Do you think girls that say size doesn't matter never really had great sex with a big one?

[Anonymous]

I mean they usually say they have had great sex with an average one and bad sex with a big one and then conclude it’s the skills that matter most. But have they ever really great sex with a large guy? I’m betting if they have they would know that size DOES matter. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

I think that you're trying to get us to admit that bigger is better so that you can feel like you have something special. Sorry, it's not going to happen. There's nothing to admit, because bigger ISN'T always better. We're the ones with vaginas, so you're not doing yourself any favors by not believing us. Besides, I don't think your ego is exactly in need of stroking.

Everyone is different. The girls you've been with obviously have different opinions- or just different bodies- than most of the girls here. It doesn't mean we're wrong. I'm not saying there's anything WRONG with your size. I'm just saying that it doesn't make you the king of the universe like you seem to think it does.

I believe that when it comes to sex, an eagerness to please and the ability to learn is definitely better than a cocky attitude and an assurance that you already know how to do everything right. After all, since every person is different, it's good to understand that you might need to learn a thing or two from them in order to be able to maneuver their quirks and satisfy their unique needs. I also believe that while it's not impossible for size to make a difference, technique, attitude, and the connection between the two people trumps length and girth by far.

You don't have to agree with me. There will always be a variety of opinions because people all have different perspectives and experiences. But this is my genuine, honest answer, given with total knowledge of my own body. So don't accuse me of lying, doing things wrong, or not knowing what I'm talking about. If you won't accept my opinion as valid because you are blinded by your mindset, that's your loss.

[Asker]

You said "bigger isn't always better". So just some of the time, um when the guy knows what he's doing. That is the point I am making. Face it skills can be learned. Size cannot.

[Opinion Owner]

But size is less important. I say it's not "always" better because yes, there are a FEW girls who think it's important, and maybe there are a few positions where a bigger one work better, things like that. But there are also a few positions where a small one would actually be better. My point is that in my opinion, OVER ALL it isn't better.

[DoctorSex]

loooooool dude picked up on the "bigger isn't always better" too hahaha

[acubed25]

I've had big, small and in between and I've had great sex with each kind and bad sex with each kind. It really does depend on the guy. Some guys are inconsiderate and others are quite attentive. I love a nice , thick, big d*** it feels great if the guy doesn't just ram away like I have no feelings down there. But I've found I can do more with an average d*** and do it more often as it doesn't rub me raw seven ways from sunday. And I've had a kid and it still hurts if a guy is just too big your vag actually returns to its previous shape after child birth. It just happens that its got quite a bit of elasticity to it and can stretch to accommodate penises of larger sizes. As preferences go though I prefer an average d*** with a larger thickness to it. Length isn't important to me because I feel fuller and more satisfied with a thicker d***. So if your 9 inches but only an inch or two around you'll be getting none. I'd rather have a 5incher with a 3-4 inch girth based on fullness and satisfaction alone. The way I like to do it simply feels better with a shorter fatter cock.

But basically it just depends on the girl and the type of sex she likes. Not every girl likes that stretched out, opened up hitting my cervix feeling. Others don't and some like me can enjoy both.

[Dragonlady]

bigger is better...the sensation of being opened up and stretched feeling every inch of a guy on all sides of your walls feels amazing. and a longer shaft means longer sensations when a guy thrusts in and out.There's a certain spot wayy wayy back there that also feels amazing when hit a small little guy could never reach that...no offense but the whole size doesn't matter and its how you use it is what small d*** guys say ha ha its a f***ing d***! you go in and out it doesn't take a f***ing rocket scientist to know how to use a d***.

[Asker]

^Another great answer! Rocket science....ROTFLOL!

[Asker]

So Dragonlady....let these people know...what would you consider the minimum acceptable size(length/width)?

