How recently washed do you prefer a girl when you're going to go down on her?

A lot of girls are really self-conscious about the way that their vagina smells and tastes. We overhear guys complain about a girl tasting or smelling gross and we don't want to be that girl, nor do we want giving oral sex to be a negative experience for our partner. Personally, I developed a bit of a complex about it when I was 15 with the first guy I was sexually active with. I was conscious about my cleanliness and would shower before I saw him in case we decided to fool around. This particular time, we had been hanging out for a few hours and he started going down on me. Afterwards, he sent me a message online asking me if I could shower before he went down on me because apparently I had a little jelly-like discharge when he went down on me and it was gross for him. I was incredibly embarrassed and mortified that he thought I didn't shower. Having discharge is natural for vaginas and its not really something we can help, but I still felt bad because I didn't want him to have a negative experience when going down on me. I kind of carried that experience with me, and even now, 9 years later, I feel self-conscious about how I taste, smell, and how "clean" I am. My current partner and I have lived together for 4 years and he LOVES giving oral sex. I still feel the need to let him know if I haven't showered recently or if he asks me if he can go down on me, I'll ask him if he wants me to shower first. He's told me that he actually prefers when my vagina isn't fresh out of the shower. I don't mean that he wants me to not shower for a few days, but he said he likes the natural taste and smell better than the just-washed taste and smell. He said its more pleasant and a bigger turn on. I'm just curious, do many other guys feel the same way? Do you prefer to go down on a girl when she's just out of the shower, or do you prefer it when she's in a more natural state?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A resounding hell yes, great question. Most natural men prefer the natural scent and taste, no additives or preservatives. All the different fragrances and product reduces the magnetism. Some women scents are stronger but no matter whom or what it is that natural scent that arouses us. Heck, just look at the animals the first place a male canine puts his nose is in the females back side/vagina. They say a female dogs scent can be smelled from miles and it drives the male crazy. Ur boyfriend nailed it on the head. Press that thang in his face as much as possible allow him to enjoy u fully

  • Any time in the last 24 hours is fine with me. I actually prefer if she hasn't just gotten out of the shower because I like her to taste and smell natural rather than like soap. Sometimes my girlfriend will try to stop me from going down on her and tell me she wants to go shower first. I tell her I want to go down on her just the way she is.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Of course the girl needs to be clean, but what he said really is ridiculous. As long as you take a shower everyday, that should be enough.

    What did he expect to come out of there when you are fooling around? Strawberry flavoured glitter?

    • Haha

  • Personally, I'd like to wash at least an hour before or something.. or if I don't get the time I'd use on of those wipes..

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  • Whenever, it doesn't matter lol

  • I prefer not just out of the shower. I like the aroma of a womans pussy, and it should be a few hours out of
    the shower at least. It is tastier, and I like eating a natural vag.

  • i want a girls vagina / vulva to smell and taste like vagina / vulva 100% I want to taste and smell all her scent lol and I want it to get slippery wet OMG I'm turned on by thinking about it lol

  • Girls need to stop worrying so much that they smell down there. Guys can smell raunchy down there too if they don't wash their penis enough. Why is a girls vagina any different? One shower a day is sufficent. Although that would be nice if they had just got out of the shower since it would then be all dripping wet and delicious.

  • I prefer to go down there when she hasn’t showered recently. It tastes and smells amazing, instead of like body wash and shampoo.

  • I think she should have had a showered at the same day.

  • It doesn't matter as long as she showered that day, or at least in the last 24 hours, or didn't just get done running a marathon. That white discharge stuff actually really turns me on to be honest, especially if it's creamy. I know it's a woman's natural juices so the sight and smell of it drive me crazy. I would not worry about how you smell down there, just enjoy it when a guy goes down for you.

    • I totally agree, women dont make your men feel like perverts because they enjoy your juices and the things that secrete from your girl down there, we're all closet obsessed you guys vsginas