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My uncle raped me! HELP! (true story pleas read)

Ever since I was 7, my uncle sexually abused me. He forced me 2 have sex with him whenever he was babysitting me. He also got his brother to do it to me 2. But, after a month or so, his brother stopped. Just for that reason, I was scared out of my mind to go anywhere near my uncle. I thought about telling someone, but I threatened him, and he said he would break all of my fingers off if I told anyone. Then, he moved away for about 3 years, and the He came back. Ever since he's been back, he's been completely nice to me, I don't know y, and I'm afraid to ask. We haven't even discussed it since, (I'm currently 11), and Part of me wants to tall about it, the other part doesn't. Ever since he move back, I thought it would mentally scar me for life, but it hasn't. I have a fairly big group of friends, and I'm doing pretty well in school. So I've been thinking lately, and should I tell someone or not? Is it even that big of a deal, because it didn't have a very big effect on me, I only remember it, and I can sadly say I lost my virginity @ 7, by my uncle... (Also at the time {when I was 7} I thought you were supposed to have sex, so I taught my friend how) and I just bled my heart out on the Internet, so please don't judge me in anyway. I just want help. :(
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Okay, so I get I should tel sun1, but HOW? I'm a pretty big coward...
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Your profile age says you're 25-29 but in the post you say you're 11. You may think you're not Scarred I didn't think I was either Most Popular Kid in the neighborhood Honor Student Top Athelete also Teaching the Boys about Sex that's the first sign of being scarred thinking teaching and having casual sex at such a young age is ok. If you are a child tell someone ASAP Parent, Teacher, School Nurse, School Counselor, Doctor, Clergy, Police Officer, walk into a Counseling or Doctor/Medical facility and tell someone they will report it for you. If you're an adult seek Professional Therapy to help you process this.

    • Thank you for MHO.

  • thats a big deal sweetheart.You need to tell people!Its not a big deal because you were too young and you didn't understand.One day its gonna haunt you just not right now.Your only eleven now sweety,when you get older its gonna be a huge deal to you and telling people about it now will help you a lot in the future.

Most Helpful Guys

  • This has gotten troll written all over it. 11 year olds don't generally write with grammar that good.

    If he had actually taken your virginity at 7, it would have damaged your genitals (perhaps permanently).. 7 year olds aren't capable of sex. They haven't even started puberty.

    One theory about why rape victims feel so bad is because society makes them feel dirty and terrible.. Telling them how wrong and immoral what happened was.

    You should however tell someone if this isn't a troll. ONLY because he could re-offend.

    • I AM NOT A TROLL. (idk what troll even means, but, I think it's a poseur) Obviously, I'm not an average 11 y.o. I. Go2 a private school now, and I'm quite mature 4 my age.

    • Btw it was anal sex, and his penis didn't go in, it just slid downward, and it hurt sometimes. Most of the tine he'd ask "is it in?" and I lied and just let it slip down. And only 1nce or 2wice did we do um, vaginal sex...? Anyways, yeahh, and his penis was too big 2 fit. And how would I kno, sice I didif have sex since kidnergarden if it damaged my Gentiles?

  • This sounds creepy, just as sad as it sounds too :'( I mean really, this isn't the writing of an 11 years old, I don't know really. If I were you I'd tell someone who is in charge at your school, they know what to do, don't stay still and don't keep quiet, you need others to help you out getting over this.

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  • Put it this way: if, hypothetically, you discovered that one of your friends had been raped by her uncle, would you want him to have gotten away with it?

  • you should tell the school board and put those idiots that raped you in prison ... those idiots had no right to treat you like that and take away your purity ... that's so wrong

  • It's ok. If someone says something bad about you or your post there a total dick. And you could get people that you trust won't tell anyone unless you say and confront your uncle. And then if you don't like the reason then tell the police about it. (Oh and if you want to be safe try to hold a life alert thing so that if he trys anything you can get help right away)

  • Tell your mom call the cops it rape and he ruins your life

  • Maybe see a professional to help you deal with it, therapy etc..

    • But they would get other people involved!

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