Why do women let men degrade them?

[Anonymous]

Whether they easily give men casual sex, cyber with perverts on this site, or take nude photos. Women let men turn them into sexual objects, why can't we take our respect back instead of degrading ourselves just for male attention. Women care too much about what men think & put too much value in being accepted by men. Why are we doing this to ourselves? Men cannot complete us, we cannot only complete ourselves. But how are we supposed to be complete if we are baring our bodies to the opposite sex? Do you think they respect us when we give it to them so easily? No, they don't. So, why are you letting men degrade you, where is your pride & dignity?

[braindamage2]

Ok a few things...

1. I have had casual sex. It was also casual sex for the man. It was not degrading to me and if you still think it was that means it's degrading to him too

2. For you to say that when men have sex they are men but when women have sex they are whores makes me think you're the one degrading women. I know that there is a double standard and some people call women who have whores but that isn't women letting men degrade them, it is the people calling them whores degrading them

3. With my boyfriend I like to be submissive in bed a lot of the time, and I do send him naked pictures but I'm not degrading myself, I do it because it turns ME on and I know he loves and respects me

[Asker]

1st of all, society is the 1 saying it is okay for men to have sex, but not women. The man knows this & thinks he has gotten 1 over you. He has what he wants from you now, you can be thrown away like nothing. 2nd, I'm trying to help women stop degading themselves. I care about women & I'm tired of seeing them used. 3rd, you having sex with your boyfriend is different than casual sex. Although you need to be careful sending pics because he could show those to his friends or post on the web.

[braindamage2]

That's really generalizing men maybe you have only met douche bags or something. Andanyway society is to blame for calling who have casual sex whores. Not the women themselves. I'm talking abt before I was with my boyfriend, I was horny and had casual sex. I don't feel degraded by it and if society wants to think I'm a whore for it then fine but women get horny too and I know I'm a strong woman and I respect myself and so do other people. I can see where you're coming from but I really disagree

[braindamage2]

Also I don't have casual sex to feel better about myself or to feel wanted (even though it does feel good to be wanted) but I do it because I'm horny! Lol

[Socal99]

After reading what you wrote I remember talking to my neighbor across the street a couple days ago and he was telling me that the real cute girl he brought over wasn't just the only girl he brings over and he showed me a picture of her and of another girl he brought over and then a couple months ago he brought another girl over and I said wait a minute why are you banging all these chicks and he's like look at them they're hot. He goes the one thing that pisses me off is one of girls out fucking banging guy after guy and I said wait a minute you're doing the same thing though you're banging girl after girl after girl and he goes yeah I feel like a male slut but it's not wrong for a guy to do that it's wrong for a girl to go out and fuck every guy she can and I said well that doesn't make any sense though. I said you're only 29 years old and I'm 46 and I sure the hell I'm not out banging chick after check and for you to call yourself a male slut and you feel it's okay for a guy to do that but it's not okay for a woman to do that that makes no sense you sound like a fucking idiot. I said it's just as okay for her if she wants to as it is okay for you I guess. Doesn't make you either one of you that way unless you feel it does but she's not in the wrong for doing it and he was like of course she is. I think something's fucking loose in his head like he doesn't fucking get it

[mormollio]

All women aren't the same, If a girl thinks that taking her clothes off and spreading eagle is gonna solve all of her problems she'll learn her lesson. Both men and women get used. They're looking for certain things in the wrong places, they'll catch on eventually.

[Anonymous]

Don't you think girls want to have sex too? It's enjoyable for both ya know, I'm sick of people saying only guys want to have casual sex and girls just do it cause they're insecure or whatever. Girls get horny too you know

[unt0uchable389]

haha girls do the same thing to half the guys in this world. They use them. Not sexually, but for social gain, attention and fiscal benefits. How many times has a girl used a guy for money/dinner/jewelry/attention, luring them in with the unstated promise of sex and after the woman got what she wanted she left. "That was a really nice dinner and everything and I love the tiffany bracelet but I have work tomorrow and I have to get up reallllyyy early so uhh.. bye!" Leaving the man feeling used and unfulfilled. It happens more than most people know and it follows the same principles. So stop playing the victim. We get used just as much as you guys.

