GUYS: does a guy mean it when he says that its degrading for a woman to give a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend just recently told me that he sees blowjobs as degrading etc etc.. is he serious? he said that he used to have a girl who would always want to give him one and he didn't want it and now he doesn't talk to her anymore.. ? Is he just saying this so I would like him more and possibly give him a blowjob in the future?! AND ALSO> how do guys see blowjobs ? do you think its degrading and all but you just hide the fact since it feels so good?! would you end up losing respect from the girl that gave you one?!

[Brando]

Well it depends on how he said it. You can probably tell if he was saying it to play the "nice guy" or if he was being serious. I don't see them as degrading, but they could be turned into that. Some guys, like this guy, might just be more traditional in how he has sex. Things like p*rn might be how he doesn't want to have sex with a girl, as he sees it as degrading. Some guys are just like that.

I wouldn't lose respect for a girl if she gave me one, because it's part of sex. However, if she gave it up real quick, like soon after I met her, I might not take her as seriously as someone I'd got to know first then had sex with.

[Anonymous]

It is possible he thinks that way. I don't think oral sex is degrading, I love giving and receiving. One thing I would never do is come on a woman's face like in p*rn, that seems degrading to me for some reason. I think anal sex is gross and degrading to women also.

[JennyNice]

No, it is not degrading.

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[carlstatlin]

Its not degrading. what's his views on going down on a girl? I think bondage, golden showers, and poop fetishis are though.

[branden1979]

Well. Whether its degrading or not is just someone's opinion. Being the person that I am, I wouldn't ask a lady to give me one. But if she volunteered I wouldn't stop her. But anyway, I think your guy is probably being sincere and probably does think its degrading and therefore he is not really into it.