we love women who are sexual- she can be "bad" but ONLY for her man. we don't love sluts-we do not want to settle down and start a family with a slut. sluts are the ones who die alone beacause no man in his right mind would want to marry one.guys just want to have sex w/them and never see them again-thats it. a guy just needs a monagamous girl who can be bad-thats what we love.
i understand everyones comments--but this is what I'm saying "the good guy" who most girls would want to marry -will most likely not even want to get into a relationship with a girl who banged everyone under the sun...
so the "slut" will have to settle for the scumbags for any type of relationship or marriage because the good guy not want them- that's what I'm saying- geez
kinda like on MAURY--EX. when thers 3 guys and one slut who caliming one of them, is the father of the child --when the results come in and the 2 who "are not the father" jump up w/joy- they are very happy-becuz no man wants a long term anything a slut
I'm going to tell you truth. Men send mixed signals. When men are young, they are not looking for a long term relationship/marriage/the whole nine yards. They are just looking for casual sex or a less serious relationship with sex. When they get older, they start looking for the right thigns as they start to settle down. Until then, men always go after the sluts because it's easy free sex. The women who are "good" girls don't get attention from men. They don't understand that men have to go through this stage & think men only want women who are easy. So many women degrate themselves by becoming this because they desire male companionship. Other women, who are willing to compromise theirselves, learn to live without men & later learn that they are actually what men want. Unfortunately, a lot of women are under the impression that they "need" a man. So they compromise themselves so men pay them attention, the think they are becoming what men want. Only the strong wait for men to mature & start looking for the right girls. Women don't actually understand men that well, so they don't know how to read these mixed signals.
The way I see it, guys who are not wanting to settle down are the type of guys who "love sluts." Not every guy out there are guys like you just described who want to find that perfect girl who can rock their world in bed and blow your mind. Some guys just want to "live in the moment" and fool around, which isn't wrong to begin with but they aren't the type of guys I would prefer. As for sluts... same as guys, girls want to have fun too with no attachments. But those girls tend to be amazing in bed and have a strong sexual appetite (like most guys). HOWEVER, doesn't mean nice girls can't be nasty in bed.
Believe it or not, married couples actually have waaaaaaaay more sex than single people who have casual sex. Isn't that something.
I'm just making a bold statement here but the idea why girls think guys love sluts.. isn't it because guys have the strongest impression from them? I mean they're EVERYWHERE (internet p*rn, magazines, etc). Think about it, we all know that guys watch p*rn, it's a given fact. How can most girls compete with that amazing body? Yea, most of us feel pretty inferior to them. And also, isn't it because people talk about how AMAZING their adventurous casual encounters more openly with their friends than talking about what him and his wife did last night? Fact is.. girls just feel threatened. We feel like we failed to satisfy your sexual needs when your eyes starts to wander and check out this other girl's ass. We naturally feel the need to compete with one another on our physical features and most of the time the "sluts" win. But hey, good girl can be pretty damn good in bed too.
P.S. Nice girls CAN finish. Sometimes they just need to know how to 'strut their stuff' and let the guys know that there's so much more they can offer than amazing sex.
its because guys always go for the sluts, at least in high school and college. we don't think about the long term when its time to settle down, we think in the present. but I mean, I just do me. I'm not a slut, and I don't demean myself trying to act like one to get a guy. its sad that some girls do that but not all of them do. and the ones that do, aren't really, they're just trying really hard and being desperate to get a boyfriend. also, there are some girls that are just really sexual, and you can't hate them for being that way. its not fair that guys can be pimps, hook up with a lot of guys, be commitment phobes and keep that vicious cycle going but girls can't do the same. double standards are annoying too. but yeah trust me, every girl deep down wants to have a boyfriend that they can have when they want, that's there for them, to do the cutesy things but most guys don't want to get into relationships because they want to f*** every girl they can... just my two cents. hope that helped
Sir, honestly, I WON'T EVER marry a man who's f***ed around with girls just for the sex! I'd much rather have a man with a more committed relationship past. So your whole 'marry a good girl after I f*** the brains out of 50 chicks' won't work with all girls with a good head on their shoulders. & having sex Wouk multiple sluts would then make you a slut... Just thought I'd throw that in there!
