Is plastic surgery a turn off?

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1. Since the 5th grade I have been very uncomfortable with my nose, it isn't horrible but my profile view is very unattractive.2. dropped from 165 to 115... so did my boobs. I don't want anything 'fake' looking or big, (im still a C) but I need to do something to perk them up... They are to the point where I will not take off my shirt when being intimate unless its pitch black.These are two surgeries I have been thinking about for a while now, and am pretty sure I want to get them done.. But guys, what do you think about girls who get surgery? What would you say if a girl you had a 'thing' with or was friends with got surgery?And, how would you feel if you were with a girl to later find out she has had surgery?

asakurakid · Accepted Answer

OK I'm going to give my honest opinion, you seem a pretty normal person to me I think everyone in life goes through that stage of I need to change who I am, but it is a stage tht will pass over time. in my oinion surgery is completely wrong, I mean you wouldn't be you anymore that's like getting it done and meeting a guy that guy is going to fall for the surgery girl not the real you I think its your body and happyness is for everyone and if it truly makes you happy then do what you must but there will b consiquences for your actions over time you will realize your not you anymore your someone else, if a girl came to me and I fell for her and she told me she had surgery I would feel lied to because I would want to know who the real person is sounds silly but surgery will change your personality to because you will feel more confident to show off your body (in some cases) if you were shy before that is kinda cute to be fair a lot of guys (hard to believe) actuelly don't like girls who are super attractive and like to flaunt there stuff personally I like a girl who is quiet but can have fun, shy about herself because it means I can compliment her and make her feel good about herself plastic surgery won't have the same effect if you complement someone with surgery it won't make them feel good in a nice way it will make them happy thinking they made the right choice I think if you are sensible you won't get it done I think that in time you will find a guy who loves you and respects you for who you truly are and how you look now, its all about originality hope you make the right choice and good look to you in the future mister right is round the corner trust me

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think women who get surgery are way too insecure. It is really not needed. If you had it while I was dating you I might end it, especially if you alter your face which is what makes you so unique. If you did it before I met you and you didn't act insecure about yourself I might not mind. Fake boobs just aren't the same though, and yes I've felt them so I know.

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

Here we go:

1)If a guy likes a girl and the girl is attractive,a guy won't care.They say "if a guy likes you he won't care about your flaws" well guess what?Not every girl makes decisions based on what guys like and if a guy likes you,he won't care about you having had plastic or cosmetic surgery.Contrary to popular belief,if you do your research and find a good surgeon,the results will NOT be butchered,people need to stop watching p*rn and basing their opinions on cosmetic/plastic surgery off of p*rn.Alot of those chicks will take any surgeon because they are desperate to get into that industry.

2)If getting plastic surgery will make you feel better about yourself,then get it.Don't base it off of what the guys on here say.They are going to try to persuade you not to get it done,but the fact is,they haven't seen you naked,most of them haven't even seen a real life chick naked.And you should get it done for yourself,not base it off of what a bunch of guys on a website say.Guys on here say all of the time how sagging is a turn off.So if you can afford surgery and can fix it,do so.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Listen, you're not attempting to pull a Heidi Montag.

Apparently, a lot of men think confidence is sexy, and I agree. If your nose has bothered you for this long, it's not illogical to think that you may be less confident about yourself. Getting your nose done will probably make you more confident. It's a small procedure and it will make you more comfortable with yourself. Making your breasts look the way you want will also allow you to be confident. A lot of men don't understand what its like to have breasts that sag, or simply change from what YOU as a woman prefer.

Being insecure is not sexy. I don't think it matters if guys on here think its a turn off or not because any moderate work done is honestly unnoticeable. Just don't publicize it. Unfortunately, there is a negative connotation to it because society is ridiculous.

It's YOUR body. Unless a man wants you to be insanely insecure in a relationship, this should not at all matter. Again, you're not pulling a Heidi Montag, its within reasonable standards. Do what makes you feel happy.

charmy · Accepted Answer

I used to be very uncomfortable with my boobs and considered surgery, I asked guys what their opinion on boobs was, all of the replies I got from guys, said they prefered smaller boobs, because they said; more than a mouthful is a waste. Big boobs get in the way, can get uncomfortable and attract the wrong type of guys. That changed my thoughts about my boobs and I'm happy with them now. If you definitly want to get a nose job, then go for it, the boob job though... Put a lot of thought into it, things could go horribly wrong and i.m.o you don't need it. :)

dave216 · Answer

Don't get in a rush over the boobs. It's almost a certainty that the 165 will be back within a year or two, that will fill them back up plenty big.

igundownlemurs · Answer

nah its just weird like if you go to the wrong place you're stuck with a worse one...

TheMightyWind · Answer

Jennifer Grey (the girl from Dirty Dancing) got a nose job and it destroyed her career. It goes to show that imperfections are truly beautiful.

bioweapon154 · Answer

Its a sign of insecurity for sure. Besides, size c is still pretty big. Who gives a hell about breast size anyways? You can still rope a guy if your cute enough.

JJDoyle · Answer

If I were dating a girl or if she was my friend and I found out she had plastic surgery I would def think less of her. So insecure that you have to pay someone to cut you up and make you into something you're not.

Anonymous · Answer

trust me, you don't want bigger boobs than a C.  There is a point where you can't find your size of bra at stores.  I have that problem that now, & I wish was a C again.  I'm unfortunately a D going on DD, & I hate it.  I've actually considered breast reduction, but platic surgery is against my religion.  Also, no one cares if your nose isn't perfect, too many people screw up their nose by getting plastic surgery.  Plus, having a crooked or big nose gives you character, Cleopatra who was supposed to be the most beautiful woman ever had a big nose, it's all about how you carry yourself, not about how perfect you are.

Anonymous · Answer

yes, it's a turn off because it is sign of insecurity & you are being unfair to other women who have to live with their flaws.  Stop making it so hard for poor girls to compete, we can't all afford plastic surgery like Pamela Anderson, how is a guy ever supposed to except us ordinary girls when you girls are always getting yourself fixed.  It's just not fair, it's hard enough to keep a guy, let alone when women cheat & get plastic surgery & fake eye lashes.

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