How should I react to him getting a boner while on his lap?

if I'm sitting on my boyfriends lap and I feel him getting a boner (getting hard) how should I react/ what should I do that way I'm not a bitch? GIRLS: What would you do? GUYS: What would you like the girl to do if they are sitting on your lap and you get hard?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Geez a boner is as unpredictable as a feather in between 2 tornadoes. So first of don't immediately start to think he has dirty fantasies. Secondly its your "property" after all so just sit there if you see fit. If your around your boyfriend allot you will notice he gets boners all the time. Its just a matter of him not seeing a point of hiding it to you.

    He was probably thinking something along the lines of "oh sh*t, not now.. please not now I don't want her to think I'm a perv" etc... so id say just settle more comfortably and lean back against his chest and continue what you were doing ;)

    • Lol we are both sorta perv (him more then me) but still

    • Its going to become a daily occurrence that you will see him walk around with a boner in private and its natural really. Be happy that he trust you to the point he does not need to hide it. If you feel like it you can even use it to tease him ;)

  • You should be flattered, it's an undoubtable sign he finds you physically attractive, if you 'discover' it and you're in a public place don't acknowlage it and try your best to obscure it from the view of others. Anything to save your boyfriend embarrassment.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If I was in that situation I'd cackle internally and decide to be a little evil for the moment, especially if we were in a public place. I'd purposely fidget and move around and make it worse to tease him. It'd be good fun.

    If you don't want to do that, you could verbally tease him a little about it, or you could just ignore it. Either way, it means he finds you attractive so it's a great compliment! :]

    • Honestly think first part is me. I'd be the one cackling evil internally 😂😂

    • how do you verbally tease him about it without making it TOO sexual, bc i know that boys can get it for no reason and they can't really control him. I want to let him know that i know that boys get it randomly, but i also want to tease him a little bit.

    • Fidget and move around and make it worse while teasing is just soooooooo nice :)

  • i wouldn't move. it just means he's attracted to you and likes you right there.

    your not being a bitch. or controling his boner. it just happend

    • I know it mean's he's attracted to me I just don't want him to think that I don't like it....which to me its a turn on :)

    • Just tell him that. like you haveing a boner turns me on,. or just start making out with him and touching it

    • I don't think it would be a good idea to just start rubbing him and making out cause then he might be expecting it from then on.

  • Enjoy it. If you can that is :) If not tell him to put it away for now and you'll take care of it later

    • As you say "take care of it" HOW?

    • Personally I favor blowjobs but sex or a handjob works wonders too. If he pops a boner but yall aren't somewhere you can play then don't be shy about the fact that you noticed. If you tell him something like you'll take care of that later then that builds up anticipation and leads to more fun later on when your alone

    • Pm me sometime please

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  • Seems you two aren't intimate, then it all depends on how you want to handle it. If you touch or use your ass to make him feel good then it could lead to something. Now about what you could do the possibilities are limitless. You should just go with what you feel would make him feel good. Use your imagination cause trust me the sexual side is in there.

  • I wouldn't be surprised if he couldn't help it! Lol

    If he knows he can't help it then he shouldn't let you sit there. Especially if you aren't intiment together.

  • Take it as a compliment. And since you already said its a turn on for you then maybe try to make something out of it. Rock back and forth on it, or lean back into him. Try to lead it to sex if you want to. You already know he is ready :)

  • Since he is your boyfriend why is it a problem that he got hard? How can you be a bitch for doing things with your boyfriend.

  • rub back and forth on his lap

  • Push against it, or position yourself so you can feel it better. Like get it against your crotch, or between your cheeks, and push into it. Don't hide from your reaction that you know. smile at him when you notice it.

  • Whisper in my ear that she was going to give me the best blowjob of her life!

  • If you rub the lamp the genie will come out, so he gets three wishes...

  • You can always stroke it or rub against it :). You also need to remember that with guys, a light breeze can get them hard lol.