I am a virgin and my boyfriend is not.We are going to have sex soon and he says he wants to start out with doggy style because it feels best for the guy and is more fun for the guy...so is it a good position or not?
I suggest you go on top because that way you can be in control and find out what feels best for you. Which angle, how deep you like it to go, at what speed, etc. Tell him what you like best, he will tell you what he likes, and you can figure out what is best for both of you.
for a virgin that will hurt more then missionary for simple terms the deeper it goes the more painful it can be for a virgin due to so many different factors, plus I always believe in making the first time special, so some candles incents romantic scene you know not a a pervererted scene out of a p*rno movie, and FYI if he getts his back up cus you don't want to do it doggy like a p*rnstar then he ain't worth your time or virginity
Since this is your first time, it really needs to be whatever works best for you. Doggy style is my personal favorite too, but not for a virgin. When you are doing it that way, the man has all the control. He can go as hard and fast as he wants. This IS NOT the best position for your first time. I would have to agree with either you on top or missionary. If you're on top, you have control over depth and speed. If you are missionary, he won't be able to go as deep and you can contol the speed by moving your legs and knees to block him and slow him down. The first time can be painful, but it doesn't have to be really bad. You make sure you maintain some contol and you will be fine. If he doesn't like it...too f***in bad.
Most women do missionary their first time. It is nice that you want to do a position that pleases your partner, but this is your first time. You should be taken into account to, so don't choose something just because he likes it. Missionary really is the best choice because the female needs to be comfortable, it is going to hurt.
My first time was so painful, especially doggy style it's gonna hurt a lot. We tried it and stopped him after a moment, just couldn't stand the pain.
As I know the least hurting position is missionary, women lie down, and legs kind of hugging his waist.
If he can't promise that he'll be gentle, don't give him. First time should be special because you'll remember it forever. He has to respect you a lot, as a virgin, at least during the time you are doing it. He has to be someone that's willing to stop when you ask him to.