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Okay here's the deal guys & girls do MEN actually like a larger outer labia? I want honesty fellows! Spank ya!

Okay here's the deal I don't want to beat around the bush. I'm 18 & still a virgin... I'm saving sex for marriage no problem there, its no rush. My problem is, obviously the opposite sex hasn't seen me naked. Normally I'm confident and sexy. But I find myself already nervous and scared for when I do tie the knot due to my large outer labia. I know this is an often enough asked question, and that a lot of men did say the bigger the better. I just can't seem to get that through my thick stubborn skull, because to me mine is unattractive, but I have to say that I do like to play with them, I never said they weren't fun, I get excited easily and I do love the fact that you can visually tell when I'm aroused they will swell and throb. Is it a deal breaker for some men or what? I mean if I got married tomorrow and my husband didn't like larger labia's then I would have to deal with the fact that my husband wasn't hot for my vagina... There are cruel names out there for them I suppose made by young boys who can't appreciate them... What do men and woman have to say id like your honest opinion?
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  • I think the misconception comes from the fact that women, and this isn't limited to labia, but rather all aspects dealing with the body, tend to be unhappy with what they have compared to someone else's. That said, the vagina can be a beautiful thing in all shapes and sizes, contrary to what p*rn tells us.

    I would totally give it not another moment's consideration. Most of us love them for what they are- the fact that, as you say, they visually swell and throb can be mindbogglingly erotic! Additionally the fact that you enjoy playing with them yourself is a testament to the simple reality that they are to be enjoyed and that you are comfortable and confident in yourself.

    I'm of the opinion that when presented in that light (sexually confident/ knowing what you want and how to get it) far outweighs the physical attributes of the part itself in terms of being erotic. Hope this helps :)

  • well it really depends. I mean I can say it doesn't matter all day long and it won't mean anything. This is going to sound like me being a creeper but since you are anonymous I won't know any different.. and honestly if you want to privately send a picture of just that (so it is impossible for anyone to recognize you at all I will give you my honest opinion. if you do just message me privately and if not then that's cool too. The best I can say is be happy with what you have. some guy will love it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No you are not going to find this a problem. Millions of girls before you have found men do not relate that to anything bad, and in fact problably like it a little better as it really gives them something to mess with when giving you oral. Mine are quite large and I've never incountered any problem with any guy not liking it. this is just something you need not worry about!

  • FIRST AND FOREMOST I LOVE LOVE LOVE THAT UR WAITING FOR MARRIAGE. I WISH I WAS STILL A VIRGIN.. ANYWHO, AS FOR UR LIPEEEes BIG OR SMALL ITS HOT.. AND REALLY.. GUYS JUST LIKE A HOLE. BUT AS FOR UR HUBBY... HELL B IN LOVE WITH You NOT UR VAGINA. THE VAGINA IS 2ND TO WHOM You R.

    DONT WORRY FREAK! HAHAHA I LOVE U!

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  • In the same way that some guys bring a condom "just in case," I always brought a tape measure with me whenever I went on a date.

    Hey, you never know.

  • they love them camel toes girl be proud

  • I prefer smaller labia

  • "Is it a deal breaker for some men or what?" Well, if you're in a close relationship leaning towards marriage, it's hard to believe you would not have at least gone to Third Base with him. You would then have the answer to your question.

    "Is it a deal breaker for some men or what?" Having a Camel Toe (I didn't coin the term am only using it.) is usually considered as hot. However, there may be some guys out there with sanctimonious leanings who may not find it so attractive.

    • Honestly if third base is feeling somebodys junk... no I don't want to have anybody see me or touch me intimintly before I'm married nor do I want to feel anyone else. It may be uncommon but that's just me I'm the only one alloud in my pants lol

    • I don't understand such devotion to virginity but you may lament holding on to it. A physical relationship with the opposite gender takes on a whole different life of its own. Something best to know about and experience before considering a lifelong commitment with someone. It's just a thought.

    • Why anyone would promise to stay with someone for the rest of their life before they even know what the other person looks like is beyond me. I suspect it is people like you, question asker, that contribute a lot to the number of divorces.

  • ...was this a question? or did you just feel like talking about your vagina for abit? loool look love, you know their really isn't an issue here lol but ill still humour you with an answer...guys are don't really care all 2 much...the ones that say they prefer smaller or woteva...probably haven't had sex before. Size really doesn't matter lol aslong as its not massive on the inside :-s

    Most girls end up with large labias after sex with the doctor anyway so its all natural to me lol :)

    • Yes it was a question but its a bit awkward to ask about so I might have blabbed on for a bit lol but thanks for the answer.

    • Lol anytime

  • you can always say your labia isn't that large to reduce its size

    with feeling (lots of air in the body)

    but I don't think for marriage it matters

    he wouldn't care cause its you

    i mean how large ?

    as long as he could eat you out and feel compfy doing it I'm sure he will be cool with what you have

    im sure its a fine labia

    just love your vagina

    and he will too

  • (Is it a deal breaker for some men or what?) Not that I can imagine. My Asian SO now has the worlds smallest and baldest innie and a prior had a dense blond rain forest surrounding dangling pink curtains. They're all fun. Worry about your character, RomanyRae.

    A man who would judge your worth based on the architecture of your vulva isn't worth your time.

  • You have a gift. No guy is going to say it's a deal breaker. If he does, then he doesn't like vagina.

  • LOVE Huge Outer labia, Honey...

    So I'd marry you tomorrowLOL ;)

    But I do not like overflappy inner lips ... in fact, I like the large outer to cover the inner even when legs are somewhat open.

    Just LOVE Beautiful Cameltoe :)

  • Beautiful, Girl ... just Beautiful

    I don't know about other guys, but for me, Fantastic, wonderfully-endowed OUTER labia [not so much huge inner] but those Fleshy outer lips, Sweetie, they are the most Glorious sight on a Girl, and just the Hugest turn on, Girl.

    You must be a Living doll.

    Whoever this guy will be, I would LOVE to be in his shoes ... well, actually OUT of them and into YOU lol! ;)

    And I love that you are waiting for Mr Right and MarriaGE.

    100+ Points just for that one, Girl

    • why not so much inner:(

  • I can tell you that I love large labia to kiss them and play with them, and if someone turned down by them so you could about his equipment. You sad that if you get married and he has a problem, then it's clearly his problem not yours.

    I see that you have fun with your labia that means you acept your body and like all of it, that's how it should be and yes there are cruel names made up by brain death people with much bigger problems.

    your Baloo

  • It's just more to play with ;)

    It doesn't matter to me though, vagina is vagina lol

    • Haha thanks that's actually helpful

  • All vaginas are beautiful.

  • i am sure that any guy is just happy to be there and doesn't care one bit.

  • Sorry to say but guys talk crap about girls vaginas just like girls do about a guys penis

  • You are just fine and normal, and have nothing at all to feel insecure about.
    Most men will love you down there or won't care either way.
    I know I prefer large labia minora but I don't know if you are referring to majora (outer lips) or minora (inner lips) either way they are wonderful.

  • Sounds delicious! love it large get more satisfaction and blood flow

  • I get turned on by larger labia just as much as I would any other vagina. Each vagina is as unique as the girl that has it and I appreciate them all. Unless the girl is not nice anyways lol.

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