How to get my wife to do a threesome?

[funguy786]

I want to ask my wife for a threesome, but I know she will instantly say NO! and not even hear me out, because I know that she thinks I'm wanting sex with another woman, when actually I don't. I don't even have to touch the other girl, I just wanna see her with the other girl. She claims she is not bi-sexual, but I sometimes catch her checking out other girls, and she even watches lesbian p*rn. I know its not an immaturity thing because she's 28 and I'm 24. How should I go about this? Thanks in advance.

[half-pint]

Well, here's the thing...I stress in my answers that I personally would only cross certain sexual lines with my husband and I'm not married...yet?!?!?!? lol

So...my opinion is this...I could NEVER touch another woman, I have many lesbian, gay, and bi people in my life and I love them all but me personally, I can't even date a guy with long hair.

Now tho, if my HUSBAND wanted to see another girl do me, exactly the way you described...where are you going to find this person? And how would you expect her to complete this task, and afterward simply rise and leave? Seriously? Where?

As a WIFE, I would like to be able to perform sucha special event for my husband only under the same terms as you described AND that I would not have to touch the other girl either but how do you answer the above questions? Your wife might be open to the idea of receiving yet not reciprocating and certainly doesn't want to share you!

This is a general question to all men who have this fantasy...You like getting bl*wjobs but do you like giving blowj*bs? So why on earth do you think I wana eat a p*ssy?

Spend some time feeling out what she might be willing to do, your one step ahead of the rest if you hava wife that watches p*rn with you! Ease into the possibility and don't bring it up too often. Don't act eager about it. Ask like, so if you were tied down and blindfolded, would you care who was...etc...while you are watching p*rn. Please don't ask at any random time...lol

Hope this helps at least a little! Happy Friday ;D

[beans]

She may look at lesbian p*rn, but that does not make her bi-curious or anything. Do you want to do everything you see in p*rn? I didn't think so...but you might like to just watch it instead. When a woman looks at another woman it has nothing to do with sexual attraction, but rather looking a what she's wearing, etc. unless they're bi or lesbian obv.

Look at it from her point of view. If she wanted to see you with another man, would you do it? Nah, I didn't think you would.

[1luvs3x]

Just because she checks out other girls and watches lesbian p.orn doesn't mean she's bi. I'm not lesbian or bi but enjoy making out with my girlfriends. If she doesn't want to do it, you can't "get" her to.

This is totally an immaturity thing - on your part.

[RealDeal]

Over course you can't force someone to do that but would you be willing to let your man watch you make out with your friends?

[RealDeal]

Oops I mean of* course

[Anonymous]

First ask her if she is interested in girls sexually, possibly while watching lesbian p*rn. Maybe have some wine/cocktails before so she is loosened up and then you can get a more honest answer out of her. If she says she may want to then proceed forward with the conversation if not just kinda drop it till a later date. If she says yes you need to make it all about her and what she wants. talk about boundaries, you may not get to have sex with the other girl but you may get to do a lot of other things remember its all about her and not you. it may take a while for it to actually happen so if she is interested don't be pushy on the subject that will just turn her off

[l-hedoniste]

Describe it like you describe any other compelling fantasy you have. Fortunately, you've spent a lot of time discussing your sexual fantasies before getting married, to decide whether you're compatible.

Then the ball's in her court. She knows what you want and how much you want it, she decides whether she'll give it to you. You can't make her do anything; salesmanship, charm, and begging is all you got. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Divorce her and give her all your money and possessions.