My Fiance says she wants a bigger penis?

[noneedforusername]

I love my Fiancé to death. Our sex life has been on the up and down for about a month now. It is really hard to get her interested in sex. It is like she doesn't want to have sex with me. Well last night we was laying in bed watching tv. We was not talking about sex either, but was just talking about 1 thing we would change about each others body. I absolutely love her body the way it is and I thought I would go along with this question and tell her I love her body 110% the way it is. She tells me she wishes I had a bigger/thicker penis and that is the one thing she would change about my body. Naturally I was shocked and hurt by what she said. Is it normal for girls to want a bigger/thicker d***? How should I handle this?

[Parzival]

Just stop. Do not go forward w/ this relationship. She's 100% for sure going to cheat at some point in time. Marriage is for the long haul. Do you see this working for the next 20-30 years? Just end it now and move on.

The fact that she made this statement at all demonstrates that she is incredibly sexually frustrated by the size of your member and it will eventually manifest in her cheating (if she hasn't cheated already).

No one in the right mind would make such a statement. Only people who feel guilty about something they've done -- and are now setting the ground work that tries to explain their behavior -- or about something that is truly bothering them would make such a statement. So I would run for the hills on this one.

Either that or get into cuckolding. Share your fiancé with other men and jerk off to it. Get into it. That or prepare yourself for a life of misery.

[Anonymous]

Well, let's see; she doesn't want to f*** you and says you have a small d*** (do you? google around for average penis size before answering that).

So while you may love her, the two things I listed above tell me she doesn't love you. You need to take a step back.

[Sweetums4362]

Wow. What a thing to say to the man you are suppose to love. I guess it's normal for some girls to want a bigger penis.. but hardly ever would we tell the guy that! That's kinda dirty of her to say that to you. I'm totally in shock. I was with a guy for a while and he had a very small d***.. but you know what I loved him and it got the job done.. so it was all good. The guy I'm with now is packin some serious sh*t! But even if he wasn't I would still love him and compliment him .. I'm sorry she said that to you.

You should ask her does the size cause a problem, if so, marriage should be out of the question.

It's going to take you some time to get over what she said. Everytime you guys are intimate, you are going to be thinking of that. Maybe hit her with a low blow. Teach her to hurt people that she loves.

[timetowaste]

Wow, wtf. That's really kind of messed up. Even if she really felt that way, it was still a bitch move to say something like that to the man she plans on marrying. Those things emotionally impact and it's hard to look at everything the same after someone makes such a low blow at your self esteem. Very insensitive of her. Never, not once, have I been in a relationship with someone that I loved.. and I wished they had a bigger penis. That's really sad, and I'm sorry that she said that to you.

[Belleast]

It is hurtful and shocking to hear something like that coming from someone who you are gonna spend your life with. Sometimes size does matter but not always. Perhaps you should have a heart to heart talk with her about her wishes. Does it really bother her or not? From her answer, you should be able to know what your next course of action will be...

[LLEB007]

I’ve heard that it’s more important to girls for one night stands than in a relationship

[Julia_Dorst]

Well, it's kinda blunt to just come out and say that. But just look into things, I mean you're engaged, and try different positions ;)

Good luck

[TC123]

Imagine if the guy you were engaged to didn't want to have sex with you and told you that your ass was too big/boobs too small/ any number of things that you don't say to a lover. Would you still want to marry him? Hell no! If that's how your relationship is now, just think of what your marriage is going to be like! Stop, and do not pass "GO"!

[TheMightyWind]

Maybe marriage isn't for you guys?

[Carping]

All I can say is that if you two do get married, you gonna have one hell of a hill to climb

[Littletad]

Wow, that's a bit messed up. Sorry to hear that. She should be happy with what she has. You can simply tell her, "Well, if you're not happy, there's the door". Good luck.

[CuriousEddie]

I guess you could satisfy her need with a lifelike dildo... or, if you were okay with that, a threesome.

[TrailOfTears]

Dont let it get to you.. The size of the d*** is really not all that important. Try learn how to multi-task (kiss, rub her nipples or even clit while you have sex) and also learn the magic touch or hit the g-spot. There is allot of ways you can drive a woman "mad" :)

[G_GTom]

The only difference between the woman you're with and other women is that she said it. Other women are thinking it, but just don't say it -- both sets of women have the same feelings towards you, so I don't see a difference between them.

So, why would I want to date a woman who preferred the size of another man's penis? And why would you?

[slsmith0]

has she done a guy bigger than you before you see that might me the problem

[noneedforusername]

We was each others first sexual partner.

[slsmith0]

wow that's insain I would try to have a talk with her without the TV on and see if you all can work on it. maybe its just a pleasure thing, she not getting enough, or maybe she has just got to loose, kegals, or vibratores might work for her. I know my wife does kegals and it keeps her tight for someone that's gets a lot of sex.

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