Let me tell you what Chris Rock said once - Just cause he came doesn't mean you made him come" That was a joke Chris Rock was talking about in a point he was raising about guys not really needing women to cum. This for the most part is true. A guy spends a whole part of his life masturbating and pleasing himself. Basically he knows how to stroke it to make him self cum. So even if I guy busted the nut of his life it does not necessarily mean that you made him come like that, you could have been laying still and he doing all the work, and boom. He knew how to move in order to make it happen.
Now I suspect the opposite to be true. He not being able to come might have absolutely nothing to do with you. I suspect his mind is preoccupied on the fact that he is not able to have an orgasm with you and then he sabotages himself.
He has to work this out, maybe you can help him relax maybe you cant. The point is stop thinking its fault.0 1 1 0He has got used to his hand and doesn't associate the feeling of your p**** with cumming. You can fix this, get him to pull his d*** until he is about to come then put it inside your pussy. Keep doing this but each time with him less hard and eventually he will be able to cum.
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0 3he probably jerks off too much. this happened to me once. it made my d*** numb so even tho I was rock hard I was desensitized.
tell him to not masturbate for a while and then have sex0 1 0 0I must agree with tp. If a guy can't stop masturbating, especially just before he gets you naked, he may never come because there's nothing left. Tell him he doesn't need to whack off when has you. lol
Ha, tell me about it :p
Actually that makes the most sense, but I don't know how to talk to him about that, I mean how do you ask a guy to stop beating off without it coming off wrong... Tough one...
Is he on any medication? I am on ssri's, and they delay orgasm, and they are in face prescribed to some men for premature ejaculation.
0 1 0 0Is he on any medication? I am on ssri's, and they delay orgasm, and they are in fact prescribed to some men for premature ejaculation.
He's uncomfortable with having sex, he's probably still new to it, try increasing the duration of foreplay, and make an effort to make the mood very comfortable and very intimate.
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