Having sex with a coworker/friend and he seems to really enjoy

We have been flirting for months now and finally a couple weeks ago we did the deed. We both know that this is just sex and that's fine. I am just curious as to what you guys may think. I really enjoyed myself and I am almost positive he really enjoyed himself. He has been the one contacting me after the first time. The last time we had sex it was AMAZING! He really made me squirm, I think that I pleased him to. I saw him at work the next day and he smiled at me and he was saying how tired he was and that "time flies when you're having fun". Then about 4 days go by and I didn't contact him but he contacted me first seeing if I could come over. I told him not that night. He said ok. I also told him that I think about him when I pleasure myself and he said that I really know what to say to a guy and he likes that in me, then I told him "I like you in me" and he responded "me 2!" Does it sound like he is really enjoying having sex with me? I think so but I can't help but wonder. I really like the idea of making a man think about having sex with me and can hardly wait to have sex with me again. When we're done he says things like, "Oh my God!" or other little things but doesn't come right out and say, "I love fu*king you". or "you're so good". Why can't he just say it if he is pretty much making it obvious that he's always wanting more! What's going on in his mind?
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  • To be honest I'm not into sex without commitment; maybe with my Arab background it's a cultural element that's not based on anything objective. But I think with time sex will get boring if there's nothing else being shared.

    So I think you will ALWAYS be wondering if he isn't getting bored. After all sex you can get from yourself as you are doing.for anything more you need another person.

    Not even to mention all the possible complications from relationships at work.I don't think I need to go into that. What if you or he start something with somebody ELSE at work with all the jealousy.

    • We are both adults and are very aware of the complications that could come up from this situation. that's why we both know that we are not expecting anything else but SEX! and I have been in sex only relationships before and if things started getting complicated I just ended it.

    • I th.'ink many of us have heard that about 'we are aware of the possible problems.' Often we remember those words after the big explosion....

  • You are giving the guy as much great sex as he wants, what else is there for him to think about?

    Sidebar, be careful about this whole office sex thing, it could get ugly for any reason, just be careful.

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  • Yes absolutely! What makes it more "exciting" is that you are co workers kind of sneaking around a bit & have a great secret. Maybe he can't say it because he doesn't want to make it sound cheap or slutty. He doesn't know that kind of talk will make you feel good about it & turn you on even more. I think I may have something similar to that when we finished having sex.

    Hhmm now I'm wondering if I should say that to my friend.

    • I say at our age (being more mature) we should just say what's on our minds. forget all the game playing or pride getting in the way. we know what we're doing and if we have agreements with our "friends" and understand where we stand, it doesn't hurt to speak the truth. we're obviously in this situation to feel good about ourselves, right so a little positive reinforcement wouldn't hurt...that's just my opinion ;)

    • I agree. ;]]

  • Sounds to me you got a friend with benefits. But to answer your question no one really knows what's going through his head but him. And I highly doubt that he will ever actually come out and say those things I know I haven't said it to her but my girl is extremely good at what she does to me and all I can say is oh my god.So think of it as leaving him speechless.

    • Yes "friends with benefits" is definitely what we are. thanks for your answer.

    • No problem

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  • How likilly is it that he will say exacly what you imagine him saying. not happening. Just be content that you are both enjoying good sex and if he say it or not well that's his choice you don't own him you aren't even in a relationship.

    • This has nothing to do with wanting to "own" him. I am content with the good sex just being curious. and it is very new so who knows what will happen or be said.