Saying things like: "I love it when you..." ; or ; "Wow" (when he hit a good spot) ; etc..
- Words are a guiding force for men, let us know what you want. We can't read minds ;)
If he's paying attention to you, more than himself, body behavior is an indicator too
- Arching your back, rolling your eyes, etc.. Are all great indicators that you like what he's doing. Keep in mind that you don't want to "over-do" these things (an example of a bad scenario is when you express that "him doing something which literally is boring for you" is amazing - because you arched your back / etc)...
Communication other than guiding
- Tell him straight up: "I want you to dominate me tonight" or "I wanna try hand cuffs with you"
* - This one is kind of awkward at first, but to be honest it's probably the best way to get what you want.
Watch a p*rno with him and say give hints (Women are awesome at this)... But you get the idea, brush up against him when there's a position they're doing that you like, etc..
- Here's a not-so-unspoken tip.. Most men suck at reading hints. (This one will require a lot of patience)
etc.. Hopefully you.. "enjoy".. the tips ;D
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Your a good looking women sweetumbs, something tells me he won't take much coaxing.
I like to be a bit rough by nature so its had for me to comment but one thing always brings out my dominant / rag you about side.
Next time he is sat down relaxing or watching TV or something go sit on him with your legs around his waist. Then put your mouth next to his ear and grap his hair "If he's got any" OR "His head" and whisper but in a firm voice that you want him to knock the back out of you. And that you want him to slap you around a little maybe.
Plus, sweetumbs make sure you bite him while he's banging ya. Bite harder the rougher he gets.
Man I sure like the sound of that. bet you have some fun! Let me know how you get on honey!
Regards,
Johno
Lol.. thank you.
when I want it rough I signal my man by digging my nails in his back he will automatically start f***ing me harder so he doesn't feel pain...be rough with him and hell get the right idea, put his hand on you neck or slide your wrists under his hands when he's ontop. also sometimes guys get the idea of what you want but don't know when theyre overdoing it and may think they should so it the whole time or all the time so just let him know he needs to switch it up and try something diff instead of the same thing all the time
Begin talking that way to him and make sure he knows you want it loud and rough. When he is putting it in you be sure and yell at him to "make it hurt"
Don't ever put your address on here, guys from all over will be boarding planes to get to your home! lol
Lmao.
Tell him exactly what you want! My understanding is that direction turns them on even more...Have Fun!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Start this process slowly, try by first making him say things, then force him to change what he is doing by switching positions. Find out what his fantasy and reward him with it when he starts doing things you like, let him know you are not a porcelain doll and that he can be a little rough. Direct him with words and encouragement and he will quickly become that aggressive man you are looking for.
Reward = BJ? ;)
If that is what he likes why not?
have a play wrestle, that would give me the message. I think its a good idea anyway, this way he can learn what's rough enough and what's too rough, before there's erections and boobies flying around
"Dominate me."
"Have [your] freakin way with me."
"Make it hurt!"
This.
Believe it or not, you'll think I'm crazy, but when I had lower self-esteem - I thought women would say this because they wanted something more than what I could offer.
Maybe they did; dominance isn't for everyone. Even if you can learn, you have to learn how *your woman* wants to be dominated. That's why it's so important for everybody to speak up; she says what she wants, you say if you can give it.
be very vocal. flirt with him constantly. I'd suggest wearing a short skirt and crawl across his lap and beg for a spanking while wiggling your tushie. then strip out of that skirt for him. guys like it when girls flirt with them...even if they know they can have them.
Take him to a big action movie right before hand or something else that will get his testosterone pumping.
Tell him what you want and be gentle but firm wioth your voice...when he starts doing it tell him how great he is doing and how awesome it feels
Tell him. Flat out.
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