Girls, what would you do if a guy tried to grope you?

[Anonymous]

Could any girls please tell me what you would do if a guy grabbed hold of you and made unwelcome sexual advances, like trying to kiss or grope you? What would be the best way to quickly incapacitate him to get him off you and quickly run away? I ask because I've started going out regularly around town with my girlfriends and we've become friendly with a group of other guys who go to some of the same pubs. But there's one guy who's always all over me and he's even started lightly grabbing hold of me and trying to kiss me and get sneaky gropes of my breasts sometimes! He does it in so called 'fun', but I want to know what I can do if one night he goes a bit too far and I need to quickly incapacitate him to get him off me and run away!

[ladsin]

well I'm not a girl but you should tell one of his friends... I don't know about these guys but if I found out one of my friends was making a girl feel uncomfortable I'd let him know to back the f*** off or he's gon end up with his lights out... same with many of my friends. other than that knee him in the nuts and put distance between the two of you AKA run away or get to someone/ some people so they can protect you. Girls should never be too wary and might be a good idea for you to carry pepper spray or even a taser...

[swagmasterson]

If you already told him its not okay then have a friend record it happening and report him to the police if he does it on camera. Mace his ass if you dont get the chance to report him and let your friends know no matter how ashamed you get. This guy is trying to course you into sex which is a form of sexual assault. Lots of men do this but it is illegal

[Anonymous]

You need to forcefully tell him to back off. Then if he still doesn't stop, punch him in the nose with your palm extended like the "raise the roof" gesture. Or kick him in the balls.

[Asker]

Thankyou but he's quite a muscular guy and taller than me too. I'm not sure the punch thing would work too well. Would a kick or a knee in the balls work best do you think? I've never done that before, it would be very painful for him from what I've heard, wouldn't it? Thankyou again.

[Opinion Owner]

It wouldn't hurt to carry mace or pepperspray with you then. I do for personal safety. And maybe it would serve you best to not visit those same pubs where those jerks frequent. And it would be effective as a last resort if no one else intervened or if he didn't stop assaulting you.

[Asker]

Yes, I can maybe ask my parents or friends if they can get me the spray if I need it. We could go to different pubs too although it's a small town like. If I have to do the physical thing you mentioned, what do you think would be most effective between a knee and a kick? I hope I don't have to do that but it would help to know which would be most effective to stop him and help me get away? I think the one that hurts most might be best so hopefully he won't do it again to me or anyone else.

[Opinion Owner]

Either would be effective at incapacitating him so you could get away.

[Asker]

I will get the spray and try to use that, but if he does something and I don't have time to get it out of my bag I will have to do the kick or knee thing. Probably the knee because he's likely to be close to me as he so often is, so a knee would be the most likely and perhaps the easiest to get a quick aim and get more power too. I don't want to hurt him, but if I do then I hope it hurts really bad so that I can get away from him. Thankyou so much for you help.

[JackieTreehorn]

Okay, so, let me ask you this. If a woman jumps on me, trying to touch me. Would I be able to push her off, then, (she still not stopping), punch her in the nose and kick her in the ****? Oh, wait. That's right. Who'd win that court case?

[Opinion Owner]

It's self-defense against sexual harassment. You do whatever is necessary, hopefully, without causing permanent damage.

[Asker]

Yes, that is my concern. I will use the spray first if I can because I know there is no damage, but if I can not do that then it will have to be a knee. But if I have to do that then I think it will have to be very very hard knee to the balls to make sure it's effective, as the most important thing is to get away. So there would be a chance of doing it too hard and causing a lot of pain and possible damage, but I hope not.

[Asker]

I just want to thank you so much for your advice, because the guy was at the pub again this week & he was all over me. He got really close to me & put his hands on my breasts, so I put my hands on his shoulders & kneed him in the balls really hard! He fell to floor in mega pain while my girl friends stood laughing, but I just wanted to get out, so we left. If you'd not told me about that move I never would have done it (and it was a really powerful knee!), so thank you so much!

[GingerKink]

Get some pepper spray. Also, tell him to back off, that you're not interested. If he does it again, threaten to call the police.

[Hartmut]

This is one of those few circumstances where you're perfectly justified in kneeing him in the groin.

[DanielSan]

how about you tell him flat out your not comfortable with it. otherwise he will keep doing it thinking its acceptable and you never said stop so your just teaasing him

[Anonymous]

I would just fart. Loud and angry. Last time I did that, the guy stopped groping me, called me a bitch, and kneed me in the vagina. I fell to the floor and it was embarrassing, but at least he stopped groping me.