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Is it a big turn off to guys if you have loose vagina lips?

I have always been afraid to let a guy finger me or something because I have big lips do guys care or is it a big turn off? Please help
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your labia are large?... what do they call them, more flappy?

    Not a turn off at all... in fact, during cunnilingus, it actually can make it a little more fun to play with... and during intercourse it matters not the least... nor during 'fingering', for that matter.

    You really shouldn't worry about it -- you're being overly sensitive about yourself and making an issue out of nothing. If you searched on GAGs, you'll find dozens of people (both male and female) who are concerned about some body part too big, too small, bent the wrong way, the wrong color, etc... and you'll find it really doesn't matter... we are all different.

  • no, some guys actually like a girl with big lips. Unless they're causing you severe physical discomfort, don't buy into this notion that you need labia-plasty...and any guy that would say you're a freak is an inexperienced moron. Celebrate your body, large lips can be fun.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sorry, but why are you even talking to guys who are asking you if you are tight or loose. No decent guy should be asking you that. A boyfriend will wait to find out on his own. A jerk who wants to use you for sex will ask you stupid questions like that.

  • I think when people talk about being tight or loose they usually mean the actual vagina, no the lips. Everyone's lips are a different shape and size and it's normal for them not to be "tight" because they are jus flaps of skin.

    • Yeah cause guys ask me if I'm tight or loose and I never know what there are talking about like if there talking about the vagina or the lips so I always tell guys I'm tight so that's why I don't let guys finger me or eat me out. do you think it would be weird next time a guy asked if I'm tight or loose if I asked if they meant the vagina or lips??

    • I have no idea why guys are asking you that... But I'm pretty sure they mean the vagina.

  • Gosh no Soccerbabe, guys love playing with large lips around our pussies.

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  • well every one has different taste in somthing. to me that's a turn on. it may not be to the next guy

  • are you serious? after a girl has indicated to a guy that he will be doing something that involves a vagina he will be too happy to notice something like that. you are clearly are not aware of how much men love p**** yet.

    • What a great answer!!!

  • no...its a big turn on also I love the different type of vulvas they are so amazing and beautiful it would be boring if they all look only one way and not different etc ... wish I could see yours cause it sounds so beautiful ; )

  • Guys do not care about that honestly, if you are giving them some then... they will not care about what it looks like :D

  • It don't matter to of because its going to be destroyed after I'm done with it.

  • , Guys love ALL p**** and I particularly love a nice big labia; link , link Very sexy!

  • If a guy loves you, he'll happily accept you the way you are. You needn't worry. :)

  • It's all about preferences... Some guys like, some guys don't. I really enjoy to play with those loose lips... It's kinda a plus :]

    There's no ugly girl without clothes.

    Of course. This is valid only if you take care of your full body.

  • Every guy has their own preferences. Generally it doesn't matter what kind of lips you have. If you are that stage in a relationship then you should be at a point where your significant other won't care at all, or if your just fooling around then I am pretty sure that the guy will enjoy it just as much as you will. Personally I don't mind what kind of lips a girl has.

  • I love , love myotaut product ! I do kegals and the comparison is next to none , it really tightens and gives you that extra boost of confidence to give him that good, good.It is a little drying so lube is needed.But this is a must have , its worth every penny!

  • Don't worry about it. I have REALLY big vagina lips that I have to tuck inside when I wear a bikini or they'll hang out the sides. I used to worry about it all the time, but it really hasn't been an issue with guys.

  • hell no guys love it

  • No. Whatever you have will be fine. Just exercise reasonable hygiene and grooming.

    • What do you mean by exercise?

    • Practice, use, do...

  • It doesn't really matter,if your guy luvs u,he wouldn't care how your (v) is,..vagina is vagina

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