I want to watch my girlfriend with another man.

[jjl6677]

So my girlfriend is a part time bi-sexual and we have been with one of her female friends on a few occasions. She is very sexy and submissive and I have a fantasy of another man being with us because I know it turns her/and me on. She is extremely sexy and has men hitting on her on a daily basis, yet she is insecure. I would love to tell her what to do with him and join in the action with no m/m contact. We picked up numerous guys and had offers but when it comes down to it she has said she doesn't know if she can go through with it. She keeps telling me it has to be the right guy then it might happen. If our experience is going to be a one time thing I don't understand how picky she can be. I see it as I am looking for a third person for her to play with and I feel as though she is looking for more of a mental connection. Does that mean she is looking for more than just a one night fling? Should I stop pressuring her into it and just let it happen and should I be more concerned about what she is looking for? I wouldn't be opposed to another female joining us again and would like to do that again soon. I'm very happy with just the two of us, but with no kids, why not keep it interesting. Any advise would be greatly appreciated!

[Anonymous]

I know your excited about your fantasy and that she might be willing to do something. exciting...You don't know maybe she is going along with you and is not comfortable...I am a woman that has fantasized about other woman ...I love men I feel I could only be with a man...but maybe her experience with another man and you might change things in your relationship...Maybe she feels you will see her in a diffrent way..or maybe she is not comfortable and feels pressured by your sick fantasies...jk..lol..no just make sure its her choice ...and deal and accept what might come afterwards...some things are better left alone... luck to you

[jjl6677]

Thanks ladies, the your viewpoint coming from an impartial third party makes complete sense. I will just let it be and whatever happens happens. Thanks!

[beans]

She might not be comofortable with it, I think you should just leave the matter alone for now, see if she comes up with a person you could maybe do it with, and if she doesn't, you'll know that she's simply not interested in doing it.

[jjl6677]

Thanks ladies, the viewpoint coming from an impartial third party makes complete sense. I will just let it be and whatever happens happens. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

a ha ha ha, ha ha ha, that was a good one, now seriously, what is your real question?

[Anonymous]

I went out with a guy who begged me to do it and let him watch. We did it and its pretty hot. I was really turned on by it.