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Girls; Are girls naive to the pain of a kick in the balls?

A question for girls... I can understand it in serious situations, but I hear stories of girls kicking guys in the balls when play-fighting, or school girls doing it for fun & a laugh. Is this because TV always seems to show this as being funny, or when it happens in films or dramas, the guys reaction is never as intense as it would be in real life. I just wondered if girls are generally naive & unaware of how painful it is for a guy because of how it's shown on TV?... And why girls would do it when not absolutely necessary?... Thanks in advance for any replies...
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  • Some facts about testicle trauma:

    -It may cause the victim to throw up.

    -It may cause the victim to passout.

    -It may cause “testicular torsion”, by initiating a muscle spasm; this is rare but is a medical emergency, testicular torsion may not happen immediately after the trauma.

    -Testicles move freely and are slippery to avoid trauma, but if the trauma sustained by the testicle is hard enough (50Kg), the testicle will POP(rupture), and then probably must be removed. This is rare, and usually is associated with sport injuries when not wearing a cup. Even when can be repaired, the resulting inflammation will turn most of the contents into permanent damaged material.

    -Even a medium force trauma will cause the destruction of spermatozoa-production cells. It will not cause sterility because those cells are in massive quantities, however those cells do not regenerate, it is permanent damage. And if hit many times or too hard, it may cause infertility, because the sperm count/mobility must be acceptable in order to get a woman pregnant by natural means.

    -Will also reduce spermatozoa production as a result of hormonal changes, one of those changes is testosterone reduction.

    -Erection problems.

    -May damage the epididymis, and that is critical, because sperm must be stored there to gain mobility to be able to swim.

    -May rupture major blood vessels, and draining the scrotum will be needed. Or microscopic veins inside the testicles, this will permanently destroy cells indirectly.

    -In case of very hard trauma, the testicle/s can swell for more than a weak, with resulting excruciating pain and severe damage from prolonged heavy inflammation. The swelling it is similar to mumps, but in the case of mumps it will cause sterility for sure, and the testicles(usually just one) will shrink too, very sad and scary.

    -In some cases may cause the antibodies to start attacking the person own sperm.

    -It may even cause death as result of PAIN, heart will fail right away or will begin to fail(heart beat will became fast and irregular, usually face and lips very white) until finally stops, this is called “neurogenic shock”, and it is not that rare like people think, most of the times the victim is saved because gets medical attention on time, it will need shocks to the heart using the defibrillator!.

    -Among other symptoms, the victim will feel shock/panic/confusion/anger, violated/abused, embarrassment/humiliation; those feelings will be stronger if young; especially if they do not know or never heard about “kicking in the groin”. The victim may seem OK, but will try to hide those feelings. It depends on the person and from the situation. This will lead to Post-Traumatic Stress, the worse symptoms may only reveal a year later! People forget about emotional trauma, but it is the worse, and will not go away like the physical suffering. All men that “like” the fetish called “ballbusting”have some kind of mental or emotional disorder; and the most common cause for that is part 1

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    because it happened to them in the past, they are psychologically very ill, it may change their life’s completely. The emotional trauma of being assaulted in such a private area, or the physical suffering, or the fact that it is a barbaric act, should be more than enough for girls not to do that; but the sad truth is that the only thing that make some(not all for sure) girls think twice before doing that is the permanent physical damage. It is a form of rape, male rape.

    -Physical violence it is only acceptable if you are trying to defend/escape yourself from someone that is trying to use physical violence on you, and you may only use the necessary violence to ESCAPE harm, escape not to seek revenge. And kicking someone in the groin is only “acceptable” if someone is trying to kill you, or rape you(only extreme EMERGENCIES), not because you are pissed off, and most certainly not for fun like it is most of the times, keep it a fantasy(why you girls don’t tell your Dads what you did, I am sure they will be PROUD of you).

    -Ironically, if someone is trying to kill you or rape you, probably is expecting that defense from you, and so you will not be able to kick him.

    You also have the right to use that defense if you are attacked by a STRANGER, and NO ONE ELSE IS AROUND, you never know his intentions. But you have no right to use that defense if you are attacked by a stranger or not, in a place where are other people around, like in school, or at home with your family, or in a bar, etc.

    -This is becoming too popular, specially in schools, girls get sexually aroused by that!. Women look sweet, but…….they are very mean and cruel by nature, they just try to hide it, it is very sad. Lucky for women men are not very vindictive like women are, and men are not very aggressive towards women like women are towards men, in fact men are very protective towards women. Men do not even hit back after getting kicked in the privates. Men like to see and touch women sexual organs, they do not like to hurt them or to see it happen to women. Women are so much sensitive about their sexual organs and sexuality, but then do that to men and laugh! Laughing at someone that is hit there, will only increase the suffering, and will show that you are very mean and cruel, at least try to keep it to yourself.

    -And nothing happens to those sex offenders because they are women, just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse!

    “women justice” is sick, how about if it was the other way around?!

    This is not mine, but I agree 100% to this.

