What do men find sexy about a woman?

What would make the sexiest first impression. Would it be hair, skin, a dress, heels? I'm feeling sexy and want to show it without being slutty.

 

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  • From my experience, men tend to love these things ( long hair mostly wavy\straight, big eyes, filled lips, and they notice your height, but it depends if they like short or tall, rarely they're obsessed about weight unless you are a walking skeleton or a baby elephant)

    so what they don't care much about is nose and body, probably what girls give themselves hard time about =D

  • look at it this way:

    girl wearing sweat pants, baggy shirt, no makeup= no

    shorts, make-up, cleavage= yes


    very simple. but to answer your question, don't wear too much makeup. you can still look like a good girl but when you wear too much, you instantly turn into a slut.

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    I find everything sexy about a woman.but mostly a woman will define what is sexy about herself. If she is confident, then her confidence is sexy. If she feels beautiful, then she will flaunt her beauty and that is sexy. If she is shy, that shyness will make a man so hot he aches.


    Her movements normally defines these things. The way she plays with her hair, or twitches her lips, or even licks her lips. I'm a sucker for eyes. I could stare at women's eyes forever. They are the soul. I am such a sucker for a woman with soft sweet eyes staring back at me. The color doesn't matter.


    Then there is her skin.have you ever noticed a woman with skin so soft you knew it before you ever touched her. You could taste how smooth her neck was from across the room by the way her hair cascaded down it. You could feel the gentleness of her fingers on your face without even feeling them.


    Women show you their sexiness when they feel their own sexiness.and frankly.it drives me crazy.

    • Completely agree with him too. It's so sexy when a girl is confident, obv not cocky, there is a difference, but confident and accepting of what she is and what she has to offer. Most women are so naturally beautiful they really don't have to think about what to do, because, as Torodon has pointed out, the best things come naturally to them.

    • How can we let the guy know that the signals ARE for him? I'm having that problem. There's a guy I think is interested in me, and we kind of flirt with each other somewhat, and he won't make any moves back at me. I've asked him to a dance (he already had a date), made physical contact, and given compliments. What else can I do?

    • You don't know how helpful that is, now I have a different outlook on the way I can get to know the future guys I meet

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  • A sexy woman is one who is confident in herself. To me there is nothing like a woman who you can tell is comfortable with herself. On top of that the next thing I'm drawn to is her eyes what can I say I'm a sucker for gorgeous eyes. This may sound weird but I'm not all that into makeup on a woman, to me most of the time it looks to fake, and to go along with the confidence thing its like she's hiding herself or something. Sidenot to me a woman can be sexy while wearing sweatpants or just casual clothing doesn't have to be a strand of fabric some girls call clothes

  • The heels, but low hills or sandals/flip-flops, not high. The second is the legs, then the tan. The fourth is the belly. Then it's the hips. After it's the face. Sometime it's the face directly, it depends.

  • heels with a skirt that goes right above the knee. Legs are usually the 3rd sexiest part of a woman and heels make them look toned and ready to be touched while if you show your t*ts its average and your ass can't be shown due to you need to be out in public

  • It would be hair, you could be a bbw or a model, if you have the right hair or done up I will be drawn to you not attracted persay but drawn, after that its the way you dress, you gotta look like a classy lady, scarft, dress, somethingl ike that. then skin

  • It's hard to answer. What I find sexy on one girl not so much on another. In general it could be (I have very specific taste) It could be as simple as a pair of lacy/strap sandals with a 3-4 inch heal. I like naturally curly hair. More like wavy not like a Brillo pad. Her grill work (teeth) eyes, smile then of course her body. There is nothing better than a red head. I don't like when red heads wear green. Why do they do that? They all do? Do they like looking like a Christmas tree all year? I have to assume that you mean more the way they dress. Just a nice pair of pants or jeans that show their assets. No pun intended. Tops well not too revealing. I think at times I can even find a sweater sexy. I guess all in all it's mostly her face, teeth.eyes,hair & a body proportioned to height & weight. Her personality & seance of humor put the whole visual package together. I once saw a girl at a party that just blew me away. What a rocking little body. I talked to her for a few minutes and within the first minute it was like Noooooo way. To whiny.I didn't even need a visit from the melty man as there was no way my soldier was going into battle to capture that mound. I'm sure that you have seen a guy and thought wow but as soon as you talk to him it was NO THANKS.