[Dragonlady]

7 to 8 inches long is considered the "perfect package" for me anyways...5 to 6 inches is do able anything smaller then that is no fun...also the smaller the penis then the more sensitive the guy is....wich means BOOM! he finishes faster...this just won't do for us girls! a bigger package is less sensitive leading to longer sex. ... knowing how to have sex well still does nothing if the guy has a sh*tty tool to work with... a 3 inch and lower is considered a humiliation and a complete fail!

[Asker]

Well said!

[Asker]

You know 8 inches is almost the width of a sheet of paper right? That is fairly long. Do you really desire it that deep?

[saphirasilverwings]

See QA, now even you're starting to wonder whether it's a good thing if bigger is better. Come on, just let everyone have their own preference. That's how it will be no matter what you say anyhow.

[Asker]

I am insecure about some things....my size and sexual prowess is not on that list:) I was merely asking for clarification for the public benefit. You're welcome.

[cyrus7]

I'm guessing you've never had good sex with an average guy Also, the whole smaller is more sensitive thing, where did you read that? I'd like to see actually...

[Dragonlady]

True, it hurts if the guy goes to hard and deep, but certain positions allow it to fit all the way and others make it hit the cervix walls wich can be painful if hit hard, then it swells and hurts for a day pr two. it does depend with every girl I don't mind a little pain from a big buy once in a while but it would suck to have a longer penis he would never be able to have it completely inside without hurting maybe even killing a girl lol

[Fruitloopes007]

First off, the girl in your picture as an orange tan :O 2nd, it's not the size that matters, but how he uses it ;)

[DaveThomas]

"also the smaller the penis then the more sensitive the guy is...wich means BOOM! he finishes faster" i can admit I'm not that big, but...when I do it, I can go for hours, upon hours. thus proving size really doesn't matter

[DoctorSex]

loooooooool dude your killing me over here, uve consistantly kept this dik thing up for well over a month and I respect that level of dedication...lol but I'm gona have to agree with the opposing side alittle on this 1...i had a girlfriend that was sadly crap when it came to sex, she couldn't take what I had for more than 30mins and there was no way I could put it all inside her without facing murder charges, I though I had the daddy **** until I met this next girl with an absolute bucket

[DoctorSex]

i had to tear that p**** up just to get some sort of sensation loool, then I met a next girl that told me my d*** was designed for her...ild be watching t.v and ild catch her out of the corner of my eye just looking at my d***.,(I chill naked alot)...so yeah...every girls different, and some girls can only handle a certain size and anything bigger is NOT enjoyable...its actually extremly scary to them.

[Van_Leeuwenhoek]

yea WAY WAY back...translation: your vagina is a f***ing cave!

[Jonny_]

Here's a quote, 'Horses are well hung, but not hailed as the best lovers'.

You might have all you need, but you're screwed if you don't know what you're doing. I'm about half an inch to an inch over the average. Which is never going to be called huge. But I've never had complaints, and running theme from girls I've been with was, guys with massive d***s were so confident that alone made them good in bed that they just went at it like a jackhammer which hurts apparenty. I'd not say they couldn't enjoy it, but you do have to know about sex. Average vaginal canal is around the same as the average penis size so even an average guy can give 'deep' penetration while keeping her cervix intact.

[Asker]

No substitute for girth. Women like the pressure that it creates. More girth means more pressure on the G spot. If a guys not packin thickness he can't compare to a guy that is. Really that simple. Length, as you stated, is a different issue and one that is much less important to women.

[Jonny_]

Yes, but too much girth brings up similar issues...

[lovep]

I've read through this thread and I find it pretty funny. Like the QA rambling on about knowing the benefits of size mattering in the language of a teenager trying so hard to act egotistical. I think that some of the strong opinions of women who prefer only big d***s in this thread must have huge vaginas. I'm glad there are all types of ladies around and not just ones who want to jam d***s the size of small aeroplanes up to their chest.

Yes I know vaginas are resilient and can handle big d***s as well as ejecting babies. I do think it's funny though, that these women need to make it a point to show how anything less than a godzilla **** will not satisfy their train tunnel cooches.