This question is so f***ing degrading, it's disgusting. First of all, I will tell you now that most of those sweet innocent looking girls who turn out to be freaks in bed, learned that sh*t somewhere. And it wasn't from a f***ing textbook. Most girls have sex with WAY more men then they will ever tell their man because of the ridiculous views a lot of men have on how women should be. It's okay for a man to have slept with fifteen girls in his lifetime, but he wants the girl he marries to have slept with only one before him? Two? What's your limit? What makes a girl a slut in your twisted logic? It is possible for a girl to enjoy sex and enjoy it with many men and then settle down and be a good faithful wife.
This question actually ties in with another question that I just answered. And that is men treat women like there are two categories: sluts and good girls. Basically ALL guys view p*rn and they benefit from p*rn and yet they have no respect for the very actors that provide them their entertainment. I think that's quite sad.
It also goes to show why no one cares if prostitutes get murdered and raped because they're "subhuman" anyways.
As for "sluts", most "sluts" have very low self-esteem and feel they don't deserve any better. They feel the only way they can get a man to love them is through sex. I don't hate them. In fact I feel bad for them.
haha good question but I slept with 9 guys before finding number ten and he said he initially just wanted sex but we're together now nearly a year we have been, am I/ was I a slut ? I regret what I did with those guys but honestly for awhile there I thought guys DID love sluts haha, but yurr right they just want that one little hottie that gives them losts of sex and sex and more sex =p hahahaha... life... to funny =] p.s I like your comment =] very cool.
What exactly is being "bad?" Party girl?Druggie?Alcoholic?Wanting threesomes.Weren't you the one preaching about guys wanting "good girls?"
Let's face it,a girl who sleeps around,as you refer to as a "slut" will get the guys,will get the attention and will finish first.Nice girls don't even finish.At least nice guys finish last."good girls" are the back up,if you can't get the "slut"
Thats all men judge on is the body no one likes a girl who dresses reserved... even though I dresss reserve myself which explains why I am single But I am not going to wear things that expose my undergarments and look like I just walked out of a stripper culb for guys to like me. My body is the way men get it no changing for them
because we believe they prefer they way they look and guys are attracted to what they have to offer (sexually)
If men like women who are not sluts, then why can't I get a boyfriend? I'm nice to guys, I respect my body, why can't a get a boyfriend? I think I'm going to die a virgin, do you know how that feels, depressing & hopeless...
Well I't probably because some guys like to look down woman shirts.
And sluts want that
so then we feel bad
because guys guys them more attention than they do to us
I don't care how many men a woman's been with, if I love her that's all that matters. What you're asking for is a logical contradiction. If you think a woman who's insatiably sexual yet has kept it inside her whole life just for your sake then you're full of sh*t. If a girl has a high sex drive she's going to act on it and express her sexuality just like any guy would. Women are human beings and they have all the rights and freedoms that men do, including the right to express their sexualities any way the see fit.
Who do you think you are telling women to what they can and can't do? I'm getting really f***ing sick of men who think they're doing women a favour when they put out these little public service announcements on her telling girls to keep their legs shut long enough for you to come along. Please. I guarantee you're not that special.
I have no respect for guys that like to preach about "sluts". More often than not they're arrogant, bitter, controlling people and the type of quality women they seek can do much better than that, quite frankly.
You're certainly entitled to your opinion but don't put words in the mouths of other men. I certainly hope you're a virgin because if you're going tell women to keep their legs shut you should expect to be held to the same standard. Otherwise, keep your 18th century values to yourself.
I agree, I've turned down sex with a model before because A.) I found out that she'd sleep with just about anything and B.) she used sex as a coping tool for a bad home life, I don't want any part of a girl like that. Mind you a girl who enjoys sex doesn't classify as a slut because she sleeps with a lot of guys, it's when she basically grabs anything or anyone out of the blue that makes them a slut.
same reason why young guys believe girls only want 'bad boys', 'douchebags', etc
Man of man, what angry responses from women in this board! LOL. Dare I say is this why men are better at chess than women because we have better analytical abilities to see from multiple angles at once BEFORE making a fixated judgment call? The same can be said for man sluts, of which some women refuse to marry...unless he's rich and good looking? Eh? Now how about it, ladies. Tempting, eh?
Oh, I'm such a bad boy!
Well I do like sluts, but I wouldn't marry one...which is why I'm not going to marry at all.