Is it bad that I have never... "jacked off" before?

I mean, I know that's a VERY blunt question, but I've always wondered this and almost all of my friends give me sh*t about it. I really want some advice on this because it's been bugging me for a few years now. I don't really care about doing that and such, I'm not really that much of a guy who likes sex and such that much. I'm more of the teddy bear guy you can hold. I can be aggressive when I want to, honest. I just want to know is it really bad that I don't? I even called up a sex advice radio talk-show and told them and they just did nothing but bash me. Please answer honestly... I'm taking a chance and leaving this with my real name one it. My real name is not Noah, it's Jeremy actually.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Holy goodness you are my icon. The apex of humanity. You are the bomb. People will tell you: Yeah its a normal natural thing that the human race does to let off sexual steam and its okay.

    People will tell you that you are missing out that you haven't lived until you have that you have to do this in your pilgrimage to man hood.

    Being a man should not be about soaking in sexual desires but having self control and respect for yourself. If you can't respect yourself how do you expect to respect others by defiling your body? If a woman has infatuation over you and you give her a flower her heart soars now imagine if you told her I have never screwed myself or anybody. You see emotional sex is when both genders have strong feelings towards one another and it is a very bonding experience meant for nobody else but you two. And if you saved yourself for her from everybody and yourself that is a way of giving yourself up to her. Your pride your dignity your sexual life is in her hands. You are giving it all up to her. That says how much you trust and love her.

    You only need to have sex once to take this away from both her and yourself. Do the righteous thing and continue to set an example for others. Think not what you see but what is right.

    With best of wishes.

    d8880

    • Thank you for that enlightening answer. Honestly and without sarcasm. Thank you. :)

  • Well it's fine that you haven't but you should ATLEAST give it a try then the bugging can stop.

    But other the that not much else I wana say sorta uncomfortable with this stuff...though you could have a low hormone level so probly want to see a docter if your that worried.

Most Helpful Girls

  • no its not bad...i like guys that don't cause I respect them more! I hate that every guy is all into a girl for sex and then just dumps her or leaves her...that p*sses me off and I like it better when I guy is pure or when he is faithful to one girl...

    -help me please?

    • Well I am 21 and a virgin...n would like to be your friend

  • Nothing wrong with you at all. Wouldn't give too much thought to the bashing and teasing. Some people are just plain a**holes. When you are ready to get sexually active with yourself as well as with others you will know. No time clock on this.

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  • not bad really, just odd.

    I mean you are kind of missing out on a great feeling thing here.

    "sex advice radio talk-show"

    loveline?

    • Yup, you guessed it.

    • I haven't listen to them for a few months now, but normally it's their guests and the host opposite Dr. Drew that are rowdy and judgmental, Dr. Drew is more of an understanding kind of guy.

    • I figured, but that makes sense. Thanks.

  • Doesn't matter at all. If masturbation doesn't work for you, then it doesn't. Besides, to whom could you possibly owe this duty?

    P.S.: Those radio people? *ssholes.

  • people are gonna give you sh*t whether you wack it too much or hardly ever or never. it's your body, so do what you please and don't worry about others opinion.

  • Honestly, Not Bad

  • Don't you ever feel horny? If yes, don't you want to satisfy yourself?