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I got drunk and gave a guy head while I was in a serious relationship and he filmed it?

i was absolutely drunk and the guy made the move on me I don't even really remember. we were visiting eastern illinois this guy who my boyfriend knows just from going to school had taken advantage of me I gave him head in a room next to where my boyfriend was. he filmed it and I didn't care apparently that he did. I am not a slut I've only been with 8 people in my life and I love my boyfriend very much and it crushed him when he found out but the guy put the video online sent it to everyobody. he said the worst part was I sucked him off and did things that I wouldn't even do to him and he seen me swallow him and deepthroat. do those things make it worse? or is cheatin gblowjob just a cheatin gblowjob? its almost like he was twice as upset once he seen just how I gave him head and teh things I did to please the guy
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh blah blah he took advantage of you...? REALLY? Bitch please you chose to get drunk didn't you? He didn't shove it down your throat... Drunk or not drunk you know right from wrong and you still you did it... and a bj is cheating to some... but not all

  • Of course that would make it even worst. Your boyfriend must feel as if you prefer this guys "french roll" over his being that you went all out for him.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm sure past a certain point, cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter "how good" it was for this other guy as your boyfriend is currently getting ready to leave you. I doubt it aggravated his opinion of you either way.

  • I like this story it has a happy ending... new career found

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  • Oh, please. You weren't taken advantage of.

    • Very true timetowaste. As for doing things with his D--k that you don't do with your "I imagine" soon to be Ex boyfriend that has got to be the pits for him. I'm getting on a bit in years now but even I would probably not accept that!

    • Completely agree.

    • I half expected to see some woman crying rape in the comments, thanks for restoring my faith in womankind.

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  • Lol, I, and most any other guy, would have dumped your sorry a$$ the second I heard about this. I bet he is just weighing the pros and cons right now of doing so.

  • I'd be pretty devestated. Looks like you'll be single any second now , and rightly so. Also, agreed with that other girl. Don't try and make it seem like you were taken advantage of. If you were sober enough to do deepthroat and be able to lift your head up enough to give him a BJ, you were sober enough to know what you were doing.

  • well I don't think he cares about the details... It's tough on him. lesson?

    Don't get drunk

  • You are an ass. Welcome to the team

  • If you were passed out and he had his way with you, I could understand that you were taken advantage of. However, if you were conscious and physically giving him oral sex, even better than you do your boyfriend, I highly doubt you were "taken advantage" of.

  • Doing things to another guy you don't do to your boyfriend will definitely make it worse. It makes it seem like you don't care to do those things for him but will for other guys.

    You failed hard. Stop drinking.

    • You're also lucky to still have a boyfriend. I have 0 tolerance for cheating.

  • sorry hun, that makes you a slut. Being drunk is no excuse for cheating. It's a reason why you are more inclined to do it, but the desire was always there. Unfortunately there aren't a lot of prospects for your future regarding that. You'll probably always be a hoe.

  • blow jobs can't get a guy very mad because this is where we kiss you and kisses are intimate

  • It's not cheating, it's only a bj and 100% not a slut it's only head not full sex. I don't mind the girl's i date give other guy's head it's good you don't worry about the video and like who hasn't got video's these days

  • i feel sorry for you! u didn't deserve that, where is the link to the video, we can get it taken down!

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