I've recently gotten into a FWB situation. We've had sex a few times, but are still learning about what the other likes. I asked him the other night what he really enjoys, and he said he preferred the woman being the dominant one. I get more turned on by the thought of him dominating me, though!
If the answer is taking turns, I'm down. But I'm shy on 'demanding' what I like done (hair pulling, light spanking, light biting, sexy talk, etc.). It doesn't seem to be his style, but really works for me. And during one of our 'sessions', I asked him what he'd like, but he didn't provide me with any specifics (other than oral). He said he felt great with what I was already doing.
I really want to drive him absolutely bonkers, though. ;) Throw me your suggestions--and any advice that may help me ease into becoming more dominant/confident. Thank you in advance!
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if he likes being dominated try sitting on top of him and pinning his arms above his head so he can't do anything. If you guys like 69, try grinding your vagina into his mouth while he eats you out. If you have something to tie his hands together with (tie, ribbon, pillowcase, etc.) you can tie his hands above his head and straddle over him and use his penis as a toy. Rub it against your clit, but don't put it inside you.