[Asker]

Don't be mad because you don't satisfy your woman as much as she could be. And by the way I'm 25.

[lovep]

I'm not even mad, and you being 25 and writing what you wrote is straight embarrassing. If anything I'm sitting here laughing at you for acting better than anonymous people on the net because supposedly you have an elephant trunk penis. Try harder won't you?

[Swampwater]

lovep, I concur. you thoroughly owned this confused and angry youth in your comment LOL

[Tigerlily]

You're not asking a question; you're making a statement and trying to convince people to agree with you.

No answer is right for every girl. Some of us just aren't build for huge d***s, and it DOES hurt. My personal opinion is that slightly longer than average length and a wide girth is best, and I have other women (and men) who agree. It's the girth that stretches you. In that sense, bigger is better, within most normal dimensions. But it'd get to the point where it hurts. Like, you know, childbirth. As for length, hitting the cervix is not fun. Anywhere up to there, great. Just don't hit it.

[Asker]

Some women like the cervix rubbed but not bumped head on. And I can't stand it when women throw this one out there because you can actually go past the head of the cervix underneath or on top. The "spot way back there" that the best answerer was referring to is the cul de sac or deep spot which can trigger the most intense and long lasting orgasms. These spots aren't going to be pressured or massaged by a little d***. It takes adequate length and good girth.

[Tigerlily]

Yeah that's mostly a guy thing, to want to go bast the cervix. Maybe some women like it but they're pretty darn rare. I can't stand it when guys try to make themselves out to be amazing just because they're big. I've had sex with a big guy, a small/average guy, and a few inbetweens. By your theory, the big guy should have been the best. I actually place him second, and maybe then only because I taught him everything he knew. First place happens to be about average length, and good girth, as you

[Tigerlily]

put it. Girth means all walls will actually feel something, including the G-spot. That's all that matters to me, in terms of physical size. Obviously there are women who want a big one, but not all of us do, and there's really no point in you trying to make everyone think so.

[Asker]

The thing is you could never "teach" a small guy how to be big. You can teach a big guy just what you need.

[Tigerlily]

Lol no, you're making assumptions again. I taught the big guy how to be what I wanted. I didn't really teach the small/average guy much, and the guy I'd say is the best basically has his own way of doing things but is open and receptive to what I like. If he was too small, then yeah, I'd be lacking some feeling and that'd suck. But as long as you're big enough, and not so big it hurts, that's perfect.

[dovegurl77]

for any penis size you must find the right position. each person is different, the couple having sex has to experiment and find what works. it isn't the size or skill that matters. some girls have to slowly go into sex with kissing and touching. positions are a key factor for big or small penis'. so, no size doesn't matter.

[cajundani]

mr. annoymous --

Please quit being so full of yourself! Its just unattractive!

That being said...size doesn't really matter to women only to men!

i have had an 8" and he was awesome, I have had a 4" that was really thick and he was equally awesome and I have had an uncircumsized medium one who was awesome too. They all made me have earth shakeing Os ...there is more to stimulation for women than just you pounding away inside us...you have to be good at other things too...So if it makes you feel better to think you are the best because you are big then go ahead and get that big head, we really don't care...

[Asker]

He chick I'm not worried about what you find attractive thank you. Oh and thanks for the sex lesson cause I needed it. LOL:) What "other things" do we have to be good at by the way? If you're a victim of a pie eating contest I'm sorry you can't get the earth shaking from a long thick piece of man meat. And I don't know about you but most of the women I've been with love getting "pounded" after a sufficient warm up. But I could see how a fragile girl like you wouldn't like it so rough.

[G_GTom]

Um... no, you actually do care. In another post, you said you prefer thicker.

