Does the Appearance of a Penis Matter a Lot?

[Anonymous]

Some guys have a flawless, even toned penis. Some guys are uncircumcised. I got circumcised when I was 14 and now my penis has two skin tones as well as obvious scars around the incision. It makes me insecure to receive oral cus it's not cosmetically pleasing. I prefer to not receive oral. Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

No the apprearence of the penis does not matter. The first time a woman sees a penis (the very first time) she may be a little intimidated because she has never seen anything like a penis before. After women get used to the penis, they find them very attractive, not because they have a certain look, but a different reason. Women are attracted to masculance, and the most masculine thing there is happens to be a penis. So, women should be naturally awed by a penis because she is awed by your masculance. At least that is how it is for me. I guess I shouldn't speak for all women. All I know, is I get really turned about by seeing a penis & commonly fantasize about them. Since you mentioned you don't feel comfortable receiving oral, I'll tell one of my many fantasies is giving oral sex, so please don't stop yourself from receiving pleasure. In closing, the penis is not supposed to look any certain way, & women have never been turned off by scars.

[Asker]

This made me chuckle. You said the most masculine part of a man is his penis, and I immediately pictured a ripped dude with huge arms and a tiny soft penis (no homo). That means he isn't as masculine as the wimpy dude packing a love rocket? This adds a little fuel to the size debate, however that is irrelevant to this question. Thanks for your input!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, the size doesn't matter. I see all penis as masculine. Just to set the record straight, I don't think those guys with enormous muscles are hot, although in actuality, I do find nerdy boys kind of cute :p. Are you psychic or something, lol?

[Asker]

Haha, good to know! Psychic, not literally. More like a pseudo-psychic, a self-fulfilling prophet that assumes the consequences of actions never taken... one who believes his own lies and molds them into fruition. That's another story for another day! Lol.

[CuddlyCarla]

First of all, who cares about what a poll says. Everyone is different. As such, everyone has different opinions. The honest truth, as it is for me, is that this doesn't matter, and that holds true for the majority of girls. Men care far more about specifics of their penis than women do. Women care far more what it's attached to. It's sad you have judgment about it, learn to accept yourself. No one is perfect, everyone has some part of them they wish was a little different. But don't be so hard on yourself. If a girl wants to go down on you, she's obviously not bothered by it at all, so just let her and enjoy being accepted. It sounds like you are a harsher critic of yourself than they will be. What you are describing doesn't sound like a big deal to me at all. You'll be fine!

[Ashleyreep]

The number one thing I'm going to tell you is. If a girl is planning on giving you oral, she isn't going to unzip your pants, look at your penis and turn away. If she plans on it. She's not going to stop. I understand where self-conscious things come into play. But you have to understand that if she loves you, or is even willing to go to the point of oral, a scar and two tone colors are not going to stop her.

If, you find that one girl out of billions who does care, then she isn't good enough for you.

If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.

Ashley ^_^

[Asker]

You basically summed it up, but I'm still looking for more perspectives on this matter. Thanks for your input, it helps a lot!

[Ashleyreep]

No problem. If you have any other questions though. Feel free to ask.

[Ashleyreep]

It's funny, my one down arrow, must have come from the one out of a billion who isn't good enough.

[Anonymous]

What you describe sounds common. My penis has two different skin colors. The color is different where the foreskin has been removed. I'm sure like any other scars I've had the difference in skin color has lessened over time. I don't even consider it scarred because I've been circumcised since I was an infant. I doubt you look that much different than anybody else you just aren't used to it looking like that because you weren't circumcised as an infant.

[gregk]

dud mine is like that to and I was circumcised as a baby I have scars and a

brown circ ring on my d*** and yes mine changes colors to it goes from a pinkesh

color from the head to my circ ring then it get darker skin tone so your normol

[TheMajesticSea]

yeah I think it does matter for me personally.

btw what's the point in circumcision at 14 years old, honestly? ouch!

well welcome to the world of female concerns. I've never been worried about myself (I have a pretty pussy) but a lot of girls are and don't want oral either. I think its crazy. I went out with a girl who was really hesitant about me going down on her and that was annoying but she eventually let loose. there was nothing wrong with her. not saying I wouldn't be turned off by an ugly penis but you shouldn't let that keep you from being comfortable with yourself.

some people don't mind it though so I'm sure for some girls it doesn't matter.

[sarahh_12]

My boyfriends penis has two colors and I have no problem with it. I love giving him head, it's the fact that I'm pleasing him that matters. Honestly, I don't think it matters to most girls.

[Asker]

This is refreshing to read! Thanks for your input.

[katiesmuff]

To me it does not matter, just as long as it will work to make me a happy girl.

[Gregs]

by the time you have your d*** out, who cares if it looks bad or not, just stick it in asap

[cutekid]

Nothing luks more beautiful than an erect penis ready 2 go down,.who cares about luks or wat...

[emzy-89]

i couldn't care less what it looks like.

[faraday]

My penis is 14 inches so you should feel bad about yourself, jk, nah brah, women don't care about that sh1t.

[mickey52087]

no it don't matter...but when I do see a long nice thick even skinned one I must compliment

[Anonymous]

I don't care as long as there aren't any herpes. Most guys are insecure about their penises (size, color, smell, etc.)

Oral sex should be very pleasureful and if you are too insecure to enjoy it that is fine.

[Anonymous]

Noooo! Guys think girls care so much about the way a penis looks, it's size etc, but we really don't! I've been with 3 guys and all 3 had a different size and looked completely different. I like that, I get to see something new instead of the same old thing all the time! :) Just think, do you care how a vagina looks? Most guys I know say, a vagina is a vagina and they're just glad to get some, and that's the same for us girls! ;D

[Anonymous]

It sucks today that girls are so hellbent on circumcision. It's almost sad. I mean, 60% of the world is uncircumcised, but I understand that majority of Americans are. Girls see them as unhygenic, and really create a complex for guys. Just like weight.. girls need a guy with a 6pack and a guy with a gut gets no attention. It seems like the stereotype and what the media depicts a hot guy to be like is what girls use their basis off of. I am attractive, I am circumcised, but I am sick of all the bullsh*t that comes attached to females today. They are always looking for the next best thing.

[faraday]

So very true

[Pwnfrnzy]

The influence of mass-culture, it's changed everything of modern society.

[Asker]

Here is where I disagree. I have seen many guys who are overweight have more game with women than I. Girls like a guy who can smooth talk as well as back it up. Obviously if you are referring to obese/morbidly obese men, the complexity of the subject changes. Would you want to date someone who neglects their personal health? I wouldn't.

[TheMajesticSea]

Are you serious? lol you do know that women aren't the ones responsible for creating the practice of circumcision or even enforcing it? you can't blame women for what men created. we didn't create the complex, its already embedded into our society and we grow up with it just like you do. standards for physique imposed on men? are you kidding me? I'm not even going there lmao.

[Opinion Owner]

Glad the whore provided a response. I never said women were responsible for circumcision, but they are awfully picky when it comes down to being with a guy who isn't. Again as stated, I myself am circumcised but I have a best friend who is not. A girl outright refused to hookup with him when she found out about this. Just like me not liking how your inner labia hangs like sleeve of wizard. Did I cause that or create that? No. Do I see that in p*rn? No. But am I so ignorant I'd say no to it? No.