Why doesn't my guy like oral?

Question

ok we have been together for 4 months.  Not that long but he has only given me oral once.  I have given him oral at least 3 to 4 times, MAYBE MORE I DON'T COUNT.  at first I was giving it to him to see if I could encourage him to return the favor.  after a while, I got so tired of always giving him oral and not getting anything in return. I even asked him about it. he was just like some guys don't like doing it.  The reason I did it to you is because I wanted to ( talking about the one time he did do it)i am a freaky girl.  I like the 69 position the best  because I like giving and receiving at the same time.  it turns me on.  I am honestly bout had it with his refusal to recipricate.  I don't know what the problem is he fingers me, and he likes my scent, he has even complimented that I keep my stuff nice and clean and fresh.  SO WHAT THE HELL'S THE PROBLEM?i also like giving head so much that its hard for me not to give him any.  I love the feeling of having it in my mouth. But when I do it , and he doesn't bother to please me, its like " damn, you don't even care if I am pleased sexually".  One time he asked me for head, and I brought up the whole reciprication thing.he still gave me the speech on how some many really don't  like doing it.but then afterwards he had the nerve to ask for head.i was so mad I got up and left.  I mean he is a nice guy and treats me like a queen.but this oral sex thing is getting to me.Lately he has kind of accepted the fact that we don't do oral anymore.and he doesn't even ask or expect it.but I am going crazy.i wanna give head.and I also want to receive some oral too.  That's what makes sex fun!  WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM , WHY WONT HE EAT ME OUT?

t-a-l · Accepted Answer

omg, my heart goes out t you

i had this same problem with my guy, to A LESSER EXTENT I GUESS,

BUT IT ALL CAME DOWN TO THE FACT THAT HIS LAST GIRLFRIEND WAS SO SELF CONSCIOUS THAT . opps caps. she didn't let him give her oral, and so two years went on with just him getting, and not having to learn how to please a girl .

so when this finally surfaced, we were drunk, and he asked me if there was anything that he should do to max out our sex life. and I told him that I needed more oral from him, me being bi, it is basically essential to my complete satisfaction.

then, I'm sure he only admitted this because he had been drinking, but he told me that he was just so unconfident about his skills that he just avoided it all together.

i don't mind teaching! helping a brother out. ya know

. so where am I going with this,

oh yeah, I'm glad that you stopped giving him head, but the fact that he is just letting this happen is upsetting.

i sort of liked the whole tellin him that you only have sex for him, haha. but maybe you should just bring that uyp in conversation, like a what if I said. , and just let him know that oral is essential to him pleasing you, and if he can't fulfill that need for you kick him to the curb , and get a girlfriend ;P

wonderingwhy · Accepted Answer

We are two in the same.  People don't understand why I like doing it, and call me a nasty ass freak.  But that may be because of some other things as well, but this is not about that lol. Sex isn't everything, and I hope you don't stray just to be satisfied, especially if you like him.  But like I say to a lot of other people: you are young, meet new people, don't get tied down so quickly.  Live a little.  If he won't do it, there are PLENTY of other guys I know that will be more than happy to do it. Hell, even I would, jk jk.  But as my mom says, "Don't cheat yourself. Treat yourself".

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Many girls don't like giving girls oral. But if it bothers you too much try looking for somebody who will definitly be able to do it for you. it shouldn't always be giving but most time its receiving.

You can't go on satisfying him while he stay there and don't care about you are feeling

TheoryOfAvarice · Accepted Answer

Some guys are just disgusted by the thought of giving a girl oral. It's something you have to live with. Find another guy, if it's making you that unhappy.

bubbakong2006 · Accepted Answer

I don’t know never had that problem but I would eat you anytime for as long as you wanted I love eating pussy and if your giving me head you can bet your going to get your pussy eatin good and cum many times I would dump him

VAGitarian · Accepted Answer

Damn. I don't know what to say except that sucks.  I blow my load early when having sex, so I love to eat a girl out to get her off.  Dump this loser and find somebody who will get you off!