[Asker]

BUSTED~! See again my point confirmed. Thanks Cajundani:)

[G_GTom]

Yeah, just be consistent. It makes life a lot easier :)

[cajundani]

I have a stalker! Do you surf through all my answered questions? That particular comment was from the question " at what size does it become too thick to comfortably pleasure?" so yes I prefer bigger and thicker, but size truly doesn't matter. what Honestly really matters is if I had an Orgasm from it and if you can please me. I honestly Just want to be PLEASURED no matter what size or how ya do it! at least I don't answer and ask everything ANONYMOUSLY!!!!!!

[Asker]

I prefer bigger and thicker hmmmm....but size doesn't matter:) You're funny! Think about what you just said. And both you (hopefully) and I know that there are little orgasms and BIG ORGASMS so an orgasm isn't an orgasm isn't an orgasm. You feel me?

[DaveThomas]

definition of a preference is where in this sense, all sizes work, theyll equally get the job done yet, she would RATHER have a longer thicker one. but like she said she can have a shorter, thinner one and have it work just as well, that's what she's saying

[saphirasilverwings]

So you're trying to convince us that we should be unhappy when we really aren't? That's so sweet of you.

I don't care what you say. My boyfriend is average and I couldn't be happier- in the bedroom or outside it. I won't throw away such an amazing guy just because MAYBE (and maybe not) a bigger penis would feel better.

If you want to keep trying to convince me that I shouldn't be able to feel satisfied by an average (not even small, but average) sized penis, go ahead. But know that while some people will agree with you, to many you just look like an insecure guy who thinks he'll make himself look more desirable by trying to make others look worse.

[Asker]

You sound like you need a good pounding...So uptight. LOL

[saphirasilverwings]

There is a lot more to a relationship than getting a "good pounding" you know. But for the record, that's not something I'm in need of. If you don't believe me, fine, but when was the last time you had sex with my boyfriend? I thought so. So yeah, you really don't have any right to make assumptions about other people's sex lives.

[Asker]

So you never wonder? Yeah right!

[saphirasilverwings]

I don't like it when people try to tell me what I should want or what should make me happy. That's not your place.

[saphirasilverwings]

The vagina is only six inches long anyway. I think that usually when people want something above average it's just for psychological reasons. Since guys make a big deal about penis size and sometimes view larger ones as superior, I think that can influence the way some girls think about it.

[saphirasilverwings]

You never really know what factors are influencing someones decision about whether size matters. Maybe a girl who thinks size is important had big partners who happened to have better technique than her smaller parners, so that's why she feels that way. I think its impossible to judge. I also think any guy has the ability to be amazing in bed no matter his size.

[Asker]

If its only 6 inches long how do I get all 7 of mine in?

[saphirasilverwings]

I guess that didn't exactly answer your question. It's my opinion though. Yes, maybe some guys who are big are better in bed than some who are small or average- but some who are small or average may be better in bed than some who are big. There's just no way to make a rule about it. Every guy has a different combination of pros and cons. A lot depends on what the individual girl prefers too.

[saphirasilverwings]

You probably can't. Sorry. That's one negative thing larger guys may have to deal with. Even my boyfriend who is average size has to be careful not to hurt me sometimes.

[Asker]

If a women is properly stimulated her cervix will tilt out of the way and allow for deeper penetration...which is why I can get balls deep in most women.

[saphirasilverwings]

Well you wouldn't be able to do that to me. So I guess your size would be a blessing for some girls and a curse for others. If you end up with the right ones and they like your size, more power to you. But don't be so sure that smaller guys can't be just as satisfactory, or even find girls who wouldn't want a bigger guy.

[cyrus7]

Thats the thing guys don't realize, not all vaginas are the same just as not all penises are the same different people have different needs/tastes

[cyrus7]

Also QA, with the attitude you have about penis size and your over inflated ego, I'd be suprised if any girl would even want an inch of you rofl

[Asker]

Whydo you say I have an "over inflated ego"? Are you saying I have big d+ck syndrome?

[saphirasilverwings]

Agreed, the attitude is not a turn on. Insisting that other guys are at a disadvantage because of their size just because it makes you feel good to think that you have what's preferable isn't nice and doesn't make what you want to be true true.

