Girls, what would you think if this happened with you and your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I'm a little embarrassed at how quick I get a hard on. When I'm making out with my girlfriend I tend to get a bulge going on downstairs pretty fast. I think it's just completely hot to make out and feel each other with our clothes still on. We don't go into sex but just making out will turn me on quick to where I want to have it. Anyway she laid on top of me when we were making out (I don't know if this was on purpose or not so she could feel my bulge) and I'm pretty sure she knows I got a hard on. You could see the bulge clearly in my jeans. I'm not ashamed of my size at all, it's just a little embarrassing that it happens. I don't want my girlfriend to think I'm some sort of sexual beast and that it's the only thing I care about...cause I don't. WHAT DO YOU GIRLS THINK WHEN THIS HAPPENS? I heard that girls get just as turned on too except the only difference is you girls don't get hard ons...you get wet? Is that true? Thank you very much for the help girls!

[selfishstars]

Of course, everyone varies on how much they get turned on by certain things, but yes, girls generally get turned on by making out and touching, and often we get wet from doing that. If I'm doing that with a guy and he gets an erection, it doesn't bother me because it's a normal reaction, and further, it turns me on because I like turning him on and it makes me feel sexy.

[Asker]

Really? Awesome! So even good girls like it when that happens to a guy when they're making out with him? My girlfriend isn't a slut, but she's a very beautiful good girl. You think she would be fine with it and further more probably like it that she turns me on? Thanks for your answer btw!

[selfishstars]

I mean, I can only truly speak for myself. Women are sexual beings too, but people's views on sex and sexuality vary. I don't know what your girlfriend in particular thinks, but there are a lot of girls who enjoy it.

[Asker]

Well she certainly kept on making out with me after "intentionally knowing I had a hard on". I guess that is a good sign that she is fine with it. Thanks for your input.

[superwoman]

I think she's be please by how much your body says she's hot and you want her

[Asker]

Hahah really? That's a good way to put it! I like that! Thanks

[vmw2008]

That's not abnormal at all. In fact I expect it when I'm intensely making out with a guy. We get turned on as well, it's just not as easy to tell with us.

[Asker]

Awesome. So she would actually expect me to get one? Hahah that makes me feel a ton better. So basically when she knows I have a hard on, she likes it? And she's okay with it even though she's not a slut?

[vmw2008]

If she has any idea of how the male penis works, she will not be surprised. And yes, she can like it without being a slut. Be careful with the midset that only sluts are OK with sexual things. It will give you a jaded image of female sexuality and it's simply not true. All people are designed to like sex, including respectable, good girls. You're not a slut for liking a penis.

[Asker]

Haha I get it! Yea I just have the mind set that good girls are GOOD GIRLS. They always say eww when us guys bring up anything that resembles a penis or is a penis. I guess deep down they truly like penis even though they say it's gross? Yea you're right...everyone is designed to like sex and what turns them on.

[vmw2008]

That's a maturity thing. Girls will eventually grow out that. Most of the time girls only act like they think it's "yucky" because they don't want other girls and guys thinking they're sluts. The majority of women, including good girls when they become mature, like sex and the male body.

[Asker]

awesome. Yea I'm with mature women...but they seem to some how side step a funny conversation about about a penis. Anytime there are girls and guys in the circle the girls always say in a sarcastic kind of way "oh that's nice" or "okay! umm that's awkward!". or they will say the classic "eww gross." But I guess it's all to protect themselves from being labeled sluts...just like you said.

[ThisIsSierraHun]

Well, it happens. My boyfriend does the same thing. Actually, this is like, totally what happens. But we really don't care. We try to not make it obvious, because it's as embarrassing for us as it is for you.

[urstruely]

That's so hot. And yeah, we get wet in sistations like that. She felt you because she wants to feel and was horny.

[Asker]

I love that answer!

[StarInTheSky]

Lol you shouldn't be embarrassed. My man gets turned on very quickly too. I think it's awesome how fast he gets a hard on and it does make me wet to know that I make him that hot, that fast.

So it's not embarrassing lol you're normal. ;]

[Asker]

Awesome! By the looks of it..it's actually beneficial to me when that happens! Haha I like it, she likes it...everyone's happy! Thanks for the answer. I just wanted to get some input from the girls because I had no idea what my girlfriend thought when that happened preferably "all girls". I'm glad to know she's most likely pleased by it ;)

[StarInTheSky]

Yw ^_^

[Anonymous]

honestly, I'd be more bothered if the guy I was making out with didn't get one pretty quickly, because up until now they always have ;)