimental conditions. now how do they measure effiacy? It is if you use NO other birth control and have sex 182 times, will you get pregnant? with regular expected usage, it is 98.75% that you wont. that's a .000067% chance per sex session

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  • I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5 years and haven't used a condom for over 3. I'm circumcised and less sensitive than the average guy, and I can hardly feel a thing with a condom on. The only times I used one it took me about an hour and a half of sex before I came, and I wasn't trying to hold it in at all.

    I'm probably the extreme case, but the fact is that condoms reduce sensitivity drastically for any guy!

Most Helpful Girls

  • The guy that I've had the most sexual experience consistently told me that it did feel better without a condom, but it still felt great with one. Guys can definitely enjoy sex with a condom.

    I understand why there would be something really sexy about cumming inside of a girl, but you have to decide what you're okay with. If you don't mind him doing that, keep it up. Just never let his preferences cause you to do something that makes you uncomfortable, including putting you more at risk for pregnancy.

  • um you need to wear one. so many people get pregnant while on birth control. plus what about stds? not all guys are honest. he sounds like a lying douche who's just using you.

    • Valid points. I guess after about 5 years of being together I just kind of doubt he would be cheating on me and we have been tested together before but you're right its possible people do lie. :(

  • The guy I used to talk to refused to use a condom, which is one of the reasons we never had sex

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  • It feels very different, and you have to believe him that he will not feel as much with the condom on. Most guys prefer sex without a condom, the reason could also be that feel good to cum in a woman (mark your territory), know that she let you cum in her is a great feeling. The reason for guys refuse to wear a condom could be physical but also psychological.

  • Yes is it much more different to have sex without a condom. It feels very different for me I have great orgasms and when I cum it feels awesome to cum in a warm wet pussy!
    I have a very sensitive penis my head of my cock is super sensitive! I just love how great it to cum like that mmmmm!

  • It feels way better without a condom on. It feels good with a condom, but it definitely takes away some of the sensitivity. The feel of the inside of a woman's vagina is much better than the feel of latex. I also love to come inside my girlfriend. If you're in a long-term relationship, using birth control, and neither of you has any STDs, then there's really not a lot of risk involved in having sex without a condom.

  • yes. Try dry humping him with your pantyhose on. You can still cum, but it's not as good.

  • Sex feels much much better without a condom!

  • It’s way better without the stupid rubber getting in the way, and nutting into a girl is incredible because that the guy gets the tight wet feeling as he comes.

  • Yes it does. It feels way better without one. I typically don't use on. I want to feel every and her to feel every pulse of my cock

  • Yes definitely it's an awesome experience

  • In your case: no condom for blowjob and sex. Condom for anal

  • It feels so much better. I’ve only worn a condom with 6/23 women I’ve been with.

  • He sounds like a real winner you got there, this is what's going to happen he is going to knock you up, and then your never going to see him again, have fun raising a kid by yourself.

  • Sex without condom feels a lot better and woow..

    • Woow what?

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