[G_GTom]

To the question asker... if you can get all 7 in, then the woman you are with is larger than the woman with only six inches.

[Asker]

I'm a good size but I know that its not enough. I work at being a star lover. However I also know that women prefer my size over the average men. This is a nobrainer. Especially since that's what my women have told me for years.

[saphirasilverwings]

Well apparently "your women" aren't too picky personality wise. Time for you to accept the fact that all women are different.

[Mayflower95]

ive had really good experiences with both. its all about what they know ;)

[beans]

I had sex with guys who had anything from 5 inchers to 8 inchers. The only difference is that the 8 inch bumps into my cervix which is uncomfortable. I couldn't tell the difference between the lenght inside me, because vertical stretching of the vagina doesn't give nowhere near as much pleasure as being stretched sideways.

[Asker]

Conclusion: Size matters but Girth Matters more?

[beans]

Lenght doesn't matter. Girth matters.

[Asker]

Length allows for different positions and I know women hate it when the dck pops out. So you're saying this doesn't matter?

[beans]

Unless it's only 3 inches long. Yeah, having a shorter d*** may mean that rear entry positions are impossible, but then again, not everyone likes those kind of positions. Obviously if the girl's favorite is doggy or similar, then you will have problems

[Asker]

That's my point. and some girls love the longggggg stroke so if its only 5 inches or so that stroke ain't gonna be that long.

[cutiegirl23x]

Its really about about the girth for me.

My first 3 guys I hooked up with were average in terms of thickness - around 5 inches around and I thought it didn't get much better than that.

But my 4th guy I hooked up with had a amazingly thick penis, I think around 6 inches around, and it was so much. It feels you up so well and it touches the walls and streches the sides so much more than a thinner one.

So yes! If you havnt had a **** with at least 6 inches around, then you don't know what your talking about!

[TC123]

Have you ever been with a girl? Unless she's really BIG down there it doesn't matter whether you are 5" or 6" or 9"...

[Asker]

Funny, I've been with plenty of women and before that plenty of girls. And if you bother to review the ladies comments it appears that size DOES matter. Have you ever made a girl say "god you feel so deep"? Well I have and they love it. I know that short d8ck men might not like hearing it but I touch places that they will never be able to. So sorry your girls have lied to you.

[saphirasilverwings]

My boyfriend is average size and I literally has to ask him not to go in all the way because when he hits my cervix (which, yes, he can reach) it hurts. So get off your high horse. It depends on the girl. No one is necessarily lying. I won't say size can never make a difference bt it's certainly not the only thing that can. I would rather be with a guy who is average guy any day. A bigger guy would only have to deal with not entering me all the way. It wouldn't feel any better to either of us.

[saphirasilverwings]

Average size* Not to mention an average guy might have a little less of a superiority complex.

[Asker]

If you're bangin the cervix you're not doing it right.

[saphirasilverwings]

You really need to speak for yourself here. Everyone is different. Even penises that are the same size can be shaped differently etc. And vaginas do vary SLIGHTLY in size and can be shaped differently and placed at different angles.

[Asker]

Which is why I said if your bangin the cervix you're not doing it right. You have to have experience to know how to handle the p*ssy right. ANd yes that means doing different things depending on your partner.

[saphirasilverwings]

I probably have more experience with my own vagina than you do with ANYONE'S vagina, thanks though.

[TC123]

I've had girls tell me I went in too far and girls always tell me I'm really thick. Also, in a previous post you said your d*** is 7" long. Well, so's mine, and it's just under 7" in circumference. Like I said, you're an idiot.

[Asker]

TC who's the bigger idiot the one that posts the question or the idiot that calls the poster an idiot but still answer the question anyways.

[DoctorSex]

dude your tooooooo funny!

[jennana]

honestly, smaller guys are a turn-off. I've compared guys sizes to others and what makes a guy more attractive is if they're bigger. and more attractive means better sex. there, I said it.

