I understand what your going through. I have tried going a week without masterbating, and I felt a big difference in my Confidence level. I no longer felt worried about people judging me as much, and I just felt a lot more comfortable around people. Funny, after a week though, I slipped and it felt great! Then again, I started to feel a detachment again. Maybe the more you wait, the better you feel. If you think about it, it makes sense. If you masterbate, you feel less of an urge or need to impress girls, or try dating etc. But in the end, isn't that where people ultimately want to be? We turn to P*rn to satisfy what we are lacking in our lives, but maybe we're stunting our own progression in the relationship field. Less sperm=less sexual tension=less need to look for a partner to do "the nitty gritty" for you=more masterbation=continuation of the process. Its not, by far, an easy habit to stop, because lets be honest, we all enjoy it like crazy! But my suggestion is to wait as long as you possibly can, and if you slip, that's totally fine. But I'm sure you'll notice a big difference.
It's probably because you have that sexual tension built up and the urge to satisfy it. When you have this underlying sexual aggression, you might not question the downsides to approaching a girl because you are acting off of sexual urges and not your "normal" self. Maybe a lot more guys should quit rubbing them out so that they can get a girl with less anxiety lol.
to me its oppostie. I like to masturbate because 1) it feels absolutely amazing and relieves my sexual tension without sleeping around and 2) because I know what makes me feel good so I'm confident when I actually am with a guy. Knowing your own sexuality is a huge confidence booster.
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I dnt feel better if I dnt when I really do need 2 do it,.anyway,i always find my way out confidently..
self confident, more productive, less worried if I get rejected by a girl... true I feel the same... thinking about giving up totally... the benefits are worth more... in stead of feeling like shit, I still look at p*rn but hold back my load tho... Funny I remember picking up girls and nailing em, when I didn't masterabte, I swear it's as if women can sense it...
Actually yeah I do feel better if I don't do it. I don't really get why but I do.
You just end up having wet dreams...
No you don't. I've never had one of those.
Drink a glass of water before bed... I found stops me from cumming in my sleep, when I don't masterbate
I'm happier that I do masturbate. It's fun, I always 'cum'. I don't see how not masturbating has any correlation to you being less worried about being rejected by a girl. Plus your hand never complains, and you never have to buy it stuff.
Yes yes what this guy says!!!! =D
I found the last line DEEEPLY amusing.
Also, if he never masturbates.. I'm sure sex will be the greatest 90 seconds of his life.
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