Do you ever feel like a slut after having sex with someone?

[Anonymous]

Do you ever feel slutty or guilty after having sex with someone? For men & women. Or do you ever feel used?

[AnonymousDude]

admittedly, I haven't had sex.

but I don't think anyone should feel guilty after sex. If it was consentual and you weren't doing it to get something out of them(money, help), then I don't see any reason for you to feel guilty or slutty.

we as humans have urges and it feels damn good to satisfy those urges, for a guy this tends to be nothing(dont usually feel bad) but for girls it nothing but issues for them(feel bad, slutty and such)

Maybe it's just me who feels this...I've never had a problem with the sexuality of girls unlike most people out there

[sham_now]

Sometimes. I broke up with the girl I lost my virginity too after 2 and a half years. Over the next three months I had 12 other women, and 6 more since then. I just kinda feel like if you aren't actually down for more than the bedroom action just pass on that glass, cause its way more fulfilling to satisfy someone you like.

[saphirasilverwings]

I've only ever had sex with my boyfriend, who always makes me feel exceptionally loved and appreciated, so I never feel used. I don't feel guilty either because I am really not doing anything wrong.

If I ever had sex with a guy who wasn't my boyfriend, I would probably regret it. I wouldn't necessarily feel guilty, slutty, or used, but I would probably feel sad and empty.

[Anonymous]

Unless it's with a guy I'm in a relationship with, I feel guilty every time.

[Asker]

I just had a chat with a guy over the internet. He started talking dirty out of no where & I didn't really give him a responce. But he kept going, telling me about his dirty fantasy, & then when he finished, he said he had to go. I didn't even want to hear about this crap, & even though I didn't really say much back, I felt guilty for listening. What do you think about this?

[Opinion Owner]

That kind of thing makes me feel used. That's not you being slutty though, and nothing to feel guilty over. It does however give me the impression that I'm like a sex object. That he didn't care enough to treat me like a person with feelings but merely a tool for his own sexual cravings. I dislike it.

[Asker]

Thank you. It is so nice to here from someone who understands.

[teaser2010]

there are times I feel guilty and sometimes I feel I'm just being used.

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin but after I "hook up" with someone, I always feel totally guilty and used

[VirginSuicide17]

Same here! I'm not sure why....it's not like I had sex with them. But I definitely feel guilty.