[Asker]

Plus you don't have to laugh inside when they tell you to get ready for the big one they're gonna give you when you get home.

[Fruitloopes007]

Do you think your ego could be any bigger :O

[Asker]

Could your Os be any bigger?

[xxxMoneyxxx]

boom roasted!

[girloncue]

If he's a dead fish in bed, it doesn't matter how big it is.

[SweetestSinxxx]

I agree, bigger is better and the only people who won't admit it are guys with small ones or chicks who have never had a really big one.

[Asker]

its the motion of the ocean but when you got that motion on all four walls pullin and stretchin a bit and hittin' that deep spot its just a whole different feeling than a clitoral or g spot orgasm. Only a big one can deliver on this no?

[SweetestSinxxx]

yup. the size is what counts, its what makes it feel good. guys with small ones try to make up for it in different ways like telling themselves its about how they use it, but they just can't compare with a big one. the feeling is totally different.

[cristinaboss]

Size matters and anyone who says otherwise doesn't know what they'e talking about.

[Asker]

That's my point. They haven't had sex with a good size guy who could work it well. There's no substitute for HUNG.

[haleyb]

Umm having good sex with a large guy and with an average guy would clearly mean that size isn't nearly as important as technique. Size CAN matter, but only in extreme circumstances, where it'll either hurt or not be very pleasurable. And if you just can't let go of the idea that size matters so much, it's really girth, NOT LENGTH that matters- both length and girth are aspects of size.

[LillyBear]

Size is overrated!

[flatironguy]

Obviously never had a big one.

[flatironguy]

Kidding of course.

[LillyBear]

Obviously know what I'm talking about & not kidding of course.

[PsychedelicZebra]

Respect that, she's being honest. Besides, a big one means a big ego, which is a bigger turn off. It's not really about how big you are, more about how you show her you appreciate her. With age comes wisdom.

[Asker]

Big ego is a turn off? Ohh That's why Beyonce wrote a song about it! Right. Chick dig confidence. In fact its the #1 turn-on for most women. A big d*** and the pleasure women get from it gives you that confidence. Result: Chicks like guys with big d***s.

[PsychedelicZebra]

Yes, women do love confidence. But confidence is not the same thing as an over-inflated ego. Confidence comes from knowing that you have a strong character, not from being hung like a horse. Result: Women like guys with good character. A big ego and a big d***? Sounds like you're a boy toy. Do what makes you're happy, it's your life, but no real woman is going to want to spend the rest of her life with a self-centered man whore, no matter how much he listens to Beyonce.

[Asker]

I think its the little/average men that probably act the most "cocky". This is because they know they are inferior and have to put up a front for one reason or another. A truly confident guy doesn't act rude and arrogant because he knows who he is and is confident in himself.

[Asker]

You've never had a volcanic waterfall and make you pass out kind of orgasm. So sorry size doesn't matter to you.

[torii1993]

It does feel better if its a random hookup or something, but in a relationship if the love is there size shouldn't matter at all.

[IMakeBarbieJealous]

its all about the way it fills you up, a big one does it way better than a small one. big ones also work in more positions, are more fun to play with, and just look better overall. so yeah, girls who say its not about size just haven't had a good one yet lmao

[Asker]

The better the stretch the better the sex.

[Hunterguy]

what would you say is a big one for you?

[IMakeBarbieJealous]

7 inches and up is big, it has to be thick too. 8 inches is perfect

[sikoo31]

look man, since your asking this question this way, I'm assuming yours must be big. but I'm also assuming that your unsatisfied with your sex life. someone satisfied doesn't even think about which is better until someone like you asks about it.

and yes a girl can have great sex with an average size, I've made my girl come twice in a row a few times. and she enjoys our sex much more than I do and I enjoy it a lot too.

[Asker]

congrats! only twice? a few times? Well I guess that puts you ahead of most men.