When is it NOT appropriate to give a guy a blowjob?

should I have given him one? we hooked up all summer, and by the end, I gave him a bj. once summer was over, we didn't talk or see each other at all for 2 months. he texted me one time to come over (booty call) and I did. but I didn't give him a bj. i think he was frustrated with me because it was getting really hot and I think he might have been expecting it. do you think I should have given him one?
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  • It's NOT appropriate to give a guy a blowjob when:

    - he's giving a presentation

    - you're having dinner with your parents

    - you're having dinner with his parents

    - you're at a funeral

    - you're watching Schindler's List

    - he's trying to pick up another girl

    - war has broken out and he's the only one who can save the world

    - you just learned you have Random Jaw-Closing Syndome

    • *you're at a funeral, especially if it's the guy's funeral

    • "he's trying to pick up another girl" Disagree. Nothing lays claim to a guy like clamping your lips on his c*ck. Anihilates the competition.

    • No one said she has a right to claim this guy

  • haha I don't understand why so many people, including a LOT of girls on here are so anti hookup or FWB or anything, its not that big of a deal if you both want to hookup go for it, have fun with it

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you have to ask strangers whether or not to put your lips around a guys cock, its probably not what you want to do- that would be my guess.

    Not to mention if you are that indecisive its likely to be a lousy blow- no passion ya know:)

  • noooooooo,hes just using you! he really has no intentions of the real you! he has no respect 4 you. he dsnt care about the real you.. and if you give it 2 him he's going to ignore you some more.. he is not worth it.. your better than this!

    • Sounds like you've been used before. If she want's to she can, not like he can force her, and if he does call the cops and have him thrown in jail.

  • Not unless you really want to... He's probably just using you. Sorry hun!

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  • NEVER! Bj's are appropriate at all times. As long as it's in privacy (unless your a kinky pair) bj's are valueble and appreciated always

  • don't give him a blowjob at a funeral. Can't think of anything else, so basically, if no one died, you can give him a blow.

  • This question makes no sense. You know he's using you as a booty call. Is that what you want to be? If so, then give him a blowjob when he calls you over. If you don't want to be a booty call then don't respond/visit him.

    • Yeah well at first I didn't realize I was just a booty call so I didn't give him one because I thought it was weird how we were going this far and haven't even talked in such a long time. but now, I've been thinking about it and I WANT to be just a hookup, or a boot call...is that wrong? how can I let him know that? and now I DO want to give him a bj...

    • You are nasty! and don't love yourself.... you must think your ugly...theres no way in hell I would do that just to get attention.. when its all said and done your going to look back and regret it..and yourself.. I wonder what are your going through inside...?