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How many guys are disappointed by a girl's body?

I know they say if the guy loves the girl he won't care about imperfections but that "guy not caring" thing doesn't apply to my boyfriend lol,he wasn't shy about expressing his dislike for my naked body,but I'm curious about other guys.How many of you have been disappointed or are by your girlfriend's body? For my boyfriend it was my boobs,my boyfriend doesn't like the shape and I have stretch marks on my hips and butt,which is a turn off to him.so we have sex with my bra on and under the covers.Simple solution to the problem.What about you?Be completely honest,I don't judge at all I promise.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your boyfriend needs to lay off the airbrushed p*rn.

    To some extent, its good if people can be honest, even though it hurts. For example, if I gain 20 lbs, and it makes my wife want sex less, I'd rather hear the painful truth 'you're getting fat and it turns me off'. Yeah, that _sucks_ to hear, but not as much as having our sex life go to hell.

    But in your case, he seems like a little bitch. Whaa, your breasts grew so fast they got stretchmarks, what is wrong with him :p.

    You haven't seen stretch marks till you see post childbirth women who are susceptible.

    BTW, you probably are ... so be careful with pregnancies in the future.

  • i loved my ex GFs body, but she hated it. She had a bigger body than most girls and some stretch marks but I didn't care. I loved that she was curvy and fit!

    • Heck yeah I love curvy girls

Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh my goodness, :( I can't believe he did that to you. gosh darn you diverse better then that first and foremost!



    also, of course there are going to be jerk guys out there that will critique a girl on stupid trivial things like stretch marks. But there are jerk girls out there just the same.

    you need not worry about guys who judge like that, good men wouldn't say a peep of negativity about your body because they will be so focused and happy that he even gets to to see that beautiful body of yours.

    It all depends on if he loves YOU or just lusts for your BODY. keep your eyes peeled for them lusters lol they can be real jerkoffs

  • My boyfriend literally LOVES my stretch marks. I have huge ones on my butt too. When we make love he kisses them. He's even measured them. Haha. He's the only person I've ever been comfortable with and I actually have complete confidence with. If he truly loves you, it won't matter. You'll be able to cry together while making love and it will just bring you closer. you need to find someone who will accept you for everything, including your flaws. Just remember, never settle. Every female is better than that, there is a person out there that will make you feel beautiful inside and out.

  • I don't think the whole "if a guy loves you he won't care" thing is true.Guys are visual,therefore "love" isn't going to overshadow being a turn off to him.

    But as for stretch marks those are normal and more common than you'd think.You could try bio oil or cocoa butter,but if they are already glossy/flesh colored,there's nothing you can do but laser removal.

    Shape of breasts,obviously you can get surgery for that whether the solution is implants or lift or reduction even.

    If it doesn't bother you then why are you asking this question?

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  • F*ck that sh*t. Either keep all your clothes on and don't give him any or take it all off and make him look. That's some bullsh*t.

  • Wow. Your boyfriend doesn't sound like the kindest of creatures. He needs to respect you and your body. Not letting you taking your bra off during sex and only doing it under the covers? That is ridiculous. Have sex as YOU like it. If he doesn't like your body, he can leave. It's incredibly rude for him to make those remarks when you share your body with him. None of us girls have perfect bodies!

  • He seems like a di**. This is why so many females have problems with self-esteem. its true if a guy loves you he loves you for you. Ill bet he doesn't complain while he's getting off. And if he does leave him I'm sure you can do better. but on the other hand if you have low self-esteem you probably don't think you can. I think you should find someone that will appreciate the boobs and stretch marks. Trust me there are more guys out there!

  • If a guy is truly repelled by a woman's body, he won't ask her out in the first place. Unless you're dressed in a potato sack, we know at the outset what your general body shape is; we reallly do undress you with our eyes, so we're rarely surprised when you get naked.

    What you're getting from your boyfriend isn't dislike--it's psychological warfare. He's using your insecurity about your body in an attempt to break you down. I don't know why a guy would want his woman's spirit broken--maybe he thinks women are like horses--but it's a common enough practice.

    I think you're okay, but your boyfriend may not be good for you.

  • Jeeper Creepers! Why would you stay with a guy who nothing good to say about your body? I have never insulted a girl I was with disparaging comments about her body. I was with a very nice girl who was once fat. She had lost a lot of weight. However, she lost it too fast. The rapid weight loss created or accentuated the stretch marks on her boobies and may have made them sag. Also she had a massively flabby tummy from such weight loss. Did I make rude and insulting remarks about those things. NO! Your boyfriend is a jerk. There must be some other guy out there who is not determined to destroy your self-confidence by insulting your naked appearance.

  • I think girls worry too much. If anything girls are more critical of there bodies than guys would be. That's the truth, too. Girls are there own worst enemies when it comes to being self conscious.

    You suffer from low self esteem issues, which causes you to feel uncomfortable about your body. It's sad because most straight guys don't judge girls the way girls think we do. There perception of what guys expect is far more exaggerated than what is considered reality.

    • I totally agree with you :)

    • I'm not really uncomfortable with my body.I already knew it would be a problem for a guy

  • The thing is. I don't think we will ever be able to TRULY know what goes on in a guys mind. Because now a days, they will say just about anything to get in a girls pants, its up to us to decide whether or not to believe certain things that they say. And I'm not saying this applies to all guys, but for most guys, its just a matter of who will put out.

  • That guy is a f***ing asshole. I don't a problem with stretch marks or to much of anything. I'm just happy that a woman would trust me enough to have sex with her.

  • I hadn't seen my girlfriend for 2 weeks having been away on business. Each night I was away she went to circiut training and when I came back she was as toned and skinny as hell. I came in seconds! What a great surprise!

  • I wouldn't get disappointed over a girls body and stretchmarks don't bother me at all. Your boyfriend is an idiot by the way. Just from what you said, I'd lay money that he's the type that if anyone said anything about him he'd run to the corner & pout like a little girl. But he has no problem dishing out peoples flaws. Can't believe he makes you wear a bra. You should make him wear pink panties.

  • OK that does not sound healthy. Making you cover up during sex? Have more self respect! I'm sure your body is fine and you'll find a guy who thinks it's the hottest body out there but if your boyfriend straight up tells you he doesn't like your body there is no future there. Obviously looks aren't everything but you need to be able to feel comfortable and loved and sexy when you are with your boyfriend, not like you have to cover yourself up.

    I know my body isn't perfect but I'm f***in hot and if my Boyfriend told me to cover up during sex he would NOT be getting any pussy, jsut a slap in the face and a "goodbye" speech!

    My advice is to find a guy who loves you AND your body enough to not make you cover up.

  • I have stretch marks myself from putting on weight quickly when I was younger.

    Now that I'm kinda fit girls don't even mention them, but used to be a bit self conscious.

    And I've never been disappointed by any of my GFs bodys. Woman are SO beautiful :)

  • I thought that I was going to be the first to say it, but it looks like a few others have beaten me to it - sounds like your boyfriend is an ass and a douch bag for making you feel self consoius about your body. If he doesn't like your body then that's his problem.

  • Well, I'm going to judge. Your boyfriend is a d***head. Don't worry about a few stretchmarks, any decent guy could care less.

  • OMGGG I have the same thing :( boobs,butts, lower back, inner thighs, and hips

    but my boyfriend tells me he doesn't care as long as he doesn't have them and that it just means I lost weight

    ive even told him I have hair everywhere, he doesn't care...but he's willing to shave it for me

    what funny is that when we have sex he always watchs tv

    so yea I think it is a problem for most guys

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