first of all MANY women can have orgasm through that kind of sex and they don't know it cause they never try it(the last part of the tube have about the same number of feeling nerves as vagina and a big part of them can stimulate women feeling of erection-orgasms etc)...ofc sometimes its painfull for women easpecially if the male is ''big and fat'' so for a woman that never did it requires extra preparation with oils or creams thta might reduce the friction and possibly the pain and the male have to be extra extra gentle...if all these become corect after a while brain gives signal and the sphincter its not tight anymore and the women start like it...women who do it often haven't got many problems to do it again and again because they like it IF men know how to handle it!
MAIN tip I belive for every1 is : that area has to be clean! its like when men asks for penus lickin and their penus smells bad or something like this!
No, it sorta grosses me out and ironically I'm attracted to girls butts too. To some extent I can't understand the facination, too much p*rn? I wouldn't want to be responsible for giving her problems down there that I could avoid
For us guys the ass is tight, and it is also a bit naughty. It has a different feeling to p**** sex. So if you have been having p**** sex for half an hour or an hour it is nice to go and finish off with some anal, just something that feels differently. My girlfriend loves anal and we usually use a dildo inside her p**** at the same time, which makes her come very quickly.