On average, How long does it take you to reach orgasm when?

1.) masturbating? vs. 2.) having sex? if you haven't had sex, how long does it take you to reach orgasm by masturbating...
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yes, it's all circumstantial... which is why I wrote "on average" :) just curious how quick people USUALLY are when they masturbate... also, how fast can you get off, like the shortest amount of time..?
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  • This is a very complex question with to many variables to say a certain time however I can tell you the major factors for me.

    First and foremost is the speed. The speed effects guys more then girls (in my very limited first hand experience) so the faster you go (masturbation or sex) the faster the guy cums but if you go slow (in sex) the girl can usually achieve multiple orgasms.

    Secondly is how long it was since he last did it. There is a time-frame after a guy cums where he will be very "durable" (I suppose). This time-frame can be very long but id say a few hours max.

    Thirdly is how exited he is. This is one of the major reasons guys sometimes have premature ejaculation. This can be achieved by watching p*rn for a few hours or foreplay depending on how sensitive to it you are. This will also make it feel allot better.

    Fourthly how long it was since he last did it. (meaning if he has "saved it up" he will come allot more and allot easier)

    I may have missed allot but these are major factors that can pretty much make a guy come from putting on a condom or last so long the girl have to stop or she won't be able to walk for the rest of the day...

  • well masturbating... as long as I want it to be lol, because I have total control

    and sex - never had it - first time would probably be like 3 seconds? lol

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  • Masturbating ten minutes.

    Sex it really depends, like if it's a quickie then I tell myself I gotta hurry so I orgasm fast. Then when I have nothing rushing me I take my time and enjoy it usually takes about 30 minutes, sometimes an hour.

  • For masturbation,I can make myself orgasm in 2-3 minutes...although I wish it took a little longer because orgasms that take longer feel so much better.But I also squirt,so...that makes up for the time haha.Much more intense

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  • Masturbating: anywhere from two to four hours, just depends on how much time I can/want to devote to it before going to bed.

    Sex: Anal: haven't done

    Oral: at least half an hour, most likely more, if ever

    Vaginal: man it's been a while...um...probably an hour on average

    • Wow! you spend that much time masturbating?

    • Lol well, it's 12:40, and I started at 11 or so, by the time I finish watching the p*rn I loaded, get to the bathroom (usually another 15-20 minutes) it might be around 1:30, so 2.5 tonight...yes, my life is that sad lol

  • It's all circumstantial. While masturbating, if I really want to I can be done in 10 seconds, or I can make myself last 30 mins. As for sex, again it depends. If we are really into it, or having a quickie, it may only be 10 mins. But if we are "making love" as opposed to just f***ing, then it could be up to an hour. If I am drunk however, it will likely last a lot longer, even if we are going fast.

    • Okay, to comply with the new update: Masturbating: Ave. 5 mins Sex: Ave. 25 mins Fastest ever was about 7 seconds masterbating

    • Wow 7 seconds.. that's amazing! lol

  • Masturbating, like 45 min or summat.

  • 1) 10 min max, only 'shuffle' when I need to so I don't want to spend all day doing it... I have a life outside of sex

    2) Depends what I've been doing. If I'm high and horny... as little as 10mins :( (ohhh nooo)

    If I've already 'spanked the meat' (masturbated) earlier that day, 30+ easily

    Beware of people saying ''Ohhh I can last an hour no problem''... they're liars or suffer from sort of ejaculatory disorder