    OMG GGGRRRRRRR I don't think that I answered your question very well but I usually let my little head do the thinking for the big one.

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    • Redheads are told to wear "earthy colors". Brown, green etc. I hate Christmas so I don't wear green. I always wished I had green eyes but those damn genetics. I am feeling you about getting turned off in the first minute. I have also met men who I wasn't immediately attracted to but was turned on in the first couple minutes of talking to them. I'm not sure if you answered the question but your answer is interesting none the less.

  • Well, I'm gonna be honest, I'm a leg man. If the legs are bare they're the first thing that catches my eye. Then I move up to the eyes and hair. Sexy without slutty to me would imply casual. If you've got curves, show them off, but don't put on clothes that look like they were specifically designed for that purpose. You're an attractive redhead; that's something of a rarity because most redheads naturally have squinty eyes that I don't like, but you don't.


    Above all, what's sexy to me is skill. Doesn't matter what the skill is in. Watching a girl doing something that is difficult and making it look easy, like it's second nature to her, whether it's something athletic, something artistic, or whatever, that to me is insanely sexy. There's a number of reasons for it I think that I won't go into on here, but what matters is that seeing a girl doing something she's highly skilled at is a turnon for me, regardless of what the activity is. Confidence is sexy and nobody is ever more confident than when they're performing an activity that they know they're good at and happy to show it off.

    • I never said long was what was attractive, just that it's the first thing I notice.

    • That sucks. My legs are short.

  • If I have never met a girl, the difference between "oh hi, nice to meet you" and "wow, she's hot" for me are the following things (not necessarily in order). I take them all in pretty quickly so you can't just say its nice tits (in fact, tits, or should I say the size of them doesn't really matter) or something, its an overall impression:


    Makup: should be understated. I think this is the easiest way to go from sexy to slutty is too much makeup.


    Fragrance: A very pretty feminine scent, but not too much. VS has some really nice perfumes and I like oils like petuli too.


    Attitude: I can always tell if a girl is confident in herself and her sexuality. A nice smile, confident demeanor. "I'm hot and I know it".


    Clothes: I love women that show just enough to entice. I like tight jeans, shorts and short skirts and a sexy lace trimed top like a camisole or even a tank. I love the strappy look, layered cami's or tanks a hint of a sexy bra. If I get a peek of lace with sexy color underneath, it is very inticing for what may be to come.


    Pretty?, i.e., nice hair, pretty face, well proportioned body. This is kind of subjective and pretty depends on who is looking.


    I think sometimes women do not understan how much their flaws can be covered up by some of these simple things. A woman may not be beautiful, but if she feels sexy, it shows and is sexy.

    • LOL... I don't know how wise I am, but I do know what appeals to "me" in women. Everyone has different tasts and I don't pretend to speak for all guys. I also think there is a difference between initial attractiveness i.e., what gets immediate attention and long term attrativeness, staying power.

    • Coming from a man of wisedom. I have heard from several guys that girls who don't wear a lot of makeup, show self confidence, dress nicely, care about their appearence, get manis and pedis, and don't come off as being available are sexy and attractive.

    • Very helpful answer. You sound like a man who knows what he likes and knows his women:)

  • The sexiest thing is a good soul, the feeling of trust that hits you or doesn't) immediately.


    This impression is a lot stronger than what a guy thinks of your legs or your dress, etc. Not that we don't notice that, but only for a minute.the feeling of the good soul doesn't fade but in fact gets stronger with time.

  • It really depends on the best feature of your body. I think.

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