What an @sshole!
Of course every guy would love breast implants instead of small ones or the real thing; that doesn't mean he has to explicitly say it to his girlfriend!
Talk about being selfish and emotionally inconsiderate!
When my girlfriend asks me how I feel about her breasts [small], I lie and say that I love them. After all, that's what it means to really love someone. Her emotional well-being and how happy she is with herself are more important to me than breast implants.
I could understand how you feel from your point of view. You think it's a sweet, thoughtful, and loving gesture to get breast implants for him. You might even think that there's an extra bonus of feeling better about yourself, and better next to other women. And all of that is completely right. But!
It's about the "principle!" You can't just have horse-blinders on and just look at yourself as the saint or awesome girlfriend. If he didn't have such strong motives and you would just want to do this purely out of your own thought-process, sure! But it sounds to me like there's some conditional-love going on. And conditional-love is a nasty thing that guys have no tolerance for and run away from (as should you).
Is he implying that he would love you "less" the way you are? Is he implying that "unless" you get breast implants, he won't love you as much? Do you see how different "that" situation is from you just wanting to get them on your own?
Lol...so true man!
Do all guys find slabs of silicone more attractive than natural breasts? even large ones?
Well, my girlfriend is 32A-22-34. If I could change myself to be her perfect man "appearance-wise" for $10,000 and two weeks of recovery, I would do it. I wouldn't do it however, if she would make me feel like sh*t "unless" I do it. Would I prefer her to be 34C-22-34? Sure. Would I love her more? No. Would I enjoy sex more? Yeah. Would I enjoy sex more if she was 34DD-22-34? No. 34C is my upper limit, I think anything beyond that is disgusting.
If you want. If its a relationship that won't end, and if you don't mind having plastic breasts, then yeah, do it. Everyones getting on this guys ass for it, but y'know. Its what he's into. Its pretty cool that he's with you past the fact that you don't have fake breasts, and as you say, he 'admitted' it, which makes me think he isn't being an asshat about it. And he mean he's not forcing you to do it, and he's offering to pay for it if you want to.
Which isn't bad, really. But in the end, its up to you, y'know, 'cos your the one who has to live with them, hahaha.
"If its a relationship that won't end..." Yeah, see, red flag there. If she were talking about her husband of many years, who loves her through thick and thin no matter how she's shaped, that's one thing. To put it another way: so what happens after the kid?
Yeah, I know. Obviously if this is like, some 2 week old relationship or something, then its a bit... Weird, to say the least. I was assuming they were together for a good few years and y'know. Sometimes you can just tell. Or think you can tell, aheh. After what kid? W
We've been together 4 years, in case you were uncertain.
if you want fake boobs then take him up on his offer and then dump him shortly after recovery. if not then don't do it. there are 4 billion men in the world and you're settling for one who basically says you are unattractive and wants you to have a foreign object inserted in your body just so you can be attractive to him. never mind possible health and physical issues, just please him! that's terrible. I wish you would realize that you deserve better than to be with a man who would even verbalize this to you. there are men who will accept you the way you are and love you. why do you feel you need to change to please a guy who probably won't even be with you 5 years from now? this is the same kind of guy that would cheat and jump at the chance to hook up with some bigger boobed girl because he places all this importance on the physical instead of appreciating the woman he has right in front of you. I'm sorry but a guy who truly loves you as a person is not going to say something like that to you. when a man is truly in love he will see you as beautiful and attractive the way you naturally are. seriously. but if you always wanted big boobs take the opportunity but use him for the surgery and then dump him after you heal!
I personally wouldn't do it (but I've never really had an issue with my boob size..). I kind of think that a guy should just like you for you, and not want you to change yourself like that.
How big does he/you want them? Big boobs a lot of times leads to back issues, and your wardrobe would have to be updated to fit your new size.
It really is up to you though, do you not feel comfortable with your natural ones? Would you just be doing this for him?
Really think about it. Don't rush into getting them if you don't want it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!NO! If he can't accept you for who you are then you need to move on to someone who will. A decent boyfriend/girlfriend should NEVER try to change ANYTHING about their partner. Kick him to the curb and pick the next guy in the line of guys forming to ask you out.
dont change for a guy.
LMFAO. This is either a troll post or one asshole boyfriend.
It should be your choice no matter what, who cares who has to pay for it.
If you feel you need them, do it for yourself and your own self-esteem, not for your boyfriend to get a hard on.
Well, only say yes if you REALLY want bigger boobies.. Cause I know many guys who are more fond of small natural breast, myself included hehe...
Just look at it like this:
If you break up 1 months after your got your new boobs.. did you still want em..? If yes.. then get tha big boobs! :o)
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