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[Asker]

I'm not talking about men. I'm talking about women, & they let men use them for sex just to for acceptance. I'm sorry some women use men, but I think those women are hurting themselves just as much as they are hurtng the guy. When you don't have sex for love, you are belittling yourself.

[dtaijo174]

I actually agree with a lot of what you say. It really sucks to be looking for quality women when so many have done just what you are talking about.

I think the biggest lesson for women on this site is to be WAY more conservative. Giving it out like candy on Halloween will cause the guy to respect you less... Plain and simple.

[Asker]

Thank you

[cahdee]

For the right guy, doing that stuff is amazing and gets you MORE respect. I think my wife is awesome, one reason for that being she can handle anything I want without being prideful or thinking she’s too good for that. It’s super hot and I treat her great. The problem comes from doing sex things with guys who don’t love you and aren’t committed to you.

[GingerGuy]

I think it goes with women's desire to feel desired and attractive and the attention seekers. If it means nudes to get that attention, they'll do it sometimes.

[cutekid]

All women are nt d same...

[Lucky1227]

There is something hot (to me) about being submissive to a guy.

[Asker]

It won't be that hot when your used & thrown away like a piece of garbage. Once a guy has what he wants from you, he won't need you anymore. If you don't have respect, you have NOTHING.

[Lucky1227]

I have nothing I guess

[carlstatlin]

you should re post this unanonymously so we can match wits stupidass.

[Asker]

You'll lose everytime. But I'm not about winning, I'm about teaching. And you cannot be taught because you don't respect women. I'm done with you.

[carlstatlin]

your a sacred simple minded little girl that can't admit when she has been beat. I respect people that respect me, you don't because I'm a man. a man that's not sacred to call it as I see it.

[dudeman]

your like one of the only intelligent women on this site

[Asker]

Thank you. You sound like a good guy!

[dudeman]

i try to be. I am a d*** and I do wear that label proudly

[Mayflower95]

at least you're not belittling people. male or female, everyone deserves respect

[hellononame]

having sex =/= being degraded, silly little girl.

[Asker]

It is when your turning yourself into a sexual object. When men have sex, they are still men. When women have sex, men call them whores. They feel like they have conquered her. She has given a pierce of herself to him that she can never get back.

[hellononame]

you are very much overthinking things. if you feel that way, just don't have sex at all and you won't feel that way. or when you feel you've matured and found a right person, realize that sex is just a form of intimacy and fun.

[Asker]

I'm not talking about having sex with your husband. I'm talking about having sex casually with men you don't even know. Also, giving naked photos of yourself to random men, where is the self-respect in that. You shouldn't just give your body to anyone.

[Anonymous]

While I may agree with a bit of what you've said Fuck feminism, nuff said!!!

[Anonymous]

Because they know their role. learn yours.

[Asker]

You are the reason women need to stop giving themselves to men. You make me sick you sexist pig!

[Opinion Owner]

thank you. took my bitch a few times getting slapped around to figure hers out. don't worry you will figure yours out someday. it takes women longer because they have smaller brains than men

[Asker]

Oh, so your a wife beater. Any man ever put his hands on me, I'd break him in half. I don't let men downsize me & don't let pussys like you have control over me. I would ruin you, and I hope your woman learns how worthless you really are.

[Opinion Owner]

wow

[Opinion Owner]

pretty sure I would close my hands for you and she's not my wife she's my ho-ma, I call all my bitches ho-mas. you should try not being such a ****

[Asker]

And you should try not being a ho-ma beater. I'm not like the women who let you hit them, I'm a fierce woman & would break any man who ever tried to put his hands on me

[Opinion Owner]

you just keep telling yourself that stupidass.

[Asker]

Look, don't start a fight with a feminist unless you can handle it. You are too uneducated to match wits with me. Why don't you stay home & drink a beer while women take over this planet because you couldn't realize how strong women really are.

[Opinion Owner]

ha finally got it out of you. you think your better than a man when in all actuallity we are equal. shows how simple minded you are. I don't beat my spouse nore would I ever I just wanted to bring out the real reason you posted this stupidass.

[Asker]

Women are better than men who beat & degrate women.

[Opinion Owner]

not ones like you. if you want to match wits I will win every time because you are a simpletone. just proved it and would be happy to again and again.

[Anonymous]

You sound like you need to get laid.

[Asker]

why don't you die or something

[Asker]

F*ck you, a**hole