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  • i use to kick my step dad in the balls, when my mom got seperated and than married him. because I didn't want her with anyone besides my real father.. but I did it because one time I did it on accident, and he said "ouch" (not really but a lot of curse words) but than I started doing it because I knew it had hurt him.

    but I realized that it can actually hurt a guy, like affect them, and I watched a TV show about that kind of things, on like tyra banks or somthing. & hearing about how a penis can actually break. or something, because this guy said a girl sat on his lap and he felt a pop. ha but I don't hink I would ever kick a guy in the balls again. because I'm a girl & when I got kicked there in that area.. it actually did hurt A LOT. I could only imagine what it would feel ike for a girl. & I think it is dumb for girls to kick guys in the private. because I'm sure the guy doesn't squezze a girls tit when he gets mad at her. lol

    • If that's the case I would get mad at girls more often, to get them back for getting mad at me their own way :P

  • I never kicked a guy in the balls and never would unless it was,like you said very serious, and actually I think that goes for most girls.

    On the other hand, I don't think we are able to relate. How would we?

    I once accidently kinda kneed my boyfriend, I was lying on the bed, reading a book and listening to music, so I noticed that he had entered the room, but I didn't realize that he was about to jump onto the bed.So I bended my knees right at the moment he was trying to jump on me, or whatever he was trying to do, and he jump right onto my left knee. He wasn't actually jumping so it wasn't really that hard, but he layed on the floor crying for like 20 minutes.

    He isn't usually wimpy, so I guess it's hard to imagine, what it would feel like at least I can't come up with any comparison

    • I've heard it's not too different than how it feels for a girl to get hit in the breasts, but again, how would anyone know?

    • I've never gotten hit in the boobs, but I can't imagine it's that bad. I think your balls are more sensitive than our boobs.

  • No woman should ever kick a man in the balls unless her life is in danger. I would never take that as a joke and neither should anyone else. Maybe what you are hearing is just immaturity, I think civilized women certainly know the difference. I also hear that this is a game involving little boys (I forget the name of it) where it has become a trend for them to kick each other in the balls and it's become a major problem because boys are ending up in the hospital and actually sometimes have irreparable damage, so this isn't just a girl thing. Little boys also need to be schooled in not doing this, it's really dangerous and could have long-term implications. I don't have a penis, but I can only guess how much that hurts. We have a clit and it's over twice as sensitive as a penis, so we can imagine.

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  • I'm a girl and I have never kicked a guy in the balls whether he "deserved it" or not. I don't think any guy deserves it. lol And yeah, I'm aware of how painful it is. I think some girls don't realize how much it hurts maybe because they're sexually inexperienced and they've never seen how guys react to being touched there if that makes any sense. Also, I had one guy compare getting kicked in the balls to being punched in the boob for a girl, which hurts like hell too. Anyway, hope that helps!

    • Yeah, that's what I heard, too.

    • In Karate it is an illegal strike except for the advanced belts, then it's a point. I kicked a guy just be accident and he had to be driven home. His skin color actually turned gray and he puked. I felt terrible. Yeah I did feel pretty powerful, but not proud are anything. And not funny at all. Guys are really afraid of groin kicks and I don't blame them.

    • @crazyincalifornia why ia it legal for advalced belts though? i do not see how a guy could win in a mixed gender competition like so. (i saw a story when a guy experienced this, and the males were also not allowed to wear cups for protection, and thats how a girl won him even though he was winning by points. After that the girls in the audience started cheering. How disgusting.)

  • I could never understand the pain but understand how "jumpy" and protective men can become when a baby or something threatening comes within range. I would not hit a man there on purpose unless he was about to cause me harm ;) To be honest with you, I don't think its funny on a sitcom, as a matter of fact, now that you mention it, why would it be and why is it acceptable for it to be shown? huh!

  • Are you naive to the pain of childbirth? Yep, just like every other guy. Each and every one of us, wether we are male or female are naive to the extend of pain certain events can create in the opposite gender.

  • We know it hurts like a bastard. Why do boys hit each other in the balls so much? That's the real question! They hit each other way more than girls do it
    I find it very unfunny & it doesn't do anything for me sexually either.

    • "They hit each other way more than girls do it". WTF? I've never seen men hitting each other in the balls, everytime I saw a guy being hit there, it was a girl who did it.

  • Yeah they are used to having a "Mini Butt." They cannot relate to the pain that we suffer when we get kicked in the balls. I'm sure if you gave a girl a Titty Twister, she'd flip out.

  • I don't kick guys in the balls. I know it hurts because one time I kicked my brother there (just playing) and I could see it really, really hurt him. So I wouldn't kick a guy in his balls unless it's really necessary.

  • They’re Fucking aware. Punch her back in her tits! She’ll never do it again. My X told me that it an awful feeling. I guess it’s their nuts.

  • i know right it makes no sense guys don't walk around punching them in the boobs or in the ovaries?

  • How would they know they can't relate becauase the don't have any...

  • we know how much it hrts you guys. but sometimes we get caught up in the moment and kick without really thinking too much

    • What exactly do you mean by "caught up in the moment"? I can't imagine how there could be a time when you could "accidentally" find yourself kicking a guy in the crotch...

    • It's a defensive reaction. Even girls raise their knees to protect themselves during a grapple or something.

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