Can some people be naturally good at sex or does it take practice?

there's always been the debate of practicing before you stay committed to one person, being sexually compatible but as we all know sex can be both technical and emotional, so can a virgin be a naturally good lover if they know all the technical aspects?
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  • Hey GrayDeLeon,

    Let me try and unravel this question.

    1. Yes, it's possible to be good at sex the first time. I was. I used to be very athletic, I did my thing, and it went well. It's not exactly rocket science.

    2. That being said, not everyone is good their first time. If you orgasm to soon (as a guy), if you are clumsy or otherwise uncoordinated, if you are insecure, etc.

    3. However, sexual compatibility is more than just being good. Sexual compatibility also includes things like both partners wanting to do certain things (like experimenting) or not wanting to do things, as well as physiological issues like smell and taste.

    Best

    - Evan

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  • no you have to learn to be good at anything

    plus you should learn about protection

    could learn through p*rn and instructional videos of how to please the other person too

Most Helpful Girls

  • I guess some people can be naturally good at anything. I don't think being good at sex is necessarily do to practice. I think it has more to do with being giving & open with your partner. If you enjoy pleasing your partner & being pleased that is a good start. The next part would be open communication & listening to your partner. Some practice helps, & some things you get better as time goes along. As far as natural skill, nothing is impossible.

  • yes I do think so,she might be born good and having the idea of how you should do things probably makes her better..but you won't know until you practice and learn from it..

    hope that helped somehow. lol

  • Like anything else good you may be a natural at it, but it still requires practice to get it right and be the best at it.

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  • some have natural talent but anyone can get much better than they are

  • I am a love machine